I am looking for friendship. I've shared my life with very few TRUE friends. Treating people how you wish to be treated is my biggest rule in life. I am fit(not fat), inshape(athletic), sortta handsom( actually quite hansome), funny( love to laugh and make others laugh), cuddly( as long as it isn't a million degrees), tender( not a rough lover unless requested), stern, private ( very), tough, kind, fresh(unlike anyone you will ever meet), thoughtful, silly, open(speak my mind), closed( I have walls), and far too giving.

My Ideal Person A smart, sexy woman, fun, witty, in-shape/healthy, PASSIONATE, women with a healthy dose of self confidance and pazaz thrown in the mix. I am looking for people who take care of themselves (read: a little extra weight is fine as long as everyone practices good hygine and are well kept! This means that I don't care your weight I care about how you take care of yourself..!) and expect the same from me. Please be able to carry on an serious conversation beyond what happened at the local bar last Friday night, with your friends boyfriends, late night television or how you got fired from the local Dairy Queen because the boss just hated you because she was a slut (read: Jerry Springer was a fun show to watch but I have no desire to live out any of the skits in real life). After all I do want a friendship, This entails being someone I can hang out with once in a while, has less drama in their life than daytime television(not that I'm not great listen just you should be able to talk about more), have an idea what the Challenger and Berlin Wall were and what Washington DC is, where it is located . Last but not least Understand what I said earlier about true friends, just because we chat doesn't mean I'm picking up on you. If I skirt a subject it doesn't mean I'm married or hooked up just that I have walls. I tend to be a very friendly guy and like to make friends.. THIS DOESN"T MEAN I'M TRYING TO HOOK UP WITH YOU..... If you are one of those people who think you are a CSI and know everything so therefore go around making accusations.. We are not meant for greatness together. No matter how good looking you think you are. Sorry!