Here is our first attempt at a blog on VisionPersonals.com. So far the experience has been generally interesting and fun. We do find that trying to make connections online is a lot harder than in person but there is also the added challenge of 3,4,5 or more people. We in society are trained to expect to find chemistry with one other in a relationship...as soon as we add more to that mix it becomes a challenge. It is a fun challenge but we were certainly not prepared for the multiple dynamics involved. When it works, it is fantastic but we have both had times where one of us was really into another person or couple and the other wasn't. Has anyone else got any epiphanies on how to deal with this situation?