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Lady J's Musings
 
The Random Manifestation of One Woman's Sexual Emotionality: hopefully this will become sort of an interactive diary, where we can share.
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Is this a sexy look, or not?
Posted:Aug 16, 2010 8:30 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 7:51 pm
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Do you find this look sexy, arousing, entincing?
Or, is it best left for nights when I'm alone?

It is ever so soft and feels good against my skin. The fabric is such that darker areas of my skin (aka, my nipples) show through. I find it romantic and sexy, but I was told that it looks like it belongs to Little Bo Peep.
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All's Well That Ends Well
Posted:Aug 16, 2010 3:12 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2010 2:00 pm
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I had a great weekend. It ended on a high note. Someone I chatted with swung things around for me. It was a simple little flirty chat with lots of silliness. But across the miles I was made to feel wanted.

xoxox xoxox xoxox xoxox Happy Monday!
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Instead of the perfect weekend, I...........
Posted:Aug 14, 2010 11:44 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2010 1:47 pm
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Got up early because I was worried about something. Took care of the matter and crawled back into bed hoping to get some more ZZZs. It didn't work out, the family was hungry. A batch of pancakes later, along with the first load of dishes for the day, I was able to finally get my shower. But, for most of my shower the water remained tepid at best.

I made some beds and vacuumed the house before I heard the first grumblings about "what are you making for lunch?" A word to the wise, your answer should never be "what would you like" if there are multiple people involved. Three separate lunches later and I was transferring the second load of laundry over to the dryer.

Time spent cleaning a couple of bathrooms. It struck me today that I no longer clean them the way I did a few years ago. I used to always clean my bathroom first thing on Saturday morning, in the nude. It made a grubby job seem a tiny but sexy. And it was practical, after I got all grubby, I was all ready to hop in the shower.

At some point I told my husband I had to sit down, and he joined me in the living room for the end of "The Proposal" with Ben Afleck and Sandra Bullock. And then we saw the beginning of some movie with Gerard Bulger and Hilary Swank (PS I Love You????), until I fell asleep.

Okay, I won't bore you with any more details. Just wanted to point out the I fantasize a much more romantic life than one actually leads.

Even when I do something perfectly romantic, it is flawed. My husband told me that he was changing for dinner. Translate that to "you may want to wear something better than that". So, I changed into a pair of black slacks and a sleeveless low cut, body hugging black top and wore an open paisley summer weight cardigan over it. My pendent hung just at the top of my cleavage (courtesy of the new padded bra), and I pulled the sides of my hair up to expose my neck and ears.

I was immensely satisfied when my husband face told how much he liked the look. And my looked away blushing and said "Mom, there is a here". We arrived at Bonefish (after stops at the bank, cleaners, and drugstore) by 6:30. Drinks, appetizer, meals, and even dessert later we exited the restaurant just as they were dimming the lights for mood. I'm sorry, but there was just something very non-romantic about leaving the restaurant before the sun had fully set.

And because that really wasn't enough to ruin the mood, my husband and had a disagreement on the way home. My husband stepped out of the car and touched mill work he stained this afternoon (yep, the kind that was still wet), getting it all over his shirt. And then, on the way into the house he noticed a small plastic bag containing emergency supplies for my . The small juice box had exploded and was running down onto my husband's pants. And you get the picture, red juice on sand colored pants. What else could it be, another living end moment for my husband.

And finally, when all was well and we were all crawling into bed, my yells that his foot is bleeding. My husband tells him to come here and Mommy will take care of it. Great move, blood from the hall bath all the way through my room. And let me tell you, my was a "little man" about this wound. His eyes welled up, he shook, and pulled away when I sprayed antiseptic on it.

I have one question. How did we have an all male army up until this generation?
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What is you vision of the perfect weekend?
Posted:Aug 14, 2010 4:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2010 3:15 am
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Friday night, margharitas and dinner at La Peurta Azul. A drive north, stopping at a spot overlooking a great view to look up at the stars and make out. After that it's onto our hotel for a night of romance, sensual pleasure, and orgasmic delight.

All the elements are there; crackling fire, mood music, a bubbling jacuzzi, chocolate covered strawberries and a nice wine. It's the type of scene they speak of in articles espousing how to be romantic.

Saturday begins with a late morning breakfast. Perhaps we'll fall back into bed to try a position we missed overnight. When we face the day, it's a shower for two. It's been a very long time since a man washed my hair for me, so the feel of his fingers rubbing my scalp at wonderful.

It's Autumn and the grounds are ablaze with New England fall follage. We set off for a drive up Route 7. We stop at a waterfall and an apple orchard, where we have a midafternoon picnic and some fun on our blanket table.

A moonlight walk on the chilly night proceeds our dinner in front of a roaring fire. On the way back to our room, we stop in the bar for a drink. Two couples are dancing to soft music. We join them on the dance floor. I look up into his eyes and tell him I want him.

Dawn breaks, sunshine showers in on our entwined bodies, housekeeping keeps passing our door hoping the "do not disturb" sign will finally be removed. We slept past check out time. Oh well, I'm sure it isn't the first time someone has.

We head home. Later.
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Aroused By Another Woman
Posted:Aug 13, 2010 12:39 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2010 3:20 am
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Yesterday I had a yearly routine gynecological examination and I found myself very aroused during it. It isn't the first time this has happened, about a dozen years ago I actually came small bit while the doctor was wiggling the speculum in me. That though I attributed to some inappropriate wiggling on his part.

And, what set yesterday apart from any other experience was that the doctor was a woman. I liked the feeling of her fingers in my ass and vagina during the pelvic exam. And, when she moved on to the breast exam, I totally relaxed and fear that I may have purred.

I have always wondered if I could participate in a threesome. I now know that I would be fine with another woman. Still to be evaluated, and probably the deal breaker, is whether I could handle the jealousy of seeing another with my little pal and guy.
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How important is sex to you?
Posted:Aug 12, 2010 7:48 pm
Last Updated:Aug 30, 2010 2:39 pm
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Being truly realistic, where does sex fall on your hierarchy of needs? Does it seem to become more enormously important to you as you don't get it, or do you shove it on a back burner for sanity sake and ignore it?
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The Topic is Double Standards or Hypocrisy
Posted:Aug 12, 2010 11:31 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2010 7:40 am
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I just had a private conversation with a guy about how many women want an VisionPersonals.com friend to be faithful to them, and they want the whole emotional component of a relationship. Where as, many men come here looking for ONS, FWB, limited time relationships, etc.... He was claiming these women are hypocrites. They cheat on their husband and then look for fidelity in a FWB, lover, affair person (whatever term you use).

I said yes they are, but so are the men. They are out sluttishly fulfilling their sexual desires, but would be appalled, angered, and heartbroken if their wives sought the same freedom.

Double standards exist, and they will continue to until we stop rearing with shame and secrecy toward their bodies, and sexual expression.

So, I invite you to leave your thoughts, theories, rants, raves, personal experiences involving the subjects (Hypocrisy or Double Standard).

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Has technology improved our life?
Posted:Aug 12, 2010 9:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2010 6:04 pm
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I'm sitting on a recliner near a window in my bedroom, and I'm thinking about the technologies in front of me. Have they improved my life?

There is this lap top, hmm we can't even begin to debate that it has improved my life. I have friends around the world that I have never seen face to face. Hey wait, what kind of friend is that? Is it genuine? Is it an improvement?

Well, there is my cell phone, that most certainly has improved my life. My best friend and I can text each other all day and stay current on each others lives. In the old days, we needed to get all primped up to meet and over lunch discuss the possibilities of the day. Now, I can send hugs and kisses whenever their needed. XOXOX isn't that an improvement?

Share your thoughts and examples.......
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Should I Ever See Him Again?
Posted:Aug 11, 2010 10:21 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2010 6:35 pm
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Another date broken. Should I ever see him again? Hell, it is beginning to look like a moot point.
What do you all think? Should I see him again when he can finally fit me in, or not?
Yes, you romantic fool.
No, (please post a reason why I shouldn't)
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Lets talk squirting
Posted:Aug 11, 2010 8:50 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 8:52 pm
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I squirted for the first time some years ago. It was a surprise, at 40+ and two pregnancies under my belt, I thought I was beginning to experience incontinence. Fortunately, I'm not one that always takes things is stride. I sought an answer, a solution, and realized that it may not have been pee.

It's ten years later and I'm still surprised, but surprised by all the mystery, lack of information, and uncertainty that surrounds this phenomenon.
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Body Art
Posted:Aug 10, 2010 2:02 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2010 7:01 pm
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I was just looking at celebrity body art. Some of it was quite beautiful, some of it was rather sloppy. All of it though, required some pain and risk to get there. So, it makes me wonder....

We fall into four categories when it comes to body art:
A- People with it that cherish it.
B- People with it that regret getting it.
C- People without it that wish they had it.
D- People without it that are happy not having it.

Which category do you fall into?
Do you ever think about getting body art?
What body art do you have?
What body art would you like to have?
If you have a tattoo, why did you get it?
If you don't have a tattoo, why not?
What is the best looking tattoo you ever saw?
What was the worst looking tattoo you ever saw?
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I went to Spiedie Fest
Posted:Aug 9, 2010 2:27 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2010 6:06 pm
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Binghamton, NY is not often my idea of the place to be. However, it was in fact the happening place in NYS this weekend, as the 2010 Spiedie Fest took place. When I first heard of the Spiedie Fest I figured it would be a quaint local festival. My reason for attending it was to visit my more than anything else.

The excitement for the festival began to build a few miles from the festival site. Signs offering cheap parking began appearing in every small lot we passed. And people were hoofing it to the festival. My protested that we were still too far from the park and Mommy would never be happy having to walk that far.

We opted for the Festival preferred parking site at Broome Co. Community College. From there we boarded yellow school buses for a 10 minute ride to the festival. We were greeted as we walked through the gates by Senator Chuck Schummer. Now, I'm not very political, nor of a Democrat persuasion, but I do have a healthy respect for those in top leadership roles. So, it was with a sense of pride that I extended my hand.

We spent hours touring the festival and didn't see everything there was. But, I did find out what a "spiedie" is. I was kind of disappointed. I shouldn't have been. A spiedie it turns out is marinaded chunks of meat skewered and grilled. They taste great, but the disappointment came in the fact unbeknown to me, I've been making spiedies for years.

At 6 PM the balloon rally began. I've been to the balloon festival held in Dutchess Co many times and was expecting a similar event. So wrong was I. There were five times the balloons and they all took off within minutes. At one point, I was sitting beneath four balloons fighting for air space just before they took off.

There curvaceousness gently bumping each other. It was an orgy in the sky, like painted ladies grinding their bosoms together.
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Kissable Quotes
Posted:Aug 5, 2010 6:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2010 4:37 am
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A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That's basic spelling that every woman ought to know. ~Mistinguett (Jeanne Bourgeois), Theatre Arts, December 1955

Is not a kiss the very autograph of love? ~Henry Finck

Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can't see anything wrong with each other. ~Rene Yasenek

Soul meets soul on lovers' lips. ~Percy Bysshe Shelley, Prometheus Unbound

A kiss that speaks volumes is seldom a first edition. ~Clare Whiting
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