Store dressing room fantasy???
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Posted:Jul 20, 2010 10:07 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2010 6:09 am
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I think the store dressing room fantasy must be the most popular one listed on member profiles. For the life of me, I do not get it. Oh, I understand the part of possibly being caught or overheard being arrousing. But, most of the dressing rooms that I've been in are foul smelling and rather dirty. I thought of this on Sunday morning when I was one of the first shoppers in Macy's. Even first thing in the morning, and the area had an odor I find similar to a locker room.
Maybe I just haven't been shopping with the correct man.
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Do you have concerns about having a discreet relationship? What if...?
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Posted:Jul 18, 2010 12:20 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2016 11:01 pm
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My lover and I were talking this morning about "what ifs". It came up that due to our discreet relationship, a time might arrive when one or the other of us might disappear on the other without warning. How does one deal at that point.
Apparently, this was one of the first times in our relationship that he's given it serious thought. I on the other hand, must have a morbid streak and worry about these types of issues routinely.
What I didn't tell him is that I already check the obit section of the local paper on a daily basis. It's a family habit I inherited from my grandfathers and dad. Obviously, it's a sex-linked recessive trait that is only now showing in a female. LOL
I've given it much thought. At first, I knew I would not be able to go to a hospital to see him if he was ill, nor to a wake or funneral if he had passed on. I wondered how I would deal with my own grief. Who would I turn to for comfort?
I've played in my mind with the possibility of attending services as a discreet visitor in the background. But that would be a betrayal of all that we have been to each other. So, I know that when the end comes, we'll be alone in our grief and with our memories.
It's sad to think about, perhaps you even think it morbid of me. But I'm not depressed by it, for I know my life has been so much enriched by having him in it. Years of escaping together, commiserating, and supporting each other have been worth that which is inevitable in the end.
What are your thoughts and/or concerns? What if...?
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What is about music that gets to us?
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Posted:Jul 13, 2010 8:12 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2013 9:18 pm
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On Saturday night I went to hear the Moody Blues at Bethel Woods. From what I could hear and see around me, most of the audience was moved in similar ways as I was to the music. There were songs in which the entire au
dience swayed in unison, or shouted approval to the lyrics.
"Isn't Life Strange?"
"Your Wildest Dreams"
"Question"
These songs brought the audience to their feet and evoked emotion.
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He loves me, he loves me not.....
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Posted:Jul 9, 2010 11:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2010 11:59 am
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As a , we had silly games for convincing ourself that we were loved. Probably the most common was the daisy and plucking a petal and saying with each pluck "he loves me" or "he loves me not". Another that I remember was turning the stem on a piece of fruit, while reciting the alphabet, your true love's name began with the letter you reached as the stem fell off.
Did you have any silly games or rituals like this when you were younger?
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The Random Manifestation of One Woman's Sexual Emotionality
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Posted:Jul 9, 2010 10:55 am
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2016 11:08 pm
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For many years I understood my sexuality. I was a married woman and I made love to my husband.
And that was pretty much the whole of it until this decade. And then life got complicated for me. I became an internet user, and I welcomed the flirtations of certain men, and I began to explore my own body, and to read anything that I could about sex and sensuality, and I tested the waters.
I could use a diary to release the thoughts that I need to express, but somewhere along the line I realized that I feel better when I commit my thoughts to the world. So, welcome to my blog and I hope you enjoy, find wisdom, laugh a little, perhaps cry with me, or leave me some of your wisdom.
This is my blog, a space where I hope people will share their thoughts, ideas, musings, etc....
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To link to this blog (ladyj_1957) use [blog ladyj_1957] in your messages.
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