Don't take it personally, I don't
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Posted:Sep 4, 2016 5:18 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2016 5:58 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine sure does need to be there.
On all dating sites as well as when meeting the old fashioned way, we all have our type we are attracted to.
I have gone on some meet n greets meeting someone that is not my type.
Sometimes the person says or does something I like, and I figure what the hell, meet them. You never know.
I also have gone on meet n greets, and the guy does not look like the picture I was sent.
One of my deal breakers is the size of a man. I prefer an average size to a Lil larger man.
I also prefer the man at least my size. I'm afraid if they are smaller, I will squish them. I know, that's just me.
I was in a relationship with a very large guy. It was ok, for a time, but after he broke it off for whatever reason he did, that was it.
He was the last very large framed guy I dated.
I don't want to insult anybody for their size, but if you keep pressing, I will.
The person I said it too, was someone that I had been out with a time or two. Playtime was scheduled, and he backed out or had something come up.
Needless to say, it never got out of the gate.
A couple years later, he is hitting me up again. He posted a pic, and he is much larger then he was then.
I know, I should have made up something instead of being honest. But I was honest.
I told him, I couldn't and why. He said that surprised him, I said that.
Anyway, I messaged him back, and said when I met him , and thinking back it was 4 years ago. I was in a different place then I am now.
For whatever reason we all do have our types, our deal breakers, and something we are looking for.
If I or you don't fill that person's wants, or there are deal breakers, things are not going anywhere.
Unless both parties don't care.
It used to bother me at first, but like one guy said years ago, it's pretty simple.
Nothing against you, we all have our types, or something we are looking for.
It seems several of you feel slighted for whatever reason, when I turn you down.
I would say I'm involved with someone, but then I would get, why are you here.
I have learned not to take a turn down, personally.
After all, there are billions of us on this planet.
We have a lot of chances, and choices.
I don't sweat it. If it's going to happen it will.
Have a wonderful evening.
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He gets an A for effort
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Posted:Sep 1, 2016 6:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2016 8:39 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I really could use that secret smile.
So, we are working this month in a retail account, that is a bear. We started our last store last night. It was the night from hell. But, we survived. I'm enjoying a cold beer, and yes some well deserved smoke.
The only thing that could make this morning better is to share some sexual pleasure with some one. But, that is only going to happen in my sleep this morning. Big smile.
Two nights ago, my crew and i rolled into dayton, ohio. We are staying at my favorite Hotel.
We had the pleasure of relaxing for the night. We were sitting on the patio, enjoying our adult beverages, some smoke, and the company of several strangers,
One of those strangers was maybe a 27 year old boy. Yes, I said boy.
He attached himself to us and did not leave.
When the group broke up hours later to hit the sack, the Lil boy was still there.
As I was leaving the bar he said, so are we going to still hang out. I thought to myself, oh hell no. I said no darlin, we are not.
He then tried to talk to one of my crew. She is the youngest, 30. I found out the next day, he didn't get anywhere with that either.
Bless his heart. I will give him an A for effort.
Have a wonderful day. I'm off to lala land
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Follow up blog to i need some advice
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Posted:Aug 29, 2016 3:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2016 7:25 am
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Good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I would love to find mine there.
Working these night remodels this month has taken a toll on me. Thank God they are over this week.
This is a followup to [post3873534] the blog about the married guy that travels. He was the one that wanted me to make the explanation reservations, and then he would send me the money.
He actually read the blog. He was a Lil more forthcoming. And, he did send the money for the plane. That was they way he wanted to do it.
I made the reservations for this weekend. BUT and there is a but on my part. My job, has changed my schedule, at the last minute, and I won't be able to travel this weekend. Not for fun anyway.
I sent him a message, and explained the situation. I do have the plane tickets, that I should be able to use at a different date.
I offered to send the money back, if a reschedule isn't in the cards.
Am I the only one that gets into crazy situations.
Have a great day. Please think of me and my crew while we work our asses off tonight.
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Take the time to meet
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Posted:Aug 24, 2016 8:44 am
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2016 2:35 pm
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I could use one.
When you are talking to someone, if there is any interest at all, take the time to meet.
You never know what could happen.
After all, until you meet, you are basically talking to a blank sheet of paper.
For whatever reason, you initially started to talk with them.
But until you meet someone in person, you really don't know them.
If nothing develops, you lost nothing but some time.
But if someth8ng does develop, it could be the start of an adventure, how ever long it goes.
Take the chance. You never know.
Have a wonderful day.
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Be up front
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Posted:Aug 22, 2016 10:18 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2016 8:16 am
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I definitely could use one, it's been a few days. What can I say, I'm greedy.
So, I have to work nights this week. I'm trying to get as much sleep as I can today, but it doesn't seem to be working very well.
While messaging someone back today, I thought, oh, that would make a great blog.
Here goes.
We are all here for some reason or another. It's a known sex site, so, sex is probably the top reason.
With that being said, we are all here looking for something, to blog, to talk, to make friends, to find play for one night over and over again, to put some excitement back into what relationship you are in, to actually find someone compatible looking for the same thing you are, fwb, long term, or even gasp, marriage.
It's all pretty simple.
The big elephant in the room, is the relationship. Some of us are looking for longoing term, and some even marriage. But everything has to start somewhere.
Initially, when meeting someone, you can't say, this is it, I'm doing long term with them, I want to be exclusive, etc. You pretty much can't figure on anything.
Life doesn't work that way. But, i am not a one timer either.
I don't have to be on a dating site for nsa, or one night of sex, I can find that where ever I happen to be at the moment.
I was talking to a wanna be as I call them. He said fwb, was what he was looking for. I told him that works for me.
To me, fwb, is casual dating and playing with someone for a period of time.
That is an easy start.
The thing is, two people don't know what will happen when they meet.
I take things as they are. This site is pretty much the same as others, but sex is already on the table.
That is why I prefer it.
The vanilla sites skirt the issue, and I have found more men just wanting the one nighter, or are attached and looking for some play. That's from my experience anyway.
I have also learned from some of the men I have talked to on here, just be straight up. So, I do my best to oblige them.
Any thougts. I'm done.
Have a great day.
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all you have to do is ask
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Posted:Aug 21, 2016 10:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2016 8:54 am
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Good afternoon, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. i have a smile on my face, but it is not a secret.
I don't know if this happens to any of you, but it does me quite often.
I have people hit on me here everyday. Some, I am interested in enough to continue the conversation, with the hopes of a meet n greet.
But, there is always a but. Some of you never seem to get out of the starting gate.
Meaning, if you don't ask to meet, nothing is going anywhere.
This is how it should work here or anywhere. We message back and forth here.
If there is mutual interest, you text and talk on the phone.
From there you do a meet n greet, and from there, you figure out where things are going, if they are going anywhere.
For some reason, many of you want to message here, and/or talk and text on the phone until one of us quits. you never get out of the starting gate.
There are only so many things you can talk about without meeting each other. Meeting and knowing that person, is an important step in the whole process.
It seems many of you cannot get to that point for whatever reason.
This is how it works.
I received a message, and responded back. The messages came and went. this was over a day or two.
He then messaged:
HI, LINDA, I AM ........ WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT FOR DINNER OR MEET OVER A DRINK. he left his phone number.
I responded, yes I would love to meet you over a beer. I sent my number.
That was yesterday, we are meeting tonight.
See, how simple that was.
Its a casual meeting between two people, decided what they are doing. But, many of you cant' get there for whatever reason.
I'm not here to be somebody's penpal or phone buddy. If you are, great. I know there are people here for just that. Not me.
Have a great day.
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I need some sound advice on this
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Posted:Aug 20, 2016 10:45 am
Last Updated:Aug 29, 2016 2:52 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I really could use some input here.
I have had an attached man, talking to me. One of the reasons for my interest, is that he travels extensively, and I would have the opportunity to see several places I have not.
He wants to fly me to his town for a meet n greet. Then go from there.
But, there is always a but.
We communicate on here. We have talked once on the phone, it was a land line.
He wants me to make all the arrangements for our meeting and he will send the money, through the mail.
I told him, I realize he is protecting himself, but it looks sketchy from my end.
He could be legitimate, but there is basically no trail, if he is not.
I explained my thoughts to him, we will see what he says.
I have had men fly me to them, but they make all the arrangements, and I have access to them by cell and on here.
There is time for him to send the money, and I can make the arrangements, but as time nears, prices change as well.
What would you do, or have you done, or what would you advise.
Have a great day.
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My is visiting
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Posted:Aug 19, 2016 11:29 am
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2016 9:55 am
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I do have a smile, but it's not secret.
This , was in the military for over 8 years. I didn't get to spend a lot of time with him then.
All time with him and any of my adult is special.
We went to karaoke. A place I used to go to often, before one of my beststies died. I haven't been to the place since then.
Karaoke, is in Richmond ky, a college town.
Needless to say, there were maybe 5 people over 35 there last night, but I still enjoyed it.
He is taking me and his sister shooting automatic weapons tomorrow. That will be a first for me.
I am glad I have a great relationship with my adult .
For some reason I can't get the short video to download. All you get are the legs relaxing.
Have a great day.
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What motivates you
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Posted:Aug 18, 2016 3:39 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2016 11:09 am
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Good evening I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there.
I have been so negligent about my blogging. I think about it everyday, and say ohhhhh, that would make a great blog.
Then I don't. I have been letting life get in the way.
So, what do I want to blog about. There are so many things, I have had happen. Or thoughts I have.
I think, we all have things that motivate us for one reason or another.
Or, how about we make choices that seem right at that time.
This is what motivates me. Life moves on continuously, it does not stop for anybody.
I told you I took time to visit with this lovely lady who was like my second mother, whom I have not seen for a few years because she moved from Kentucky to Wisconsin.
Minutes after we left she went to the hospital. She was released home, with..
Hospice.
We all know what that means. She called me personally with the information.
She is 88, she said she thought she was ready to go, but is not.
I lost my mother 2 years ago. I have had 2 major operations in the passed 4 years, due to an auto wreck years ago. The last a year ago.
I'm in great shape, have a good job, have a place to live, have many family and friends.
My one lack, is the relationship thing.
This is finally where this is going...
I drove directly from my job completion to see a lover in a close by city.
This man I love, that I have been involved with a Lil over 4 years.
For whatever reason, he is there, and I am here.
Him and I were having a discussion, about me being there. I looked at him and said, my lady friend, M.a., is the reason I am here.
Cherish what you have, spend as much time with those you love.
Because, one of you may not be there tomorrow.
We, and I will say it again, we should be happy with this life we live.
That, is what motivates me, happiness.
Have a wonderful evening.
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You won't believe this shit
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Posted:Aug 10, 2016 11:05 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2016 10:48 am
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Good evening, or should I say morning. I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine needs to be there.
Two nights ago, at the hotel, I knocked on one of the crew's doors.
When she answered, a guy next door, also opened his door.
He started talking to both of us, and followed us to my room.
He started hacking and sneezing. I'm like ok grab some kleenex from the bathroom.
The next thing I know, is the dude turns around and asks me if I want some of this.
His hands are in his shorts, and he's digging out the penis.
Hell, of course I looked.
He had a sea of hair.
The first thing that came to my mind was, you really need to do some man shaping.
I looked at him, I said seriously, really, really.
You need to leave my room now.
He goes are you sure you don't want some of this.
I said I'm not desperate, and I can get that any day of the week.
My crew member grabs his arm.
I'm saying you need to get out of my room, seriously.
The guy was drunk, but really.
There were so many things I wanted to say, but did not.
We all came up with some good lines for next time, haha.
Everybody got a good laugh about it at the store.
One of the employees said welcome to Wisconsin. 
Here are some pictures of this week.
visiting a very dear friend from ky
the Mars cheese castle, Kenosha, wi
on the pier in Kenosha waterfront
my first time in Lake Michigan
me and one of the girls, it was her first time too
that is going to be my confirmed pic
are slim and chubbys in fond full lac
messing around outside the 4 aces in fond du lac
Now, go back to working on your secret smile.
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I got blocked, but that's ok
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Posted:Aug 1, 2016 4:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2016 8:57 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is definitely there.
This is a little puzzling, and I don't know if any of you have had this happen to you.
I had a guy approach me on one of the other dating sites.
His opening line was I'm curious. Of course, I had to answer back.
He responded with another question.
In the back of my mind I knew what he was asking, and I didn't answer him the way he wanted me to.
No, I was not snarky, I replied responsibly, haha.
Needless to say, he blocked me. No explanations.
Regardless of, that was no reason to block me. But that's okay.
He could have handled it a little differently. But again like I said that's okay it's his business.
Have you had anything like that happen to you.
Because of all the questions, I'm going to explain this the best I can, with what Lil I know on the subject.
I have a very good friend that is a mistress in the bdsm world.
I am familiar with her role, as well as that of a slave. I knew by the way the questions were worded, he was wanting to know if I was a mistress.
I'm not, so he had to move along. One way of doing that may be a block. I have had a few other men totally stop talking to me, when they got a negative from me as well, with no explanation. Again, it was in that realm.
It also could have been a command by one of his doms.
Like I said I know a Lil about that world, but I'm not in it.
Have a great evening.
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Tonight
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Posted:Jul 30, 2016 10:56 pm
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2016 9:34 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mines not secret, but I do have one.
Like I said in the previous blog, I do go out by myself. More then you realize.
I went to listen to a band in Lexington, with some friends.
It was totally pleasurable.
We listened to an awesome band called brother's smith.
I danced all night, except for that, mind fuck dance.
The song was Sarah Smile. I watched the couples.
None of them were so lost in each other. The mind fuck dance did not happen on this dance floor.
That is one of the things I miss the most about being part of a couple. The mind fuck dance, with someone you really want to fuck on the dance floor, but dont.
Have a good evening.
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Ask a woman to do something for God sake
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Posted:Jul 30, 2016 7:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 30, 2016 10:40 pm
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good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I would love to find mine there.
It seems, I hear from a lot of you guys that I appear to be busy.
If I really was, I won't be sitting on VisionPersonals.com like I am this morning.
I will more than likely be off until next Thursday. And I don't have any plans.
I arrived home Thursday evening. I had a meet-and-greet before I got to the house.
It was enjoyable.
It's like I just told somebody that is texting me at the moment that I guess, is a possible meet and greet. I have plenty of free time.
If I was so busy, How come every other week when I'm home I end up doing things by myself.
Where are all you supposedly available man that seem to email me, text me, and even call me when I am working my ass off.
When I'm not working my ass off I don't hear from any of you. Go figure.
Thursday night, I spent the night at the house with my adult .
Friday afternoon, I did a few things with my and ran some errands. Friday night again I'm available, I spend the evening with my . Don't get me wrong it was totally enjoyable.
My options today, and still are, go to a housewarming in Cincinnati, stop by the casino, and come home and go out to enjoy some music again, with my adult and some friends.
I also could clean an empty apartment that came available today. I have this little cleaning business I started with a friend of mine. I have girls that clean for me and make a little money on the side. For myself.
If one of you many, many supposedly available man would get off your asses, and invite me to do something I would.
I really get tired of you guys telling me I'm busy, when I'm really not.
I, just don't like sitting around doing nothing. Unless, I'm doing it with somebody like a current FWB, or new friend.
And couple pictures someone took of me 2 weeks ago, when I went out by myself, again.
Have a great day.
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