WE are a couple who have been in ' Swinging ' since the 70's ! We love this life style. There have been ups and downs, but mostly ups. We are disturbed and disgusted that this life style is being taken over by dishonest, creepy, in need of psychiatric help, amateur's !! For the love of God, it's just sex Baby !! I love my husband, we have been together since Watergate, believe it or not. In the last few years I/we have seen an influx of immature, lying, crazy as all hell, jealous couples/singles. If you have the slightest bit of jealousy in your soul, your in the wrong life style ! If my husband and I decide to let you into our life for sex play, that doesn't mean I am going to run away with you !! Again, it's just sex, Baby ! I believe that this life style is best left for grown ups, baby sitting does not have a place in Swinging. I am done bitching. Now for the fun part. I am looking, with the CONSENT of my husband, for another male. Maybe a regular lover, maybe a once a month fling, maybe even a one night-er. As stated earlier, we have been in Swinging since Dickie Nixon was running the county, got married when Jimmy Cater almost ruined the country !! We both love sex, and we are both in great health. In our life time, I can actually state with all honesty, that we have done it all. I have had 3 sums, MFM, FMF FFF. Yes, I had even had a few MMFM and FFFF experiences in my day !! We seek healthy, DD free men and women. No age limits, yet, but use your head. I don't think we'll be going to young age wise, or to far in the other direction. Around our age would be perfect, but we have learned that there is always a little something special that may fall in the ' too young ' or ' to old ' category ! So age is opened. I am bi, and I crave a pussy as much as I crave a cook. Ladies, PLEASE get in touch !! I seek white males only !! When I wrote earlier that I can honestly say I have done it all ? I should have written ' except fuck a black man ' . Sweetie, it ain't gonna happen NOW, either !! That never made sense to me. You know, fucking a guy JUST because he was black. That's sounds so stupid on the surface that it's laughable !! When not also request that you want to fuck a Hindu ?? Or a Red Headed Viking ?? Or a Mexican Drug Lord ?? Or maybe even a Russian Hockey Player ?? Doesn't that read as just the dumbest thing you ever read ?? THAT'S how I feel when I read a profile that the woman wants ONLY a black man !! Then again, liberals never cease to amaze me !! Yes, when I was 20 I was a Liberal, for it showed I had a heart...when I was 40 I became a Conservative, and that change showed I had a brain !!