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Uncalled for behavior
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Uncalled for behavior Wondering if anyone else has had this experience. I met someone - great connection....great chemistry... chat, texts messages even phone went great. Met for a quick meet & greet in public to ensure the interest was still there. We all know that people can look great online but until you meet offline - well, you just can't be sure. The meet went great - set up plans to move forward and this is where it goes off the rails. To be fair some context is needed. Neither of said we were looking for just a fucktoy - we both wanted chemistry and passion.... neither wanting to leave their marriages but also not wanting to simply fuck a stranger. That said - prior to our meet & greet she requested that I stay off of VisionPersonals.com. I agreed but honestly felt that was odd. We hadn't met yet, certainly hadn't any physical contact and while I was looking forward to it I honestly felt I should keep my options open just in-case things didn't work out. So - there I am in chat when a woman with a new profile pops up and starts messaging me. I realize that the women reading this may not be aware but that NEVER happens. Women do not need to initiate contact on here you are so outnumbered you are inundated with messages. The only people who reach out to me are gay or bi men. That said - I was immediately suspect. Turns out the chat quickly turns to a grilling on my situation, status, and I'm honest - but careful. I said I met someone great, was hoping it would work out but was keeping an open mind. I ended the chat when she refused to discuss anything other than why I was doing that to the woman I liked. See where we're headed? Add to this, in short - work caused me to bail on a lunch, a bad dinner choice led me to bed early and not have our typical texting to all hours - and, believe this or not.... call me crazy but I do not use credit cards to pay for hotel rooms for these situations. No paper trail is kind of a requirement but evidently the culmination of these events all led to a nasty set of texts and even the threat of calling my wife. Now I understand the perception of lack of trust - but not having had any physical contact I was thinking I was in the same zip code of sanity to not simply devote everything to one person who I hadn't yet even kissed. Looking for ONE partner to play with I would absolutely do this AFTER we actually consummated the act....but before? So here I am - 7 hours later - still dealing with the aftermath. I understand someone being upset - but it's not like I went out of my way to fuck her and then sleep with everyone else. It was ONE drink. And while she's been trying to apologize I'm still left with the feeling that I need to look over my shoulder now. Don't get me wrong - thrilled that I'm out before I find a bunny on my stove....but threatening to call a guy's wife, when you haven't yet even done anything, not so much as a kiss.... I didn't believe things could get that scary out here. Anyone else fear for yourself or being busted by someone you met on here? |
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Thanks for your response to my latest blog! I have been on this site for 3 years and from time to time I will have a string of bad luck and usually deactivate my account to assess what if anything I am doing wrong! I am just a real woman who loves sex but not willing to play games or be disrespected. I have met some very nice people(friends) and playmates on here but still haven't found the one! It may never happen but I can deal in the meantime! I have a very happy and easy going personality and not typical for some of the dumb B***** on here! Hope your search is going well! Sorry to hear your story!!! Lady L.
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That is very strange. The first red flag, was her asking you to not be on VisionPersonals.com. That would have had me end it right there. I am, absolutely, not condoning her behavior, but, you did agree to stay off VisionPersonals.com. The fact that you didn't, constitutes a lie, and I would have ended it with you. The way she did it was crazy!! You did dodge a bullet, though. It's funny that she is trying to apologize now. That tells you what kind of relationship it would have been. I need a really great kiss!!
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Wow a whole new crazy. Consider yourself lucky that nothing happened with her. If a man is honest enough to say he is married on his profile then it seems to me there would be little if anything of consequence to lie about. Borntobeefree72?* Know what you want, ask for it! The pleasure is worth it.
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