I don't excel at building
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Posted:Jun 14, 2016 6:29 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2016 5:25 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It would be my pleasure to have one on my face.
Part of my job, is to sometimes assemble fixtures.
That happens to be what I am doing this week. Not by choice.
The first account, ii put the top panel on backwards and I caught that.
Finished building, I place the fixture where it belonged. I looked at the base wondering why some of the nuts were exposed and wondering why they didn't send adhesives dots to cover them. the base was green and the rest of the fixture was white but it also had green trim so I just figured they were color coordinating.
The fixture at the next account went more quickly and smoothly. But, i noticed the base was white with no bolts exposed.
I thought to myself oh oops, you put the base in upside down at the other store. Do I go back, do I let my boss know, or do I just not say anything at all.
I figured fuck it, i didn't say anything at all. If they catch it I guess I will go back.
My bOSS happen to call me sometime that day wanting to know if I knew how to build something else. I informed him at that time you do not want me to build anything. You will be lucky if these things are standing when I am finished with them.
I am great, and awesome, at breaking things. In fact it gives me pleasure. Haha
But, a builder of things especially fixtures and stuff like that nope. I would be the last person you really want to do that.
Have a great day
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Relaxing after work
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Posted:Jun 10, 2016 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2016 6:00 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
This is the second time I'm trying to post this fog. Frankly, I'm getting tired of posting a Blog and having it not show up. Then I have to redo the whole thing.
Work has been very fun, but very stressful as well.
This is how we relaxed last night and tonight.
There is one thing that would make it much much better...>>!{=}
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Continuing that secret smile
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Posted:Jun 5, 2016 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2016 7:03 pm
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good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Mine is there, and will be there more the once today as well.
This is a guy, I met at one of my hotels in dayton, ohio. He is a fwb, totally enjoyable. He drove from North Carolina to spend the weekend with me.
I have some cool fwb's. I can pretty much talk to them about anything.
For example, he had another fwb calling him a couple times. Me ponied up and told me about her.
I'm totally cool. He did say, she was being deleted. She has gone back on their agreement, more then once.
He explained his reasons for saying she is done. They are valid for him.
Does it bother me, NO. I have a wonderful time with him, and again besides the awesome playtime, we can discuss anything. Even another fwb.
I like to understand a guys reasoning, so, I was actually wanting to discuss it.
He's taking a nap at the moment.
Game will resume.
It was an excellant break, and pleasurable time.
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That secret smile
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Posted:Jun 4, 2016 3:32 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2016 2:53 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I had to work again this weekend. I'm pretty much going to have to work every day until the end of the month.
This is why I did not want to take a crew out. I knew my workload would be double. Even though I worked last weekend they dump some more accounts on me.
Anyway, i'm about to start working on that secret smile.
All I can say is hell yeah.{=}
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I'm not desperate
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Posted:Jun 3, 2016 5:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2016 7:27 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. We won't discuss mine at the moment.
I realize this is an adult dating site, and sex is out there on the table.
That is why I like this site. The Playtime is out in the open and not hidden like the vanilla sites.
With that being said, I'm not desperate for play time.
I may not be in an exclusive relationship, but I do get my play time, on a regular basis. That way, when I meet somebody new, i am not thinking with the head between my legs.
What gets to me from time to time is that many of you that contact me, don't take the time to even know my name, don't take the time to find out anything about me, or you don't take the time to say hey, blah blah blah.
You go straight to........when do you want to meet to taste me, when do you want to meet to fuck, I wanna suck those titties, blah,blah, blah bluh. Like I should feel privileged that you have chosen me.
Some women may love that approach, but I don't.
Again, I'm not desperate for anything. When we let ourselves get into that situation, we make bad decisions.
For me, it's not just the sex, it's the whole package, and the timing in my life.
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I added a Lil color
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Posted:May 31, 2016 6:33 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2016 6:39 am
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good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Spent the weekend doing activities with two of my adult .
On Friday night we we're listening to a band we flollow that palyed at a bar down on the river in the Lexington Kentucky area.
On Saturday, my and I went to the taste of Cincinnati. I would love to do that again.
Sunday, my and I spent the day with friends in Cincinnati that he has not seen for around 20 years.
On Monday after my left, I'm at with a girlfriend and her grandkids to go to this little Fair they had set up in the parking lot in the Eastgate area of Cincinnati.
Throughout the whole weekend, I wore my black outfits as I usually do my skirt my stockings. Of course, it is summer and everybody else is in bright colors, or white.
I don't know why, I never have. For one thing it gets dirty before I put it on. I don't care what I do there's always a spot somewhere. And I haven't done anything at all.
I do like bright colors, but on other people. Anything with stripes and checks and all that no, that's not me.
I decided yesterday before I met my friend, 2 go to Kohl's, and purchase address, or summer outfit, that was not black.
I wandered around the store as quickly as I could, when I got to the dressing room, I had three black shirts and two black dresses.
I swear to you I looked at everything in that store. I was just going to get a couple wife beater t-shirts and wear them over my black skirt that's pretty easy. But that's not what happened.
One of the black dresses I tried on was the same style as the one I ended up buying. After my friends saw me and took a picture for me, I decided okay I will keep this blue dress.
Switching colors hunting outfit was crazy for me. I didn't want to give up the black outfits. I know it's a money thing. I felt like an addict having to give up their pleasure.
It was almost like being a baby and someone taking my bottle away. That is exactly how it felt.
So, this one simple Act of changing colors, and not wearing stockings was actually a big move for me.
That's what happens to us in life a lot, we get used to things, and don't want to change, even if it is just a color.
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Memorial day
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Posted:May 30, 2016 9:34 pm
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2016 6:20 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I would love to be working on mine at the moment.
This is what this day is supposed to be all about.
Maybe the pictures will stay with the post this time. The last picture with the words, came from one of my sisters on face place. It says it all.
For some reason my photos keep disappearing. I would like to take this time to thank everybody that has served did serve or will serve. Because of you I have my freedoms. This is for the ones that didn't make it home. That is what this day is about
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My morning quiet time
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Posted:May 29, 2016 7:27 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2016 1:04 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I have a smile, but it's not my secret smile.
I have been up for awhile now. The first thing I did after taking my morning pee, (yes, I said that), was to make my coffee. I was relishing the smell as it was brewing.
I kept my hotel for work this weekend. I will do a couple accounts which I am heading out for in a few minutes. This allows me to enjoy time in the city as well with the company picking up the tab.
With it being a holiday weekend, there are multitudes of things to do in Cincinnati.
If you are not in a relationship, and you want to do something, that for me I prefer not to do myself, you have three options.
Do it yourself, find someone to go with you, or you don't do it.
The taste of Cincinnati is going on this weekend. My first choice was a guy friend. That wasn't to be. I did throw a couple invites put there.
I called some friends from the city, and they told me I was crazy for wanting to go. Really, there weren't any issues getting in and out.
I actually got to spend the weekend with my oldest , who is a foodie as well.
The experience last night with the food, beer, music, and the masses went without a hitch. the masses behaved pretty well and the police presence was handled very well. I was impressed with the city of Cincinnati's presence and handling of the crowds.
They were there in numbers, dressed in their blues. I felt safe, and if there was an incident, they handled it, without disrupting anything.
I told my at one point, this event was an excellent couples event, he agreed. It was great for a group of friends or family as well.
But at the end of the day, it definitely was a couple thing.
Regardless, the food, beer, and music was excellant. We are going back today to hit it again.
My mornings are the time when I reflect.
When is your quiet time.
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Life
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Posted:May 26, 2016 7:27 am
Last Updated:May 27, 2016 6:59 am
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good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I have had a crazy few weeks, or even months. Although things don't go the way we think they should, or want them to, life goes on.
I know things happen in our lives as they are meant to. Many things we cannot change, some we can.
No matter what, I look for the positive and I have quit asking why.
Have a wonderful day, and share that smile with somebody.
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I'm not really that busy
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Posted:May 25, 2016 9:02 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2016 8:01 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there. Thank you.
Because I live in Richmond Kentucky, I work in Cincinnati during the week, and work the flea market, many of you think that I am too busy to do anything.
It all sounds like alot, but it is not, and for someone special, I can definitely free up time.
I do have to work. It just so happens my work is in a different city. When I am in Cincinnati, I have free time every night after work, unless I have plans. I have not found a steady fwb here for some reason.
When I am in ky, Friday and Saturday are always open, unless I work the flea market. I work the flea market, because it is fun for me, something I enjoy doing. Also, it's something I can do by myself.
I took a year off from the flea market, and decided to play on weekends. It was fun, but it wasn't all I wanted. I figured instead of fucking around, I would make money instead. My mad money as I call it.
The right guy would have me totally adjusting my schedule.
But, and there is that but, there is no THAT guy at the minute, so unless you are paying my bills, I have to work. I have myself to depend on.
There is one other thought. I can cut back, but being busy helps keep the lonlieness at bay.
Memorial day weekend is upon us. I have no plans at the moment. I can go home, or stay in Cincinnati and work, except for Monday. I will more then likely be staying in Cincinnati.
There are so many things to do, but alot of them require another person, although I do a lot of things by myself.
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My letter to you
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Posted:May 24, 2016 6:57 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2016 4:35 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Damn, I sure wish mine was there.
This is not the blog, that I wrote last night. The blog I wrote last night, disappeared and will have to be Rewritten again.
This is a totally unplanned seat of the pants blog.
This is the 2-year anniversary of my mother's death. I just realized it at about 7 o'clock tonight.
I knew today was coming up, I knew that Facebook would remind me of it. At 7 o'clock at the end of this crazy thing day, Facebook reminded me.
Maybe my day was crazy for that reason I don't know. But that's another blog.
For some reason this is on my mind, and I'm going to say it. This is my blog to you. Im writing it so i wont forget what i want to say to you when i see you tomorrow.
In a couple of weeks you will have major surgery. Unfortunately, although I want to be there, I cannot be. She, well be there.
You want to take me for lunch tomorrow. I cooked for you tonight. I love to cook for you. So, instead of you taking me out for lunch, I would rather you come to my hotel room and eat what I cooked for you.
And then I want you to love me as best as you can. It may be the last time.
You see, you don't have to take me to lunch, you dont have to buy me everything. I so enjoy spending time with you. And loving you. Oh, and those slow dances
That is as simple as it gets. So tomorrow I hope you do come eat lunch at my hotel room because it may be the last time we get to see each other before your surgery.
Always, always know that I will love you with all my heart, no matter what, with no regrets.
there are some things we can change in life, and some things we cannot. I cannot change your life. What saddens me though, is that one day I will move in with somebody, and it won't be you.
So, on the second anniversary of my mother's death, tell somebody that you love them or care about them. Things happen in the blink of an eye.
Update: you did come by the hotel. What did we do. We talked and laughed, Something we tend to do. Then we did what we do best. And now you are home. Until next time.
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What I do
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Posted:May 20, 2016 3:08 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 7:01 pm
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Good morning, I hope you have that secret smile on your face. I would love one on mine.
I love to blog. I have not blogged in over a month. That's a lot of missing blogs. This is a busy time of year for retail remodel, whish is what I do.
We are the ones that move the stuff around in the store. You can't find where it was causing you to walk around in the store a Lil more, which in turn has you spending more money.
I can be doing team work, opening a new store, remodeling an old store, or special projects in the store. Or I can work solo.
I have been working solo for quite awhile, something I prefer. It allows me to make my own schedule.
A month ago, I was informed I was to get a crew ready for team work. This puts me at the mercy of their time and their schedule, and the crew people and all the other store people, and more people then I really want to deal with.
I have the crew and we are working this week opening a new store. I love the crew, especially while relaxing at night.
Hell, I ended up dancing on the bar on Wednesday night when a couple of us went out, that's another blog. Haha
Because I am on salary, I am also expected to keep up the solo work assigned to me. Not allowing me much free time at the moment.
On the weekends when I have don't have plans, I have been working the flea market, something I absolutely love.
Yes, I am busier then I want to be at the moment. It can be stressful at times, but it's my job, and I like what I do.
It pays the bills, or as I like to tell people, I have to feed myself.
I have been waking up at 5 in the morning, and I don't need to. I decided instead of trying to go back to sleep and tossing and turning like I have been doing, I would just start getting up.
So, here we are, I have found my blogging time again. Yay.
I showered, am sitting in bed naked, propped up against the pillows, and blogging.
Would I rather be putting that secret smile on my face, yes, that would be pleasurable.
Have a great day.
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And how was your day
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Posted:Apr 6, 2016 6:28 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2016 6:57 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
This is not what I was going to blog on, but it was too good to pass on.
I had the following 2 memorable moments today.
The first involved a store employee changing new price tags in a store I was auditing.
He had one job. He didn't hang the new sale tags. There was one hung, i showed him, what he was missing. He didnt hang one. I was in the middle of an audit, that included price tags.
About 90%of the tags he changed he put up crooked. Oh my god, I am so ocd.
I wanted to reach over and choke him. Maybe he would have hung them straight.
In the same store, I had an 84 YEAR OLD FEMALE ENGAGE ME IN CONVERSATION.
Somehow the conversation got steered to dating and relationships.
She said although her husband was a good provider, that is all he was.
She also said, when he died at 65, she never dated.
She said she doesn't want a man.
She said she doesn't want a man because she doesnt want to wash his dirty underware...... . I swear. She said this to me more then one time.
I want to enjoy all the sex I can. I wonder if I will be doing it at 84, her age. I hope so.
Have a good night........thegrls
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