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Blogs > Wssi85Utah > My ramblings & observations...

GROW UP!  

Wssi85Utah 60M
20 posts
7/28/2014 8:50 am
GROW UP!

I read about this type of thing often - but it's usually from women complaining about my gender...

I "met" someone online. We exchanged emails, pictures...then texts and personal emails. Met offline for a meet & greet before she left on vacation. Then silence....

After a few emails/texts I finally receive the following:

I apologize for the delay
But I have made a huge mistake with this

I am sorry ....
Please don't respond back

Now... I get things happen. And people are allowed to change their mind....but no explanation? Are we still in middle school? Why can't we just be adults and simply tell the person WHY?

That's all we need. It's not our fragile egos or need for closure... or perhaps it is? But either way why can't we simply just be honest with each other?

I'm fairly certain it's nothing I did....she may have had second thoughts, found someone else, or even decided to stay with her husband....who knows? But the point is...if you're an adult and on this site dealing with other adults, just be honest.

What is so difficult about that?

Borntobeefree72 51F
2596 posts
7/28/2014 3:54 pm

 As adults I see no harm in expecting a reason for the change. This is a site where one should be able to expect honesty, however often times this and maturity are lacking. Good luck on your next encounter.
Borntobeefree72?* Know what you want, ask for it! The pleasure is worth it.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
7/28/2014 12:10 pm

 I dont think she did anything wrong. Maybe it wasnt the answer or reason you wanted but at least she gave you something. I dont think the reason is relevant. Would that have changed anything? Her reason could have been a lie. Again, her answer might not have been what you wanted to hear, but if you wrote it down here correctly, I believe her answer/reason was an honest one.


Wssi85Utah replies on 7/29/2014 8:04 am:
Maybe you're right - her "made a huge mistake with this" may have been her reason.... but I have no idea what "this" is... me.... my situation, her, her situation, someone else, etc... that was all I was looking for... the reason.

ChocolateDiva44 40F
31 posts
7/28/2014 11:45 am

 We have to take the good and the bad in all areas of life.


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