Fond du lac
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Posted:Jul 29, 2016 10:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2016 9:35 am
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
My crew and I are making our way to Wisconsin again to open another store.
The city of fond du lac will have the pleasure of our company.
We will arrive on August 5. Maybe we will have the pleasure of meeting.
Heres hoping , one or two of you take the hint, and make contact.
Have a great day.
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Life moves on, be happy
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Posted:Jul 29, 2016 2:33 am
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2016 9:48 am
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Good morning , I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine was there.
Food for thought.
If you are involved in an unhappy relationship for what ever reason, but don't want to make changes, and move on with your life, consider this.
If you die right now, your partner is going to get everything, and they will also have control of everything.
Something to think about for some of you.
Last saturday, at our hotel, a woman we were talking to at the hotel breakfast area, went back to her room. She died 15 minutes later in the shower. They worked on her in the hall before they took her out.
Needless to say that incident was a Lil thought provoking.
If you are not happy with things the way they are in your life, make some changes.
Have a wonderful day.
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My first batch of butter
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Posted:Jul 22, 2016 6:28 am
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2016 8:40 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I have a smile but it's not a secret.
I head down to the breakfast bar to get my regular two cups of coffee.
I don't eat that food off the breakfast bar, the thought of it just turns my stomach. I grew up on a dairy farm, real eggs do not come in a plastic bag with preservatives.
So, what do I do this morning, spill one of those cups of coffee right by the little refrigerator that holds the yogurts. There's coffee on the floor, on the wall, on the refrigerator, on the cabinets, on my feet and wherever else it may have went.
That was my dumb-ass move for this morning. This guy told me on the side not to feel bad because he's done it himself.
The blog today is about my first batch of weed butter that I made.
I like Edibles at certain times. My that lives in Colorado won't send me any, the little shit. So anyway I've always wanted to make the butter and I did.
The butter is a process in itself, which I was satisfied with.
I wanted to try to make something. I did not have a lot of time so I whipped up some rice crispy bars. I used the recipe on the box and substituted some butter.
I had an issue with the marshmallows, I overcooked them.
My first instinct was to throw them away and I'm like oh no you have the butter on it you will make this work one way or another.
The consistency of the finished product was a little off. You did catch a buzz on one piece but you might not catch one on the next piece.
When I get home and have more time I'm going to work on some little tootsie rolls or chocolate chews or something. I was trying to make something that would last a while that wouldn't melt in the summer heat.
I've been giving these away, everybody has enjoyed them. I will let you know how the next batch turns out.
If anyone has a great recipe, feel free to share with me.
Have a great day.
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One of my favorite hotels
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Posted:Jul 19, 2016 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Jul 21, 2016 8:57 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine will be there shortly.
I had the honor of working with my on her last day of work with the same company I work for.
She handles herself so well, I am down right proud of her.
We stayed at one of my favorite hotels.
She checked in a day behind me.
Bless her heart, the night desk clerk gave her a key to her room because she could tell it was my .
And so it began.
Everybody wanted to meet her.
They introduced themselves from the front desk to the bar.
They kept telling her how much they loved her mom........oh hell, that's me.
They gave each of us a coupon for everything they offered, drinks, food,
The bartenders even held happy hour drinks for us and we made it after happy hour.
Ithat is one of the reasons, I stay at this place. The place is in a beginning remodel.
The staff is awesome. More then awesome.
They are all so encouragable there.
That makes a place of business a success.
Anyway, I loved spending time with my .
I also loved showing her one of my favorite hotels.
Do you have a favorite hotel, and why.
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Dammed if you do
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Posted:Jul 16, 2016 8:55 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2016 1:26 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I have a smile, but it's not secret.
I had a meet n greet the other day. One, I definitely should have missed.
He messaged me that morning saying lunch at 11:45. I will let you know where.
At 11:45 he's there, and he let's me know where.
I took a wrong exit. There is a huge amount of construction. I had to go up a couple exits to turn around. By this time he's texting, where are you.
Then he wants to cancel until he finds out how close I was. All he had to do was let me know 15 minutes before he got there, and I would have been there on time.
He slammed me for that. I'm already thinking, what did I get myself into.
I said I would have met him for a beer if he was pushed for time.
He slammed me again. I should have left at that point.
I learned within 2 minutes, I was dammed if I sat there with my mouth shut, and dammed if I said anything.
When it came time to order, I thought fuck it, i ordered a glass of wine and a new York strip. Like I said a beer would have worked for me.
My steak was cooked mediam well instead of medium rare. He was like there's nothing wrong with it. He says well my chicken might be overcooked too. He had me second guessing getting a recook. I politely asked for a recook, and the server took care of it, telling me she had made a mistake. He then goes oh, you were right I took up for you.
He kept letting me know how many material possessions he had, and how many important people he knew.
He kept asking when the last time I had sex.
Right before he left, I said I had sex last night....... ...he evidently thought I was desperate for some reason.
The thing is, I did the night before, and I neglected to tell him I was having it again that same night.
It went like this until he finally decided to leave.
Yet, he let me know how crappy my life was when he finally left. I stayed and finished my wine.
What pissed me off, was I was sitting there second guessing myself.
Knowing no matter what I did, I was the bad guy.
It just left a bad taste in my mouth, that's all. I hope he felt good about himself.
I always say, things happen for a reason. We were meant to meet.
Thank God it was only for a short time.
Thank God not all men are like him.
Have a great day.
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Good morning to you too
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Posted:Jul 14, 2016 7:23 pm
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2016 8:12 am
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Good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I definitely have mine.
Oooooooohhhhhhh mmmmmmmy, some of my favorite things.
Every morning. ..will suit me.....
What makes your morning special?
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Pictures from our last job
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Posted:Jul 6, 2016 7:26 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2016 6:53 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I would love one.
One of the things my crew and I do is open new stores. Here are some of the pictures of our week.
Kareoke fun
More kareoke fun
OR lunch stop. Fred the owner of Freddy's
We are doing it all again this week. Actually heading back to Wisconsin to a different town.
I enjoy my road crew.
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Another holiday
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Posted:Jul 4, 2016 5:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 6, 2016 6:56 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I could have, but chose not to.
You can tell it's a holiday. I love holidays. But, they can be hard on a person, especially when you are single.
I didn't have any plans, this weekend, and I let my adult talk me into not working the flea market. I should have done the flea market.
Normally I will work if I don't have plans for my weekends, let alone the holidays.
Many of us, I'm including you guys in this, like to have someone, even a casual date for a holiday.
I did do one meet n greet, and one of the things the guy said he missed most was the talking, and having someone to do something with.
The lonlieness. I totally understand, that is why I tend to keep myself busy.
Don't get me wrong, I did enjoy this long weekend. I just felt something was missing.
I just need to get a couple more fwbs. That way maybe one will be available when the others are not......
Or, pick up a stray, or do the nsa thing, or, just do a couple meet n greets. It all works for me.
I would love to watch fireworks one time, laying in the arms of my lover.
I hope you had a wonderful fourth of July weekend. Hopefully you kept all your body parts intact while lighting the fireworks.....
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Do any of you...continued
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Posted:Jul 1, 2016 8:19 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2016 5:16 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Wouldn't it be wonderful at this time of the day.
Tresennui responded to my blog post, "do any of you". I happen to wander to her site and read one of her post "trials and tribulations of an affair".
The post was very good, and she had some excellent responses as well.
This made me think about this particular relationship because it is probably the most important one to me at the moment.
I am currently involved in more than a couple of FWB relationships. For the most part, until I end up in a monogamous relationship I will continue my FWB relationships. They work for me.
I have been involved for the past 4 years with an attached man. When I first met him and for almost a year, I did not know he was attached. Unfortunately, I allowed my heart to get involved.
I know now, and I have chosen to continue the relationship. I got in contact with him the night of my knee surgery a year ago. He responded back and we haven't quit since that day.
From my standpoint I totally enjoyed spending time with his man. We talk and laugh for hours, we do other things as well, and the play time is so fantastic.
Would I like it to be something different, yes I would. Will it ever be, one never knows. I do know that things happen in a blink of an eye.
I do know that life moves quickly, and we should be happy. I like to see him laugh and smile and he likes to see me laugh and smile.
I am willing to take what time I can get with him. Will I wake up one day and think something different, who knows.
I do know I'm the single one. It makes me feel sad to think of it ending.
I am doing this with my eyes open, I am seeing others and have been the whole time. Hopefully someone will walk into my life looking for the same thing I am and we can be cohabitors.
I do know, one of the hardest things about being involved with an attached person, is knowing they are going home to somebody else, and you are going home by yourself. You want to be that person they go home to.
It does not bother me to know that some of my other FWB maybe going home to somebody. I kept my heart in a box concerning them.
Sometimes I question what I'm doing. Like I did the last day or two.
But one of my best girlfriends in life, who is going through dialysis right now said Linda as long as you are happy with him, enjoy it as much as you can.
I plan on doing that.
After all, tomorrow is not promised to anybody.
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Do any of you
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Posted:Jun 29, 2016 2:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 7:14 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.
I have a question.
How many of you are involved with somebody that you care about deeply or would admit that you love, knowing the situation may go no further, because they are attached.
I am, I just wonder how many of us are out here.
Don't get me wrong, I am still out here dating. I'm in VisionPersonals.com land.
What do you do. See others like I do? Or, do you wait for that person. Or am I asking a stupid question.
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This really sucks from my perspective
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Posted:Jun 27, 2016 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 2:40 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. It would be lovely to have one on my face.
This was not what I was going to blog on tonight. I have been working with the crew opening a new store. That will be my blog tomorrow, all the pictures.
Because I have been extremely busy, this is the first chance I have had to check my messages on VisionPersonals.com.
I read one, from a guy that said he sent an email to the address I provided. I did not provide that email address. It however, is one of my work colleagues email address.
Somehow technology crossed paths because that email address ended up in a message with some other garbled stuff that I swear I did not insert into that message.
So, at midnight, tonight, I am texting a man I do not know hoping he did not send an email to that address.
Unfortunately, he texted back saying he did. He said that explained the answer he received back. My heart literally sank.
In that same text, he's trying to pick me up.
I'm like ok, really.
He sent me another text back again, he's still hitting on me.
I'm still in shock over the fact one of my coworkers got an email from a guy on VisionPersonals.com meant for me.
I'm not in the best mood to be talking about pleasuring you at the moment.
He sends another message. I told him to lose my number.
Added note: I use my tablet for personal stuff. That was a company email address, never used here. But, google, fb, and all others keep you and anybody linked to you stored. I noticed my work phone yesterday had a whole bunch of company emails on it I didn't add. I started deleting them. When the devices update, they sync everything.. that's the only thing I can figure out. Also, the device suggests words for you. I have noticed people's email addresses pop up with everything else. I always have words added or changed. I'm guessing that's what happened, and I didn't catch it.
This really sucks from my perspective.
Have any of you had this happen to you.
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I turned down sex again
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Posted:Jun 21, 2016 6:03 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2016 4:33 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
One of my favorite Hotels is in Dayton Ohio. The Bars attached and it's an awesome pick up bar, if you choose.
For two nights, I was hanging out with a group of four people. Enjoying ourselves. My last night there one of the guys and I were sitting outside and he looked at me and he said so are you coming to my room or not.
I looked at him and I said not. He looked at me with a puzzled look, and said so you're turning me down, like I insulted him.
This almost sounds like it could be part of my I'm not desperate blog. Anyway I told him yes I was turning him down.
I knew he had a girlfriend, and he was at least 20 years younger than me. But what really mattered, i wasn't attracted to him. I wasn't even flirting with him and I really had no intention of touching him, no matter how horny I was.
Don't get me wrong, I really wanted play time but I was not looking. And I guess I didn't want it bad enough because I turned him down.
Im at a place in my life that I'm just not looking for that one night stand.
I'm not saying it may not happen again in the future but that's not what I'm wanting at the moment.
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Loving your
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Posted:Jun 19, 2016 8:20 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2016 5:52 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I passed mine up more than one time this week but that is another blog.
This is not what I was going to blog on originally, but I feel like it.
First, I would like to say Happy Father's Day to every man, woman, and (sibling ) that is helping or have has helped raise a . I admire each and everyone of you.
My has been in a serious relationship for about 3 months now. She does not date lightly. Her last serious relationship was maybe 4 years ago.
We all liked this guy. He brought out so many attributes in her that I did not see in her before. And she really loved him.
For whatever reason, he has decided it's going to end. To her and me from what she has explained, they are not what I would consider valid reasons. But it is to him. One of the issues can be changed. And to me it's not a major issue evidently it is to him.
He said she was smothering him. She did not realize she was, and she said she would back off.
If he would have communicated this with her right away, she would have backed off. She didn't realize she was.
I guess it's like the time I was 20 minutes late to dinner, and never heard from the guy again.
It breaks my heart to see my crying like a baby, knowing exactly what she is feeling.
Like her best friend said last night, no matter what we say or do she has to work through it herself.
My is very level-headed, she is saying the right things but she still hurting.
I guess, over the years because of that pain, I have learned to put my heart in a box.
That way I can still be involved with someone. But I don't go through the pain.
To those of you that are actually looking for a exclusive relationship or have been in one and had it end, what do you do with that pain, that comes along, when it ends.
How do you work through it.
I usually find another someone to help me forget, or I work alot.
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