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Who am I?
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Who am I? Since standard members are unable to view full profiles I was given the suggestion of providing my information here. It will be interesting to see who reads (or cares about) this - as I think people are rapidly reviewing profile pics, judging proximity and throwing out chat messages to see what sticks (if any). I'll admit that I'm guilty of the latter because, without access to the full profile, I may see something in the intro line that sparks my interest and I just truly want to know more. I realize women are inundated with messages from the rest of my gender - a simple "no-thank you" or even a 30 second chat will help us decide if there is anything there to pursue. So- who am I? I realize we all think we're normal but that is all based on our idea of what is acceptable. I'm not 50... the profile age is calculated based on the date I entered when I signed up. As a married professional who desires discretion and a degree of anonymity I didn't think putting my actual date of birth was a good way to start this endeavor. My other physical attributes are accurate. Being on the downhill side of my 40's I think I'm in decent shape. Not the lean mean Marine of my youth, but healthy and working to remain that way or better. I'm educated, traditionally and through world experience. I have my undergrad and grad degrees in my profession, and have lived and worked across the US as well as in Europe and Asia. I come from blue collar roots - paid for everything myself, and am not some privileged jerk who believes he is better than anyone else. I don't smoke, rarely drink (I did my fair share) and believe that chivalry is alive and well. I LOVE women.... and that's why I am here. So, back to the normalcy statement. Some may not consider being unfaithful normal - others may. Being on this site I've experienced a range of reactions when women learn that I am married. Those that are also married seem to handle it the best (go figure). That said, there are things that people do, or are looking for on here that may not be for me, but I still wouldn't consider them abnormal. So yes - I consider myself a really normal, decent, all american type of guy with just this one tiny character flaw... infidelity. We can all justify our actions - but without going into too much detail, suffice it to say that I just love exploring someone. Someone that is free from the stress of my day to day life. No financial discussions, no , no work stress.... just two people forgetting about the real world and escaping into something very raw and basic. It's simply the pursuit of chemistry, passion and satisfaction. That's really it. Who am I looking for? Someone that feels the same as I do. Someone who understands and accepts the "relationship" for what it is. Two people that trust, respect and lust for each other...whenever possible. Physically.... that's tough to nail down as we all have our preferences and idea of what beauty is to us. I've seen some incredibly beautiful larger women but would never consider myself a bbw fan or have that fetish. Conversely I've been with women who would be considered stunning - but the chemistry and passion didn't exist to make it worthwhile. So I'm open to a wide range of "looks" - but will admit that I am partial to a large chest and a pretty smile. I mean come on... I'm a guy. Sexual interests.... too many to list. Now I realize this next part will sound contrived but it is true... I am a pleaser. I "get off" getting my partner off. I enjoy doing whatever SHE enjoys. I've done some things that were not in my comfort zone in pursuit of this but hey.... as long as it feels good and gets her off... I'm open to entertaining the discussion. What is off limits? I have no interest in men. I am not bi, bi-curious or anything remotely involving me touching or being touched by another man. I have been involved in 3sum/more sums where there was incidental contact - but that was the end of it. I am not homophobic by any means - but another guy's cock hold no interest. And to be clear - that goes for any pieces parts of another man. Aside from that I am open to at least discussing new things. I've played around with D/s but admittedly have a hard time doing anything that involves hurting women. I don't enjoy controlling someone but if that is her interest it is something I will and have done. I'm also not actively looking to be dominated but the same theory holds - if it pleases my partner I'm open to the discussion. I will say I have a hard stop with being anyone's toilet (although I have participated in water sports) and, as you can tell from my profile pic - I'm probably the last person anyone wants to see in women's clothing. I'd make a really ugly (and hairy) girl. And on that point - trimmed..... and no back hair. The fur is all on the chest and evidently that's a magnet for every gay or bi-man on this site. Practically speaking - being discreet comes with some obstacles. I am not affluent enough to own a private love nest or rent out a room at the Four Seasons once a week. I have been involved with women who were single and had their own homes.... as well as married women who I saw infrequently and I, of course would handle the expense. To be clear - none of these relationships were simultaneous. I do not have the interest, or attention span to juggle multiple affairs. That's not to preclude an ongoing infrequent tryst with someone out of state when business travel allows.... just sayin'  So.... this is me. I'm not right or left, moderate or conservative....I make decisions based on the issues and am attracted to people based on their own merits. I'm not looking for a love affair, but I'm equally not interested in a piece of meat. In a perfect world I'd love someone in the next neighborhood- grown, single, divorced or hubby away... A LOT. Someone funny, smart, sexual and of course.... NORMAL |
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We should talk! I am interested!
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sounds normal to me, We all have our perception of normal, I figure if there are no bodies in the back yard or deep freeze then you must be normal. Borntobeefree72?* Know what you want, ask for it! The pleasure is worth it.
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This is a great place to tell a bit about yourself. I have always found the blogs to be the better way to meet people around here. If I can offer one suggestion, you should make this post "sticky" to keep it up at the top of your blog so more people can see it Happy Hump day! ...
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I'm reluctant to add it verbatim here because the VisionPersonals.com Police may pull my plug.
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