i am looking for Friends With Benefits Nothing more then that am i willing to give of myself. i am married and have 3 so with that being said..why am i here? well that's a long story but for the short version my wife no longer has the sexual urge and i rarely get to have sex with her. my hand has gotten a workout though. i can't host so please have a place we can go. I am not looking for a wham-bam-thank-you-mam kind of thing. I not apposed to that but not really not what i am looking for. i want more of a long term friend with benefits relationship someone that likes to hit a brewery for a couple of beers and good conversation. i am a better listener then a talker and i am more the shy and quiet type. but opens up when i get comfortable with who i am around. so don't judge me till you at least talk with me in person a few times.

My Ideal Person i am not a picky person just looking for someone in the same situation as i am or understands my situation and is open and willing to fill what needs i have that my home life does not provide any more.

I am not going to leave my wife and 3 Children, so you must accept that and be fine with your role as the other woman, be able to host our bedroom/hotel room or enjoy sex in a car,outdoors by a lake or somewhere else you may enjoy. Discretion is a must.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage, I Do Have MY hard Limits during my BDSM Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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