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The Random Manifestation of One Woman's Sexual Emotionality: hopefully this will become sort of an interactive diary, where we can share.
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Love Quotes; post your favorites here
Posted:Aug 5, 2010 6:04 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 9:19 am
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Love is a butterfly,
which when pursued i just beyond your grasp,
but if you will sir down quietly it may alight upon you.

Nathaniel Hawthorne
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Most Romantic Moments You Can Remember
Posted:Aug 4, 2010 5:34 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2010 5:33 am
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There are moments in all of our lives that we remember with total clarity, many of mine are because I was scared at the moment, but there are some that have lasted through the eons of time because they were super romantic (at least to me).

What are some of your romantic moments?

My first one is from 7th grade. George and I had crushes on each other, but were terrified of it. It was the first school dance, it was getting late and he hadn't danced with me yet. His best friend John comes over and tells me to dance with him, he'll fix everything. He slow dances me over to George, who is standing alone and hands me off to him saying "sure it's alright if you cut in." And that is how George and I became an item for the next two years. His sweaty palms, trembling self and I.

On a crisp autumn afternoon during my senior year of high school, I sat for hours on a log talking to a teacher I had the world's largest crush for. We talked about life, where we wanted to be ten years down the road. And we discussed the what ifs.

Same teacher, sometime later in senior year, at a theme dance, we're dressed as a greaser and his girl. The music for Ringo Starr's "You're Sixteen" comes on and he grabs my hand and twirls me onto the dance floor telling me that he thinks of me everytime he hears this song. He pronounces it "our song."

Fast forward to senior year of college. The faculty of my former high school are having a talent show of sorts (I think some would say it was a lack of talent show). Same teacher from the last two paragraphs is performing "Walking in a Winter Wonderland." His eyes are fixed on me the entire time he's singing. After the show he asks me what I was thinking about while he sang, and tells me he was thinking about us "conspiring in 'Lancer Lot' about our future." Yep, that same crisp autumn afternoon that had meant so much to me, was also in his bag of memories. My heart was aflutter, except there was someone else standing there with us, smiling politely all the time we'd been talking. And now, she chose as a good time to step in. "Hi, I'm Betsy. Phil has told me so much about you." And there was the reality, while I was busy trying to grow up; there was Betsy, the woman I had heard all about. I think she is what some men call a "safety net." His agreement with her was they'd marry each other if neither one of them was married by 30. And that is what he did. He eloped with her about three weeks after I told him I had gotten married.

Brotherhood Winery 1979, Mmmmmmmmmmmm, the tour, the wine, the walk around the grounds, talking for hours, our first kiss, and then the second, third, and a hundred more.

Being given a can of Pepsi (with caffeine and salt and real sugar) after the birth of my first baby. I know, it doesn't sound like much, but it was Sunday at 4AM and we were in a hospital, in a town that went to sleep for the weekend. All I wanted was to hold my and have a Pepsi. My husband somehow found me one.

The roses sent to me at work. Oh, what a stir they caused. It was such fun!

Cards, cards and more cards. Stop with the cards! So, of course, more cards and even more cards until the office was filled with cards and the dart board from the emotional care package. Oh, and of course his gorilla (that I'll never pass on).

Rosita's
River Station
Brass Anchor
Brass Anchor again
Applebee's
Sorry readers, just the names of those places evoke the romantic memories for me. No need to explain.

A summer picnic, a blanket, a hot July sun, lovers entwined....
A fire, table for two, king crab legs, fingers touching, giggles...
Lunch overlooking the river, a walk hand in hand, sweaty sex, followed by spooning, and carressing, and a surprise entrance....

A random public display of affection, a grab at my tush.
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Where are some Kinky and Naughty places to have sex?
Posted:Aug 3, 2010 8:30 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2010 1:50 am
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A nice big cushy comfortable bed is fantastic for sex, but sometimes it's those weird out of the ordinary places that take it up a notch. What are some places you have tried, want to try, or have heard of others trying that fit the bill of kinky and/or naughty?

- a hotel room in the afternoon
- a parked car
- a meadow in the bright sunlit afternoon
- a blow up rowboat, rocking (a huge float will do)
- a tent
- a pool, lake, or calm sea
- boyfriend's bed (kinky when mom is in the next room, and downright naughty when his wife is out of town).
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Have you ever had a sexual playmate with whom your play strictly ruled out intercourse?
Posted:Aug 2, 2010 5:03 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2013 2:11 am
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About five years ago, I was chatting here with a local man. We were both getting very hot and bothered by the conversation. One of us mentioned that a local park would be empty this time of day. It was noonish on a winter day. We decided to meet, but he set one rule, there was to be no intercourse.

I was happy that he set the rule. At the time, I was new to VisionPersonals.com and had never been with anyone other than my husband. I was what I call a marital virgin. So, the prospect of surrendering to this man was made easier.

I arrived in the park and we quickly got busy. There was little small talk, he took his sexual play seriously. He had decided that he was going to role play my father. He had just found me in the park screwing around with my boyfriend. He had a lesson to teach me.

It was sexual play that was foreign to me. In fact, I haven't played like that since. It was rough and not at all loving and tender which I am so accustomed. He pinched my nipples until I was practically in tears. He spanked my ass until it was red hot. And he forced his cock as deep into my throat as he could and held my head in an effort to force it further.

And then he turned sweet and asked it his baby girl got turned on by daddy's cock. But he silenced my answer and told me he'd check for himself. He parted my legs. I guess I was nervous and a bit resistant. He told me not to worry, daddy wasn't going to hurt his baby girl no more.

He opened my labia and plunged in two fingers, and leaned into me to taste me. I must have tightened up, for he said something about baby girl not.... I forget the term, I know I wasn't happy, and certainly not relaxed. He must have sensed it and ordered baby girl to go home.

And that was the end of it. I never saw him online again. I've had conflicting thoughts on the experience. Part of it was exhillerating, and I admit I was turned on at a point. But I left feeling used as compared to having had a shared experience. And, although I won't beat myself up over having done it, I would not do it again.
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Posted:Aug 1, 2010 3:23 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2010 7:29 am
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I need to rant. It was the "living end" last night, or early this morning. I was awaken by my twelve year old . He kept whispering, so not to wake up his father. I couldn't hear him and asked him to repeat himself several times. Finally, the two of us woke my husband. And his bellowing just made it harder to hear my .

"The toilet is running."

What he meant to say was, the toilet was clogged and the valve was not shutting off, so water was overflowing the bowl. And while we were figuring out what he was saying, it was continuing.

So, at 3:30 AM, we are mopping up the bathroom and checking how serious the damage was in the room below. And then down to the basement, where we found even more water.

What has been the worst thing to ruin your night's sleep?
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A Simpler Time
Posted:Jul 31, 2010 6:04 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2010 7:35 pm
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Somebody said something about the simpler times of youth. It got me thinking, was life simpler when we were young? I worried about everything. I could tolerate little. How simple could it have been. I was lost as to my future but consumed with worry. I had no freedoms. I was but a puppet on my parent's strings.

What do you think? Was it simpler, back in the day?
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What do you regret more...?
Posted:Jul 30, 2010 6:30 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 7:42 pm
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What do you regret more, the things you did or what you didn't do in your life?

What are some of the things you regret.
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"If I Could Turn Back Time"
Posted:Jul 29, 2010 5:19 pm
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2013 8:55 pm
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I just heard Cher sing the song "If I Could Turn Back Time." There are several ways that my question can be answered, it is up to you to decide which way to go with it. So here goes......

If you could turn back time, to any time at all, when would you go back to and why?
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Are people inherently good or bad?
Posted:Jul 28, 2010 7:20 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 7:43 pm
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What do you think? Is it your experience that people are for the most part inherently good, or bad?
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Not all those that wander are lost
Posted:Jul 26, 2010 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 7:43 pm
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"Not all those that wander are lost."

What do you think? How does it apply to you? Do you agree with it? Do you find inspiration?
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Summer Fantasies
Posted:Jul 26, 2010 3:50 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2010 7:43 pm
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Summer has a way of making my mind run wild. I'll share some of my fantasies, why don't you share some the yours.
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What do you like best?
Posted:Jul 23, 2010 9:10 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2010 3:18 pm
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What I like best about being with him is:
the scent of his skin,
the curve of his arm as I rub it,
the soft feel of his hair,
how his arms feel around me,
how a big strong man can kiss me so gently,
he has ESP in bed, and senses what I need,
how he nibbles on my neck,
how he's the world's best "knob turner" (LOL, ahh)
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What is loneliness?
Posted:Jul 23, 2010 8:38 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2024 11:37 pm
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"When we truly realize that we are all alone is when we need others the most” Ronald Anthony

“Language... has created the word "loneliness" to express the pain of being alone. And it has created the word "solitude" to express the glory of being alone.” Paul Tillich

“It's getting to the point where I am no fun anymore, I am sorry. / Sometimes it hurts so badly I must cry out loud, ' I am lonely.' / I am yours, you are mine, you are what you are, you make it hard.” David Crosby

“Pray that your loneliness may spur you into finding something to live for, great enough to die for.” Dag Hammarskjold

“We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.” Orson Welles
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