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Just had to share this…
Posted:Aug 21, 2014 9:24 pm
Last Updated:Aug 27, 2014 3:11 pm
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sexysixties2, just got me thinking about this. Sooooo....

Written by: Luther Vandross and Marcus Miller
Performed by: Frankie Goes To Hollywood

THE POWER OF LOVE



I'll protect you from the hooded claw
Keep the vampires from your door

I feels like fire
I'm so in love with you
Dreams are like Angels
They keep bad at bay, bad at bay
Love is the light
Scaring darkness away, yeah

I'm so in love with you
Purge the soul
Make love your goal

The power of love
A force from above
Cleaning my soul
Flame on burn desire
Love with tongues of fire
Purge the soul
Make love your goal

I'll protect you from the hooded claw
Keep the vampires from your door
When the chips are down, I'll be around
With my undying death-defying love for you
Envy will hurt itself
Let yourself be beautiful
Sparkling love, flowers and pearls and pretty girls
Love is like an energy, rushin', rushin' inside of me, hey

The power of love
A force from above
Cleaning my soul
Flame on burn desire
Love with tongues of fire
Purge the soul
Make love your goal

This time we go sublime
Lovers entwine-divine divine
Love is danger, love is pleasure
Love is pure, the only treasure

I'm so in love with you
Purge the soul
Make love your goal

The power of love
A force from above
Cleaning my soul

The power of love
A force from above
A sky-scraping dove
Flame on burn desire
Love with tongues of fire
Purge the soul
Make love your goal

I'll protect you from the hooded claw
Keep the vampires from your door


If you have the Album or EP, dust it off and give it a listen. If you don't, visit Utube, and give it a listen. This song moves me... the music is powerful, the words more so. Let me know if it does anything for you.
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What ever happened to…
Posted:Aug 20, 2014 6:38 pm
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2014 10:30 am
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multiple Grammy winner K.D. Lang

I was just at the grocery store, and heard her magnificent voice singing her biggest hit “Constant Craving”. If you don’t know the song… U-tube it. If you are / were not a fan of Country (sorry Alternative Country) and you don’t know who she is, think… Roy Orbison - Crying… they did a memorable duet together. And if you don’t know who Roy Orbison is well then

Anyway, I started thinking about her… how she and other musical artist, just arrive on the scene to the masses (usually after years of toil); they are heavily promoted by record labels as the flavor of the moment, then dropped like a pair of dirty underwear. There are just so many of them, from Alanis Morissette (Jagged Little Pill), to Color Me Badd (I want to sex you up), to the Knack (Get the Knack). These artist all sang about sex and relationships… but way back when, that’s all everyone mostly sang about. The only one who still seems to sing about sex now, all the time is Ludacris. But I digress.

If you care too, give me your favorite “Flash in the Pan” (and I don’t mean members of the group Flash in the Pan), artists.

TC, I expect you to cover off the disco era.

I leave with the words of what I get from reading all your words, fellow bloggers. K.D. Lang’s, Constant Craving



Even through the darkest phase
Be it thick or thin
Always someone marches brave
Here beneath my skin

And constant craving has always been

Maybe a great magnet pulls
All souls towards truth
Or maybe it is life itself
Feeds wisdom to its youth

Constant craving has always been

Craving, ah, ha
Constant craving has always been
Has always been

Constant craving has always been
Constant craving has always been

Craving, ah, ha
Constant craving has always been
Has always been
Has always been
Has always been
Has always been
Has always been
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It’s that time of the… and you still want to…
Posted:Aug 18, 2014 8:29 pm
Last Updated:Oct 25, 2014 9:09 am
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have sex, now? During menstruation?

Ewwwwwww… I know; I know; you’re either down with it, or you’re not… no middle ground here. It’s messy, the man doesn’t want to get into the menstrual mix… women, you don’t want him seeing that side of this natural monthly phenomenon, so both sides just have this unwritten “no go” pack. But why? Apart from the stigma attached, and as long as you stay away from the heavy flow days, why not? If you know me, you know I am down with it… it’s just a little fluid mixed with some blood, nothing special. There are some very good reasons why period sex rocks.

1. Menstruation fluid is like super lube. You know when a pussy is super wet, and things feel infinitely tight and infinitely cavernous at the same time… like that… only better, much better
2. Women generally are hornier before and during their cycles… I don’t have to tell you, horny and more aroused from the get go is always better.
3. It’s kinky as hell
4. And if you go bareback, and neither party has gone, snip, snip, there is a lower chance of slipping one past the goalie.

Yes things could get a little messy, so lay down a dark towel, and use darker sheets… when you’re done, wash up (this should be standard procedure, period or no period). Voilà!

So are you down with it?
Yea
Nah
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Just a Thought
Posted:Aug 16, 2014 7:54 am
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2014 8:29 pm
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Large Boobs… a curse to healthy living?
Posted:Aug 15, 2014 10:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2014 10:14 am
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One of the cornerstones of healthy living is to get the appropriate amount and type of exercise. The general bill of fare is a stretching routine, some kind of resistance training, and something that taxes your cardio system, both aerobically and anaerobically.



I came across this cry for help on the web:

“I have a hard time exercising sometimes because my boobs are so big. Sometimes I can’t breathe and do certain exercises because it hurts my chest (like running or doing jumping jacks). Also, I can’t do sit-ups or crunches because it hurts my lower back. Can you recommend any exercises that won’t hurt my chest or back?"

I thought I would post this to get input and comments about the challenges of exercise from those who fit the bill.

Ladies, do larger boobs prevent you from exercising?

Have anyone of you found and exercise routine and proper clothing to reduce or eliminate the difficulties?

Please Share
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Confidence Vs. Conceit
Posted:Aug 15, 2014 7:41 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2014 11:36 pm
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Confidence: full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing. Belief in oneself and one's powers or abilities; self-confidence; self-reliance; assurance.

Conceit: an excessively favorable opinion of one's own ability, importance, wit, etc.

The only real difference between the two is the extent of belief in one’s own ability… but where is the line? When members talk about their sexual ability, when does confidence become conceit?



Or is it like this quote I came across: Confidence is believing that you can do something right; Conceit is believing you can do nothing wrong.

Thoughts
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Nudity on a Sex site
Posted:Aug 14, 2014 3:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2016 12:11 pm
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It’s a sex site! So why are people surprised, upset, offended (choose your word) by nudity on this site.



I’m not the smartest person on this site and I’m sure I'm not the dumbest, but it continues to baffle me when I see posts and comments about the level of nudity in profiles and in blogs. This is a sex site, right? If posting nude pictures of yourself in your profile or blog is not your thing… it’s not your thing. I get that, because it’s not my thing too. But if it’s someone’s thing, I get that also, because they have a right to do so… so says the people who own, created and administer the website. If the powers that be were not down with it, they would remove it in a heartbeat.

I enjoy looking at nude pictures of women… in person is better… but pictures work too. Pictures of cocks, extreme close-ups or not, is so not my thing, but you know what… it was not posted for my benefit. Same with extreme pictures of pussy, or tits or ass… no member was sitting around thinking… I wonder if Khu (substitute your own handle here), will be offended by this picture… let me just fire off a message to see if it will offend his delicate sensibilities. I am not at the center of their world.

I get that it is an issue of what you feel is tasteful and respectable, that’s why you call it out… I understand ladies, you don’t want to see an endless sea of cocks staring back at you, as you go about this site. Think about it from my perspective… I’m a heterosexual male… so if the cock doesn’t belong to me, I’m not interested in it. But hopefully here in Blogville you can look past the pic, read the words and get to know the individual behind the picture… or should the type of individual you are be judged solely by your profile pictures? Before you answer that, just remember that to the rest of the world outside of this and other sex sites, we are all tasteless, vulgar, corrupt, unprincipled, nefarious, and indecent individuals, who crave nothing but attention and sexual gratification! That’s the snap judgment because we are here.

Judge not lest ye be judged. PLEASE

Thanks.
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Asexuality....
Posted:Aug 14, 2014 9:05 am
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2014 7:48 pm
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... is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in sexual activity.



If someone is asexual, do they masturbate?

If an asexual person had a mind blowing orgasm... would it change anything?

Thoughts.
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Sexual Orientation
Posted:Aug 13, 2014 10:33 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2014 7:58 am
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WTF VisionPersonals.com!

It’s a sex site, and a “for profit” one… I get that. So you need to run ads and such to generate revenue. So the little side bar, “Free” live Cam Chat ads, ok, you are trying to appeal to my sexual orientation. After a while it just blends in and you ignore it. But when the side bar becomes a man giving another man a blow job, you think typical VisionPersonals.com, random fuck up. When it happens again, and again, and the images become more graphic, group facials and penetration, it becomes a WTF kind of moment.

So what the fuck VisionPersonals.com! Anyone else having this happen to them, were the ads don’t match your sexual orientation, or am I just special?
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Women always want what they don’t have
Posted:Aug 13, 2014 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2014 10:25 pm
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Is it true?



I caught about 2 minutes of the TV show “The Talk”, and one of the hosts threw out that comment… “Women always want what they don’t have”.

The host elaborated…if you have straight hair you want it curly, if it’s curly you want it straight. If you are Blonde, you want to be a Brunette or a Red head, bigger or smaller boobs, shorter or taller, longer legs and less torso, or vise-versa, it goes on and on.

Don’t even get me started on the shoe thing… never enough or the right one.

Was the host right on point?

Thoughts and experiences
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Hating on Apple…
Posted:Aug 10, 2014 9:42 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2014 3:07 am
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I am not a huge fan of Apple… Mac computers OK, it is a very good although somewhat limiting PC. That’s right Apple fans, a Mac is a PC (a personal computer), not a Windows PC, but a subset of the hardware that Windows was designed to work with. It’s not magical, it’s not a better mouse trap, it is limiting. The limiting factor is what makes it more appealing to a lot of people.

Now, before you get your panties in a bunch, here are some simple facts about computers… computers or more to the point, computer design (hardware or software) is just a choice, either or. That’s it. You want something that has fewer problems, let it do less. You want it to do more; then you will have more issues. It’s that simple; don’t believe me. Look at a calculator… it’s a computer, specifically design to do math… far more reliable that a Personal Computer, Windows, Mac, or other boxes running flavors of UNIX or Linux. Do you want it to be graphics based (the route Apple originally took) or texted base, (the route Windows and UNIX took), again a choice that has to be made. Even when it comes to how secure a computer is, there is a choice… the running joke is… if you want your computer to be safe… disable the Wi-Fi and remove the network card… it’s definitely safer that way, you just can’t use it how you normally do. And there is the common misconception that Apple’s Operation Systems (OS) are “safer” than a Windows OS… well it’s not… not according to the CVE or CCE (the organizations that track information security vulnerabilities and exposures). Macs are delivered to customer is a more locked down fashion, Windows boxes are open… if you wanted to (and had the time and know how), you could lock a Windows box down, by disabling features to get the level of security you wanted… or open it up… everything will work, the software and hardware you want, but also the stuff you don’t want. It always goes back to having to choose… the trade off, between simplicity and functionality.



What Apple excels at, once they came back from the dead, was marketing. The real irony of Apple’s survival, (a very surreal twist)… it was bailed out of certain death by a $150 million cash infusion from Bill Gates and Microsoft, back in 1997, to guarantee it’s short term survival. Anyway, marketing… Apple took an almost McDonald’s like approach, “get our customer while they are young… own them forever”. They have done it very well, and the older and younger generations have just followed like lemmings. For the records, I do like Mac computers… for what it is designed to do, it does it very well (all be it a little over-priced IMH… the hate I have for Apple is the “i” everything… iPad, iPod, iPhone. How their business model hasn’t gone through the anti-trust hassles that other have faced is beyond me. Apple fans are loyal, almost like cult members, and my are now members (iPod owners)… and since they are , I have to help then when things go wrong. You own an iWhatever… no it owns you it seems. BTW, I hope all you iFan, realize the iPod is just the digital reinvention of Sony’s Walkman and Discman, riding on the coat tails of the Napster phenomenon. And Tablets were around long before the iPad… the last kick at the can was back in 1999 / 2000… but since they were more costly than laptops, they didn’t really catch on. But I digress.

Back to my Apple hating adventure. So yesterday I pack up my 3 boys, and head off to the giant Mall, where the Apple store is. Being a tech guy, I usually don’t run to the store for help, most computer companies, put all the tech stuff on line, so if you can read, you can do it yourself. The Mall is forever under construction (always expanding and renovating)… I tried to park near the entrance where the apple store is, but no… under construction. I drive around to the other side of the mall, park and saw the sign I blogged about yesterday. I then proceed to drag the 3 through the mall, with the 5 year old wanting to ride up and down every escalator we pass. Get to the store, its packed full of all the Apple cult members. I start looking around for a free person to ask a question, I wanted to see if it was possible to get all the bought and paid for software consolidated onto one of the 2 iPOD 5, my middle owns (an even longer story how he ended up with two). I see a row of stools that looks like a tech support help desk (it says something like apple genius behind it). On my way there, I am intercepted by a 20 something hipster girl (complete with would be Rasta hat)… the genius concierge. She asked if I needed help, so I hit her with the question. Her attitude… well let’s just say her customer service skills need some help. Long story short, what I want might be possible, but I need to book an appointment with the “geniuses”, and come back to know yeah or nay. No doubt, I will be reaching for my wallet, with said appointment. We didn’t even get to the question that my oldest had, before she blew us off. Found another blue shirt, who suggested I “may” be able to find the info to handle my oldest ’s issue online.

So to re-cap… problems with an apple product… it will cost me time and money to fix, and I have to put up with attitude for my trouble. Yeah, Apple iProducts are great… they are easy to use, and very reliable… not so much it seems. But I guess if you are brainwashed into believing so, then keep on believing.
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Adventures at the Mall
Posted:Aug 9, 2014 5:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2014 12:19 am
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A little trip to the big mall today with my boys, to visit the place of all thing i (Apple Store)… pulling into a parking spot in the parking garage, when I see this little gem I just had to share. Study it carefully for the paradox.



Sorry about your luck if you need some help. Hope your iPhone is working.
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Cock Blocking
Posted:Aug 8, 2014 5:12 pm
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2014 11:47 pm
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Have you ever… have you ever done it, or experience it.

We all have that friend… you know the one, that hangs around and won’t give you the privacy to get your Mac-daddy moves on. Or worse the new “fun” acquaintance that was fun to be around and party with… right up until you discover they have that attitude… “I’m getting some, or no one is getting any”.

I have experienced it plenty. The funniest one I remember was in my early twenties. Another night of bar fun… meeting a charming young lady… and hitting it off. Dancing, drinking and cavorting, and chatting about what to do afterwards. As fate would have it, I was visiting a friend; his family was in the hotel business, so there was an available location… the problem was, my femme-fatale was out with her sister… the ultimate clock blocking machine. My friend, the object of my desire and myself were trying to convince the sister to let this happen. When we thought she would comply, she announced “I’m going home right now, and I’m going to tell”.

Cock block successful.



Share your experiences.

UPDATE: OK agreed, are the ultimate passion killer, but they don't kill it intentionally. Share your experiences, where an adult has intentionally cock blocked you.
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