I am looking for a man for genuine friendship with good dose of physical attraction thrown in. A man who no longer thinks that sex is the number one rea for living (although perhaps a close two). I am ready to settle down with someone - not marry though - if i ever find the right one - because although I do not feel old the days are zooming by and I am wanting and ready to share. I have been divorced for 12 years now and have lived on my own. So I am thinking it's time to find someone to smile at in the morning - I love to do outdoor things like hiking in the woods, camping and tubing or canoeing on a river(snuggling in the tent....), skinny dipping (after dark ha!). I love animals, plants, reading, music, movies, and stuff like that. Nature is where I find my serenity.....still a bit of a hippie here but feel like I might be growing up sometime in the near future - if I ever figure out what that means....... I don't like mean people or liars or bigots. Jealous guys and control freaks sux. I do not play with young guys or married men......

My Ideal Person I want a mellow, carefree, fun-loving, easy-going, not unattractive, sexy man in his very late 40's to early 60's with a good sense of humor.
Is there a guy out there who knows how to communicate, ya know, like talk with a woman? - Hellooooo?
I want to be with someone who still believes in the possibility of a strong friend/lover type relationship with mutual deep feelings and still romance and knows that having a partner in life means sharing, caring, laughing, loving, disagreements, making up and all the other stuff that life has to offer as a couple.
I am in no way perfect...but with the right guy we could have alot of fun times and nice moments.
NOW you may ask - what am I doing on a sex site looking for these things.....and that is a good question - it really is!!
I have no preconceived notions about meeting anyone anywhere at any given time or even if I ever will - thats all - and I chat in here often because it is fun, entertaining, and there are some people in the chatroom I have gotten rather fond of - women and men - as I have been chatting on and off in here for a few years now.

~Peace~

Gawd bless ya if you actually read all that......lol