My date from a vanilla site
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Posted:Apr 3, 2016 8:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2016 6:09 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I had a meet new greet, and we both decided to go out again, and enjoy some playtime.
This is how that went.
She packed an over night bag, after all it was a date and playtime.
While enjoying a drink and some chatter he informs her his wants to spend the night and he won't tell her he has plans.
I told him, he should have told me when he called and we could have rescheduled
He said no, I thought we would go to dinner, and come back here.
We can play and then you can go home.
I'm thinking seriously, you want a fuck and run.
I told you when I met you, if I just want a one nighter, I can get it from the guy sitting beside me.
He said something about us being adults and knowing what we were here for.
If that was what was discussed and something we agreed to, the fuck and run, that would have been ok.
Or if I had known
him for awhile, I'd do a fuck n run.
Obviously we both had different ideas about the date and playtime, and spending the night.
I went home, and no, I didn't fuck him.
Lesson learned, make sure you both are on the same page.
Needless to say, he went by the way side. He was just looking for that fuck and
My experience with men from a vanilla site is that 75% are attached and or just wanting a one nighter, or fuck and run.
They all say, I am looking for a relationship, yadyadyadyada. They have a button that says, I want no commitments at all (nsa), (fb). I want casual dating (fwb).
It seems they also skate around the sex discussion on the meet n greet.
If it was a guy from VisionPersonals.com, sex would have been open discussion.
Of course, that's just my perception, and a majority of my experience from the vanilla sites.
Have a good evening.
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I took a break
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Posted:Mar 31, 2016 10:34 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2016 7:34 am
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I have had a couple weeks off work, and found I navigated from my normal routine. One of them my blogging.
I do have several things I can blog about, just didn't feel like it.
My , has picked on me for on line dating for years.
A couple months ago, she wants to introduce me to someone she is involved with.
She is probably the opossite of me with the on line dating. In fact she told her guy, her mother gets more play then she does or did.
Anyway, the guy is a keeper, and I do like him, and she did meet him on line.
She said to me, mom I don't think you are being serious about it. I don't think you really want a relationship.
It floored me, because I do.
I just have not been working on it diligently, and I know I am cavalier sometimes in the guys I do get involved with. I got to thinking about it, and thought, maybe she is right.
She got on line, did some meet n greets and all the usual, and in two months found somebody cool, that fits her. I have been at this for years longer then I ever imagined.
I don't usually pursue men. I don't know why. One reason was I get so many hitting me, i wasn't pursuing. But, I have decided to change my ways, and start approaching you guys on line.
Althouugh I like VisionPersonals.com by far among any site, im on a vanilla site, and I started there.
I was thinking maybe the guys would be a lil different for some reason. I don't exactly like the results so far, but I'm not giving up.
I figure if she can do it, so can I.
I do believe she was originally correct, I wasn't being serious.
I will keep you updated.
I'm always open to suggestions as well.
Have a great afternoon.
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Please don't be an ass
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Posted:Mar 17, 2016 6:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2016 1:42 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
One of the reasons I like VisionPersonals.com, is that as members, we can blog.
I have found out since I started blogging, that I enjoy it.
There is no rhyme nor reason about how I choose a topic to blog about.
Each and every blogger has a unique Style. We all also have our opinions.
With that being said, we all do not agree on everything. Weather we agree or disagree, we can do it respectfully.
I have had a certain person comment at three different times on 3 different blogs.
They were horribly rude on the first one. Some of you came to my defense, which I did appreciate. I did not delete that comment at that time.
The second time he was disrespectful, I defended myself. I was pissed, but I handled it respectfully. Again I chose not to delete his comment.
The third time was on my blog yesterday. He sent two very disrespectful comments. I deleted him. I also blocked his IP address.
Again, it is okay to disagree, if you choose to comment, please do so respectfully.
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What would you do part 2
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Posted:Mar 16, 2016 7:24 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2016 9:34 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I was supposed to have one.
I was supposed to be spending the night with the guy I met at the bar on the end of the street.
Obviously I am not. I am blogging.
When I first meet a person I always give them at least one bye. For whatever reason it maybe.
I got off work early today. I was meeting the guy later for dinner and play time at his house.
I started the party early in the hotel room. I fell asleep.
I woke up and made the phone call. At that time I was 20 minutes late.
I throw my stuff in the car. And headed to his house. While I made the phone call.
I received a text back, dinner is over. I am busy.
I sent 2 text back. Turned around and went back to the hotel.
I feel I should get a Bye from him on this. He could have handled me being late a Lil better then he did.
That's a shame. Because it was awesome, awesome play time.
If he was that obsessive about time, he should have let me know up front. I was on time the three times before.
Any thoughts on this one.
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What would you do
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Posted:Mar 15, 2016 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2016 7:13 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I definitely have one.
Let's say you met someone, but not on line. In real life aattttttt?...?........the bar at the end of the street.
My question is, he doesn't know I'm on VisionPersonals.com.
We are playing footstie, nothing else. I at this point don't think it's relevant.
What would you do?
Have a good evening.
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Oh hell, I did it again
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Posted:Mar 9, 2016 7:15 pm
Last Updated:Mar 20, 2016 11:19 am
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good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I would love to have one on mine.
I'm relaxing, watching TV, drinking a beer, and smoked a little smoke.
I was texting 3 people at the same time.
One is my , and the other is a guy I know, and the other is a newbie wanna be.
I sent a text to the guy I know.
Who sent a text back, and I didn't see my text.
I'm thinking oh hell, who got that text.
Oh, hellllllllllll.........my .
hell no, not again.
The picture of my ass on Saturday and the text tonight.
At least the text did not have anything sexual in it.
She didn't say anything, and I didn't say anything.
All I can say is i've been naughty. It won't be the first time, and it won't be the last time.
I actually sat here and laughed my ass off after I figured out what I did.
Have a good night.
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It's going to be 80 degrees today
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Posted:Mar 8, 2016 7:02 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2016 5:38 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I'm in Cincinnati this week. It's going to be 80 degrees here today.
With that being said, guess what time it is.
Have a wonderful day.
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Note to self remember the naked ass photos on the phone
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Posted:Mar 5, 2016 9:40 pm
Last Updated:Mar 17, 2016 6:24 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure wish I had one.
I had the perfect high.
I went out with my and some other friends as well.
We were having a couple drinks, listening to the music, and chatting.
I was showing my some pictures on my phone.
Well, neither one of us expected my naked ass to come up.
Fuuuuuuuck is all I can say.
She knows her mother well. She took it in stride.
I'm still shaking my head.
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He was truthful
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Posted:Mar 4, 2016 7:44 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2016 9:28 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I had a meet and greet a couple nights ago. I totally enjoyed everything about the meet and greet, except for one thing.
We have the same interest, we like to do the same things, we talked for hours, he was good looking, but, there is a but.
I did not feel that spark. I don't know if he did either, but we decided to meet again.
Before that second meeting took place, we talked on the phone to plan it. A couple hours later I got a text message from him.
It ended with I don't think it will work out.
I sent him two messages back, the first one thanking him for being honest. And the second one telling him how totally awesome I thought he was.
I was okay with him not wanting to see me again. I did not get upset, there was no reason to. I was glad he took the time to let me know what was up.
There are many men who would not.
I was looking forward to doing things like fishing, grilling, dancing, and all the other fun things we both like to do.
For those reasons I was willing to continue seeing the guy even though I didn't feel that spark. I know I should have bowed out, but I figured what the hell who knows. Maybe something will develop.
Have you done this, decided to see somebody again even when there was no spark.
If you did, did it develop into something more, or eventually go by the wayside.
Have a great day.
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All you did was look
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Posted:Mar 2, 2016 5:59 pm
Last Updated:Mar 3, 2016 6:50 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure could use one on mine.
I passed you on my way in to the store to do my work.
I looked at you again. You were hot.
I kept walking straight past you, I turned around and you were gone. You turn left. I continued to the back of the store.
I was in the middle of my audit, when I saw you come by.
You came up from behind, you looked at me secretly with your eyes as you passed me.
I gave you that look. I looked at you again.
And you went around the corner, you looked back as well.
All I can say is you were hot, and I wish I had gone after you and gave you my phone number.
But what I would like to know, is if you went to all that trouble and you did look and express interest with your eyes. Why the hell didn't you walk up to me and say hey I'm someone, so here's my phone number. I have done it. That was a missed opportunity.
Have a good evening.
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The first time
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Posted:Feb 28, 2016 9:10 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2016 3:11 am
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good evening, Unknown I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
We all have firsts in our life. Once you have done something, the first time experiences and feelings are different the second time and any time there after.
There can only be one first time for anything we do in life.
I love to do things for the first time, as well as watch someone's reaction when they do something for the first time.
I like to compare it to a meet n greet.
you have all these thoughts, feelings, anticipations, assumptions, questions and many other feelings running through you.
The thing about doing something for the first time is, you will either enjoy it, or you will wonder what the fuck you were doing and thinking.
If the first time is enjoyable, pleasurable, memorable, exciting, or wow, you want to do it again.
If the first time is not enjoyable or what you expected, you may or may not want to do it again.
I am one of those people that likes to do something a second time even if the first time was not as expected, or as pleasurable or enjoyable as expected.
Situations, attitudes, people, and things change. For what ever reason, sometimes it's worth a second chance.
Also, if the first time is so enjoyable, the second time or more, can be even more pleasurable, memorable, and enjoyable. Or not.
As I write this, I can feel the pleasure of the enjoyable first times running through me.
When you try something new, do it with the anticipation of . Look at it with all the excitement and wonder through a 's eyes. Enjoy it.
When you feel like your day is not going as you want it to, for any reason at all.
Pick one of those first time moments, and remember the pleasure, memories, feelings, and excitement you felt.
Remember those feelings.
Live each day as if it's the first day.
Have a good evening.
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Special attention at the self check out
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Posted:Feb 27, 2016 10:11 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2016 5:52 am
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Mine will be there tonight.
I was at a self check out in the kroger store.
Next to me, was a nice looking guy.
He didn't seem to have any issues checking out.
The female employee, stepped up to him and started a conversation.
I noticed she was really giving him personal assistance.
She helped him in every step of his purchase.
Scan the products, bag them, and even handled the credit card transaction.
He was fully capable of handling those purchases. He stood back and let her handle it.
I smiled to myself as I walked away.
I saw where that interaction was going.
I was thinking, sexual discrimination. I didn't get that special attention, haha.
I wonder how it worked out.
Have a great afternoon.
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I am Not Your Plan B
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Posted:Feb 25, 2016 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2016 10:02 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure could use one on mine.
This is my 3rd attempt to get this blog posted. The first two attempts disappeared. They were better.
And even though I started the blog, I'm going to do it as I started it the first time. I did not know how I wanted to write this blog, so I decided to use stream of consciousness.
On my profile I state that I prefer single divorced available man. I ask that if you are attached in any way, you let me know up front. This gives me the decision to decide if I want to step into anything.
The following are 2 different scenarios that ended the same way today.
The first stated for various reasons we were a good match and let me know he was married. I simply told him I was not any buddies plan B, and wished him luck. He couldn't let that go, he had to message back with a smart answer.
Another guy had stated he was separated on his profile, and had been talking to me for a week now. When it was finally said and done, he admitted he was married. We were getting to the meet n greet.
I'm not dissing anybody for what they were seeking, it was their attitude about it, that got to me.
I know there are many men and women that are plan B by choice, and for their own reasons. I have been plan B myself, and I know it's not for me.
So please guys, if you're looking for a plan B, please please look the other way when you look at my profile.
I hope everybody has a great evening.
I have had some beer. And some smoke. the only other thing that would make my night more wonderful is having somebody sitting here eating my pussy right now. Yummy
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