Kitty Style
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Posted:Feb 20, 2015 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 9:58 am
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Saw this pic on another bloggers post....
Had to share... Mrawr!
(and yes... in response to the comment "Don't worry, I don't bite!" I always respond "Too bad. I do." or some version thereof since high school. And I have claws... for pleasure or self defense).
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On Writing the Perfect Profile
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Posted:Feb 19, 2015 9:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2015 2:30 pm
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On Writing the Perfect Profile (the "Do as I say, not as I do" version...)
If you think about it... the perfect profile is rather like a job interview. If all you do is sit there and give one dimensional answers... you're not gonna get the job. Ditto if you look or sound bored, or lackluster. Not enough energy the interviewer will wonder if you'll even show up, too much energy they might think you're a Jack Russell Terrier. (Okay... my bias may be showing a bit there. I'm a cat person. And mid to large size QUIET intelligent dogs - sometimes. And I picture JRT's as bouncy and noisy).
Stating the obvious "I like sex" is a bit like an Accountant stating "I like numbers" One should hope so, else you're totally in the wrong place. I'm not sure I've ever actually seen somebody state "I like sex" (or "I love sex") on their profile, but I've seen versions of it. Also bragging overly much can be troublesome too. Maybe the bragging is true and you really ARE God's gift to women (or men)... or maybe you're just stuck on yourself. Or into one-up-man-ship and not a team player.
Sexually I think most of us want a team player. Win-Win for everybody.
Show enough that we believe you know what you're talking about, but don't beat us to death with it.
Throw a little humor in there... something to make the reader "connect" open up, relax. Laugh. It's a bonding moment.
Share a bit of what makes you YOU. Your interests, hobbies... things outside the realm of sex. Show that you're multidimensional. Employers look for that in employees... if the job candidate is all work and no play... there is a real concern about job burn-out. True: this is a sex site. But it helps make you "real", helps people connect and warm up to you... and "all sex, all the time" gets old fast. At least it does in my world.
The hint of sex interspersed with everything else: great. Nothing but sex: boring. But then again I tend not to stay in boxes or corners very well. Multitasker extraordinaire*.
Also it really helps, just like when writing a resume, to use proper English, check your spelling and use complete sentences. Try to keep it to a single page. Proofread. Then proofread again just to be sure. You truly only get one chance to make a great first impression.
Also: Be real. Be yourself. Relax.
Or you can do like I did on my profile... Accidental Star Wars reference on my tag line. Somebody finally pointed it out... and THAT is why this Trekkie seems to attract all the Star Wars Geeks. Not that I'm complaining... and we all can agree that Firefly is awesome.  The non Sci-Fi fans that wander to my profile apparently do so because of curiosity and human nature to do what you're told not to. "There's nothing to see here" thus they HAVE to look.
I also seem to attract a lot of men with chest hair and those that wear kilts. Kudos to those that send me pics just to prove it lol.
Thanks, Shutterbug404 for the blog idea
* Of course - if I suddenly start working out mathematical equations or brainstorming blog ideas or otherwise analyzing anything while we're having sex... you're obviously doing something wrong. Or at least not quite right haha.
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Are you a Quitter?
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Posted:Feb 18, 2015 5:30 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2015 11:43 pm
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THIS... explains why I don't use bookmarks. Own dozens, never use them.
I ain't no quitter!!
It also partially explains some nights of not enough sleep... I have stayed up till 1 or 2am to finish that book I just couldn't put down. Even though I had to be up at 5.
Oddly... the bookmarks I own typically never leave the book they were in when it was given to me. When I need to mark my spot I typically grab whatever piece of paper or fabric or anything somewhat bookmarkish that first comes to hand.
Do you enjoy reading? Do you use bookmarks, fold the pages, or just power through like a champ first page to last?
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Sunday afternoon
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Posted:Feb 15, 2015 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2015 10:14 pm
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I hear your voice, and I tremble.
Perhaps rubbing nag champa lotion on my skin, and pheromone oil at my pulse points was a bad idea. I was excited enough already without scent and... do pheromone oils really work? I do not know. This is the first I've used it and have no idea how much is the oil, how much your voice, and how much just my mood.
Lying in bed alone thinking of you, your words, the warm sound of your voice washing over me through the distance... my nerves tremble, my skin quivers. My breath is roughened as my body reacts.
Brushing my hand lightly over my breast I'm surprised my nipples have hardened... I feel that light touch ripple through my body like a rock dropped into a pond.
Thinking of you... thinking of me... maybe even touching yourself in turn. I dare not ask, I want too much. I will merely imagine.
Sitting behind you, you leaned back against my chest as we watch a movie. "We're being good" but... I can't. I just can't. Not really... as i massage your shoulders, then slide my hands down your arms, then lightly drag my nails back up... breathing against your neck, nibbling lightly. Biting softly as my nails travel up your arms, then down over your chest to tease your nipples as I whimper with wanting...
My body warm and trembling, my pussy hot and wet... but I'm trying so hard to behave....
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Friday Night First (and last) meet
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Posted:Feb 13, 2015 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2015 8:18 pm
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I'm sure not too many are wondering how it went but... what's that saying?
"I took a shower for THIS?!?"
Actually it's "I shaved my legs for THIS?!" except I didn't. And I only had time for half a shower (skipped my hair).
Ah well. It was a mostly pleasant 1 hour. He opened doors. Bought me tea. Insisted on sharing his slice of cheesecake. Then I promptly ran out of stuff to talk about.
I've been on very nervous, both parties blushing to look at one another first meets and not run out of conversation so soon.
So we wandered the bookstore... he was searching out childhood favorites he wanted to read again, and I found my next sex book purchase (though didn't buy it. Maybe I should have left the sci-fi/fantasy on the shelf and bought the sex book. Might have made a bigger first impression haha).
Has anybody read "Urban Tantra" and have an opinion? Though I should probably use that as a reward for finally reading the Tantra book I already own. I've never actually made it past the Introduction. Not that it's that bad, but it's that GOOD.
"I am a cellular republic"... I hit that part and my mind just wiggs out and the concept so awes and inspires me I stop reading. Maybe I should just skip that part next time and start with Chapter 1 instead.
Back to my evening: our only shared commonality seems to be Pepsi and Piers Anthony "Xanth" novels.
So... we wished one another luck and happiness, hugged, and parted ways.
Totally unrelated, but almost along the lines of "I am a cellular republic"... I went to a management seminar once - talked my dad into going with me. The speaker said "YOU are the enterprise!" and I said "YES!! *I* Am the Enterprise!" and turned to my dad "I want that T-Shirt. With a big print of the Star Ship Enterprise". His response "I'm pretty sure that's not what they meant".
I still want the T-Shirt.
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Meeting People
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Posted:Feb 12, 2015 11:30 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2015 5:30 pm
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How do you determine who to meet?
Do you use logic? Gut instinct? Emotion? Something else?
Do you ever meet somebody because "Hey, that person seems decent enough, why not? I mean... coffee's coffee. I'm going to be drinking one anyhow, why not meet a new person and share the experience?"
I've actually met quite a few from this site for exactly that reason.
OK: That's what I state up front to ANYBODY I meet - for some reason I just can't handle the pressure of expectations being placed upon me, especially prior to meeting the first time. Just relax, expect nothing but friendly chat and a hug, and be happy. If sparks hit and there's more... then we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
That's not to say there aren't a few men on this site that, were they to knock on my door tomorrow (not tonight: I need a shower first lol) I wouldn't jump them on the spot, "My Rules" be damned. OK... I would still try to follow my rules. But any hint at all that they were interested in more... I'd break. In a major way.
I wonder how many of you know who you are? ...though it's probably best to keep it to yourself if you think you're one of them.
Maybe I should stop meeting people because they seem nice enough and not waste my time unless they set me on fire. Mentally, emotionally, or lustfully. But then again one of my deepest and most passionate relationships started with "Yeah, yeah, you seem nice enough but no, I don't really want to talk to you, stop following me around" And now, even 10 years after our relationship "ended" a texted word, a glance across a crowded room, even just passing each other unexpectedly in a hallway after not seeing one another in 5 years and the bond is still there. The love, the lust. (Ended is in quotes because... there is still a bond despite we went our separate directions. My fault - he'd have stayed with me forever)
Well... Happy Friday 13th everyone!
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50 Shades
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Posted:Feb 10, 2015 9:52 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2015 5:37 am
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So... is anybody else considering hanging outside the theater when the movie gets out and selling BDSM inspired toys??
Or is that just me?
In reality I'm too much of an introvert to do that (unless it works!), but the timing of the movie just happens to coincide with "what to do with excess materials lying around my apartment... Pinterest... hey, look, flogger!"
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Profile Views
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Posted:Feb 9, 2015 7:12 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 9:32 pm
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Bloggers are, I believe, more "aware" of how this site works, in general, than the average non-blogging member. But I'm curious:
Women: do you ever get upset over men "viewing" your profile but never messaging you?
Men: I know YOU guys get upset over it (I'm severely generalizing) because I had one guy block me from viewing his profile because I apparently viewed him multiple times a day but when he messaged me I denied it (I never had until he messaged me) then when I insisted No, I wasn't interested in BBC (after I figured out he wasn't talking about the TV station).... "You don't want to fuck it, you don't get to look at it". Another guy is presently commenting that I view his profile a lot "You must like something about it"... He's a new member. I did explain to him some of what the site counts as "views" but he commented about it again.
I don't really dig into "who's viewed me". I only look at the names that show on the quick summary drop down section, I never expand anything. If somebody in that view catches my eye I will go to his or her link. Otherwise... "Okay, that's nice" and I move on. I would never think of calling a person on it, or getting mad about it, or anything.
If a guy "Flirts" then I figure that's a real view worth considering. Ditto if he hotlisted. Still... I don't really worry about flirts that often either. Getting hotlisted motivates me a bit more to check the person out.
The new guy messaging me now seems pretty happy and not upset or anything. I finally went to his profile tonight after the 2nd or 3rd day of him commenting about it. So now I've officially, really, truly viewed his profile.
Does anybody have a "how to write a great profile" favorite blog or article? I really should start a collection so they're all in one spot. I know other bloggers have done so.
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Measure Twice, Cut Once.
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Posted:Feb 8, 2015 10:29 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 10:23 am
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Measure twice, cut once.
Or, if you're rearranging furniture (and space is a factor)... apparently it's measure THREE times, move once. I only measured twice. And "assumed" on the size of one item I didn't actually own yet when I planned this all out (my late uncle's electric fireplace - I "eyeballed" it).
Moved everything from my South wall to my North wall today, and I'm mighty happy with that (I created a "Hall Tree" out of 2 bookshelves and a hope chest. I've always wanted one of those). Then discovered my sofa apparently grew 2 feet in length (it's going against the now vacant South wall as soon as I figure this mess out and get men over to move it for me) and the Western wall in my living room shrank by 1 foot.
I've never really "rearranged" furniture in my living room before because everything was exactly in the only place it possibly could fit. Until I magically came up with a brilliant new idea last month. Apparently I need to get my money back haha.
I need more weekend.
Saturday evening I felt melancholia setting in, but... a solo Shakira Dance Party fixed that. I danced till 1am, then repeated this morning. I need to get a good collection of "Just can't sit still even if I wanted to!" music.
What music (genre/artist) makes you get up and dance?
Once my rearranging is done--if I'm able to work around the issues above--I'm going to have more than double the seating for guests, a window seat I've always wanted, and a nice area for dancing. Or exercise. Or cuddling in front of a fake fireplace (real is better but... it's what I have). And the aforementioned "Hall Tree". I'm so excited by the changes... if only I can make it WORK.
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Words Matter
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Posted:Feb 6, 2015 11:40 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2015 10:45 pm
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I saw this online and thought of this site...
Happy Friday!!
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Hiatus
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Posted:Feb 5, 2015 5:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2015 9:01 pm
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Apparently I'm not going to be here much this week. Hope next week is better.
This is the week of crazy overtime. And Hunting Stuff Down.
I spent my spare time over 4 days looking for a vacuum belt which nobody in town carried, and researching vacuum brands, reading reviews, etc. I now own a new vacuum.
Now my free time is being taken up with my doumbek debacle. The one I want, the one I saw out of many 100's online... that ONE that set my heart on fire with longing... is not so hard to find but impossible to buy. I've bought it twice now and had my money returned as they discovered they didn't really have it anymore. I've not given up though and I'm still looking for "The One" or worst case scenario "One I like well enough and at a much lower price to make up for the differences".
I feel like such an imposter going in to the music stores. I've never actually played a drum before, never held one... only danced to them. And I drum on tables, chairs, steering wheels. There are so many styles, different drum head types, different sizes, different materials they're made out of. How do *I* know which I'd like best? So far nobody thinks me too shallow going for "The pretty one" lol. I've done quite a bit of research so I think I know the kind I want most but I could be wrong.
Just gotta remember... the journey is half the fun.
Hope everybody has an amazing week!
So wish me luck
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Missed the Boat
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Posted:Jan 30, 2015 6:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 10:51 pm
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I hate when I miss the boat.
Read a blog post and reply then realize the person wasn't talking about what I thought was being discussed lol.
Or I take a joke as totally serious, or vice versa.
Somebody blogged about "Can you keep your Faith and still walk with the Devil"... and dang it, if that's not one of the things I'm passionate about! (To give proper credit: [post 3573769] by CallMeKellie)
Satan as a misunderstood being. Rebel. Outcast. Proud. Betrayed. Perhaps not truly betrayed, but he felt he was. Of course not all religions believe in Satan / The Devil. And then there are those who don't follow any religious path. It's probably safe to assume they do not believe in "The Devil" if they don't believe in "God". Unless it's a generic term for the underbelly of society.
I really need to sit down and write about this some day. I've been passionate about it for at least 15 years.
Essentially: Satan is a scapegoat. He doesn't "make" people do anything. He just dances along, points out easier paths, hey doesn't that look like fun? and "why not? What's the harm" etc... he misguides and gives poor suggestions but he doesn't force anybody to do anything. And then the whole phenomena of movies and such and "Aah!! It's the devil! Let's run to a church for protection. Whip out the cross! Hold a bible up!! Yes... that will scare him away!"
In both Christianity and Islam (I'm not studied up on Judaism but I think they don't believe in Satan. Nor do most other religions)... Satan hung out with God in Heaven prior to God creating Adam. It was God's commands in regards to mankind that caused Satan to rebel. Pride. Arrogance. Anger. Hatred. That all came later. But more than any human... Satan knows God. Knows the bible inside out, upside down, and backwards. Because he was there before it was written. And when being written.
I can just picture it... an old time cowboy whipping out a cross... and Satan "AAAAAHH!! Nooo!... oh, wait... ahaha... wooooooo! do it again..."
Yeah, yeah... I'm totally screwed up. I sympathize with the devil.
Hell... (speaking of the devil... hahahaha)... I can't decide if to post this or not. (thanks, callmex1000 for pre-reading and giving your opinion... posting with your confidence).
Original meme with misused / misspelled words has been replaced. To sum up the words on the original image: "Love is between to beings, not against the world"
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