I'm a professional male with a life long interest in s&m--but only the fun kind. The kinds of ideas that make you shiver are the kind I want to try. I love the idea of many different things--or even watching these kinds of things unfold. Maybe a woman is in charge, and maybe she handcuffs his wrists to his ankles. Maybe she inserts a dripping long piece of ginger in the end of his penis...and laughs as he moans from the heat. Maybe she leaves the ginger in his urethra while she whips him. Or who knows, maybe she finds herself bound in the same position, sweating as the electrode is taped into place over her clitoris. She knows she will break...she knows the man will make her do unspeakable things. She shivers because she loves the idea. I watch or participate, coach, or just laugh at the reactions. I'm fit, positive, and imaginative. Thinking about these things makes me smile and I have a million fun scenarios I want to explore. Let's talk about it first, huh?

My Ideal Person I'm looking for people who like to experiment, who can adapt to different situations and have fun. Please be articulate, able to decide what you like and what you want to try.

Be real, responsible, and ready to explore.