Meet n greet 2
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Posted:Feb 3, 2018 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2018 10:39 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine should be here this week.
This is actually meet and greet number 2 it happened on New Year's Eve.
So, New Year's plans got hosed buy meet and greet number one. And meet and greet number two was hot and heavy after me so I agreed to actually go out on New Year's Eve.
Hey been trying to go out with me for about a month and I was like okay. He got me when he said it was his birthday as well.
We decided to go listen to some music. The tickets were around $100. He told me he didn't know how to navigate the site to get the tickets so I got them. Thinking like wow this this could go to hell in a handbasket.
He comes to pick me up, and proceeded to tell me he lost his wallet. He told me he would pay me back tomorrow. Can you believe that.
At this point, I should have cancelled the date and went by myself. But I did not.
I told him the worst could happen is that he does not pay me back the next day like he said.
We had a good time only because I knew the people there. I paid for the drinks. Hey that would have been my birthday present to him anyway.
So, he drops me at the house I told him it was nice to meet him and that was it.
I get into bed and receive a phone call. He has run out of gas and is down the road.
This was before I had my hip replaced and it wasn't easy for me to get around. Needless to say, I was quite pissed off at this. I take him $10 give him the money and head back to my house.
Needless to say, he did not pay me back. But he did thank me for helping him out.
Maybe this guy does this all the time I don't know. But I can guarantee you this, I will not pay for anything upfront unless I actually know the guy personally.
I just wonder sometimes where you guys come from.
Hopefully you will read about meet and greet number 3 in a few days.
I have always said, I have a bad picker finger. Haha
Have a wonderful day.
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Meet n greet 1
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Posted:Jan 28, 2018 7:44 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 11:15 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I hope I have one soon.
So I've been off work for 3 weeks now. I've had quite a few meet-and-greets. I'm doing my best.
After all, I'm not working I'm not traveling.
At this point I don't think it really matters. This shits all so discouraging.
So I decided to meet this guy that lives about 45 minutes away. He was going to meet me down the road at a little Pub. That was close to my house
And for me if he was drinking he would want to spend the night. I informed him I don't have sex the first time I meet somebody because after all it is a meet and greet.
So I did agree to let him spend the night. After
It was okay, no ripping off of the clothes no I want to jump your bones or anything like that.
Somewhere in the Night the guy breaks my bed frame. The solution, he puts a brick underneath it. And the brick is still there after a month. I haven't been able to get it fixed.
So since I met the guy, he conveniently got a hold of me after New Year's Eve. With some excuse. But I went out anyway with another date. And that's another story.
So, since I've met the guy he hasn't had phone service, his mom's been sick for a while, he said the flu, he's been off work for a couple days. I don't know what other excuses he's had.
I actually gave up on him after he broke my bed. I just speak to him when he calls. I guess maybe he thinks we're still going out after all this. Or maybe I believe all this I don't know
Anyway I told him after he called me this last time I said man I go you had a lot of things going on I hope you get them all straightened out.
Maybe all that stuff's been happening who knows.
I guess this is all leading up to the fact that since I'm not traveling I'm making a conservative effort to meet people. Well if this first 3 weeks is any indication of what's going to happen maybe I really don't want to do this.
It's actually discouraging as hell.
Being off work and recuperating or making some life decision doesn't help either.
Wish people would be up front and I don't know. That's all I can say.
Have a wonderful day.
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It's just a meet n greet
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Posted:Jan 26, 2018 3:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2018 11:49 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I sure would love .
Okay, this wasn't what I was going to blog on but anyway, what is a meet and greet.
For me, a meet-and-greet between people that meet online is to see if you like each other. And to diuss where you're going after that and what you decide you both want.
Or, you may both decide you're not a match. And that's it.
I've had several meet and greets since I've been off work. Trust me I'm going to blog about almost each and every of them.
Just because I agree to meet you and you buy me a drink or and maybe some food. I was okay with the drinks.
That doesn't give you the privilege to want to park with me and touch my tits as you say. That's .
Or like the guy today said because we weren't going to hook up, why should we take the time to meet. Really, all you've d is and talk to me a couple times. Now I know why you didn't do the first meet and greet.
I guess people have their own concept of what a meet-and-greet is. But I look at it this way if I meet you online I'm going to meet you somewhere in person in a public place for a drink or something. And then we figure out if we're going to do anything.
How hard is that. It's really up to each individual.
Do you have sex at the meet n greet, that's up to you. I used to, but I don't anymore for my own reasons.
It's like I always tell people I don't have to be on an online site adult or vanilla to find sex. I can find that anywhere. all I have to do is pick up the ph.
Have a good evening. It's been a pleasure.
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What if.....
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Posted:Jan 24, 2018 9:13 am
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2018 1:42 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I'm so looking forward to having one there.
This is basically the blog I wanted to blog about, I led up to it a little bit with me having some medical issues.
Today has been a total turnaround I'm on some new meds, all the allergic reaction is gone my hip is going fine I'm actually ready to get up and go now.
One of the things that bothered me, was what if I didn't get better what if I stayed sick, what if I have to limp for the rest of my life, or what if I had a face swollen all the time because of meds or some medical condition.
And I know this happens too many of us, I'm just not ready for it.
What if, you can't have sex anymore because of a medical condition, or you feel like you're not good enough for a relationship because of a medical condition. What do you do then.
No this is not happening to me at the moment, but I know it will eventually. I just don't know how I will handle it.
I guess another reason I brought this up was because a man with cerebral palsy which he does have listed in his profile showed some interest.
I know what I can and cannot do. I know what I can't accept. I guess it bothers me because I felt bad, because I understood a little bit about what he was going through.
Anybody that is going through this or has experienced it I wish you well.
I also know it can be devastating if one in the relationship has a medical problem and the other doesn't I know this can raise issues.
If anybody has any insight to this I would totally appreciate it.
Have a wonderful day.
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2 weeks post surgery
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Posted:Jan 22, 2018 6:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2018 7:13 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I could use one.
Soooooo, I'm 2 weeks post surgery. I see the doc tomorrow. Hip is way ahead of recovery. I did have a setback. I'm allergic to the pain meds and or a combination of meds.
I was itching all over my body, and my face swelled like a chipmunk. Doc pulled me off all meds. I'm doing well with no pain meds at all including ibuprofen.
They have me on benadryl. It's working, but not as fast as I would like. If I had gone to the emergency room, they would have pumped me with a IV of benadryl and I'd be done.
We were going to go out since it was my sister's last weekend in town. I didn't because I was conscious of my face. No matter what anyone says, it matters to me how I look.
On top of all this, I'm horny as hell.
I have been trying to throw a couple meet n greets in already, but have postponed them. One of my fuckbuddies got a hold of me as well.
I'm going to leave that out there, and write about it tomorrow.
Have a wonderful day.
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I'm whining
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Posted:Jan 15, 2018 8:15 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2018 5:51 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Unfortunately this recovery is hindering mine. Hopefully another week.
My hip was replaced on Monday. What craps about everything is the weather. It would make my life easier if it was nice, and no snow or ice. Falling is the issue. And no I have not.
It's hard to sit and do n9t a whole lot. Since my sister has been here, we do get out everyday, which is good.
It's excellent therapy to get in and out of a truck, and to manever around her dog, I don't have animals at this point in my life.
I'm using a cane at the moment, doc said it makes me more stable. It's unsexy as hell But I guess it's my buddy.
I feel useless at the moment, but I know this will pass, as this hip does it's thing.
I was wanting to go to Florida when sis was here, but she brings this big truck that gets 12 miles to the gallon. Really, if she didn't bring the dig, we could have flown cheaper than driving, but she has this dog.
At the moment, I'm thinking Florida may be a couple weeks down the road, by myself. She will be heading home in a week.
I don't whining now. Have a wonderful day..
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And, that is how you do it
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Posted:Jan 11, 2018 2:16 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2018 6:15 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Wouldn't it be lovely to have one there this morning.
So many things to blog about......
My sister who just got recently divorced is the one that is staying with me while my body heals from surgery.
She's on those vanilla dating sites, she likes to team up with my and give me hell for being on VisionPersonals.com.
So, cuz I'm gimping around here before and after surgery her mouth opened up and she goes why did you have sex if your gimping around like that.
Just because I had a playdate 2 days be sort before surgery. Haha
I told her I said well......
I straddled him while he was on the couch and fucked him.
I laid across the bed with my ass in the air while he fucked me doggy style.
I laid on my back on the bed and we fucked some more.
I was on the edge of the bed frontwards and backwards with legs up or down. And we fucked some more.
We did it sideways and we fucked some more.
We were in the office chair in the hotel room, we were on the bed, off the bed, and he was receiving great blowjobs.
We did several more things, had several more orgasms, at least I did.
Need I say more. It was a totally pleasurable evening even though I might have been a little gimpy. And that's how you do it.
And that's what I told her. You got to love your sister.
I hope you all have a wonderful day.
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Hey there
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Posted:Jan 6, 2018 10:49 pm
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2018 1:59 am
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Mine is there.
It has been so long since I blogged that I'm going to have to refer to the notes to make my type bigger and darker. Hopefully have it figured out by the next blog.
So, happy New Year. And a new year it will be. I'm not going to complain about last year, but I am a stronger person for what the Year gave me. Sooooooo, I do know this year will definitely be adventurous.
I'm getting another bionic part. I'm hoping this is the last one, and I hope I'm still my doc's poster come Monday afternoon. I'm having my left hip replaced on Monday morning.
Evidentally everything still works, I got my playtime in.
I will be on fmla until April 1. So look, it seems I will have a lot of leisure time, and, i will have more time to do the things I want to do.
I'm looking forward to it.
Have a wonderful evening.
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My job
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Posted:Mar 24, 2017 8:56 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2018 11:46 am
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Good morning I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Mine has been hiding for a few weeks now. If fact, I'm used to weekly play time, but I have actually been turning it down. One had to be cancelled because of work. All I can say, is holy shit, it's been 3 weeks, way to long for me.
Many things have been canceled because of work.
In fact, they changed my store opening schedule, causing my work to collide with my personal life. Don't get me wrong, work does collide often, but I can work around it.
Not this time. We are celebrating my daddy's 87th birthday in Wisconsin on April 1, which happens to be mom's birthday. It's sort of cool though celebrating it then, because she passed almost 2 years ago.
I had to ask for pto time, something I despise doing, because we are on salary, and my boss give me hell when we ask off. And beleve me, he has been an ass.
To top it off, this was a week from hell. 2 of my crew called off at the last minute 2 days into a 5 day job, so we couldn't make up all the hours.
There was more, but it doesn't matter,what does matter, is I am being diligent about finding another job. I don't look for jobs, they usually find me. In fact, I didn't apply for this current job, my boss found me.
I'm actually looking for a job. I do have some leads. A friend in North Dakota is trying to get us out there. And a friend is florida can help as well. Florida is probably more fun then north Dakota, but the job in North Dakota would be seasonal and pays very well, with a call back date every year, allowing me to have 6 months off with good unemployment pay.
Doesn't matter, I'm ready for a change. Too bad I don't have a sugar daddy, haha. 
Have a great day.
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Really
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Posted:Mar 15, 2017 12:03 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2018 10:38 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. Evidently mine won't be there tonight.
I'm sitting at the tire place. They are checking out the oil leak that wasn't there when I got the oil changed a couple weeks ago at one of their other locations.
Hopefully it's a loose filter or plug.
I received a message from someone new on the fish site.
I glanced at the message, as I was leaving the house to meet a friend.
I texted my friend and told them I was 15 minutes away.
The message went to the fish guy.
I realized the mistake and sent the fish guy a quick message explaining the mixup.
Me: Crap, that message was meant for a friend I was texting.
Him: if you are talking to another guy, I don't need to talk to you.
Me: that was a text message to a friend. If it was a message to a guy, it doesn't matter, you just sent me a fish message. You have a great day, and best of luck.
I really wanted to tell him to go fuck him self.
He just sent me a blah blah blah message. And he has an issue with a text to a friend.
The dude is either very insecure, or an ass one, by responding the way he did.
I'm shaking my head, but smiling.
Have a great day.
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Another lazy day
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Posted:Mar 14, 2017 5:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2017 11:47 am
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Hey there, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I spent another day in my black thermals.
I did do the dishes.
I did make travel plans for my crew. That takes a couple hours when you are constrained to a clc list and you are trying to find decent hotels.
The mechanic didn't come by for the van, I'm using that as my excuse. Haha
Naaaa, it's just toooooooo damn cold for me to want to go anywhere.
I did send some naughty pictures to one of my fwb's.
I did have someone offer to come by for a fuck and run. I took a pass.
I passed on playtime? Yes I did, especially the fuck and run. Sometimes they are great, but for me there's a lot of if ands or buts.
I hope your day was more pleasurable then mine.
Have a great evening. Work on that smile.
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Winter
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Posted:Mar 13, 2017 7:50 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 11:15 pm
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Hey there, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I grew up in Wisconsin. I know the cold. I don't like to be cold.
I live in kentucky. It still gets cold. More cold then I prefer.
Plus, I miss the sunshine.
EVERY YEAR, I SAY I'M GOING SOUTH.
at least for 3 months in the winter.
I get so winter crazy, I can't stand myself.
Next winter one way or another, I'm south.
Warm, sunshine.
Have a great evening
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I skipped today
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Posted:Mar 12, 2017 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2017 6:43 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. I am not wearing mine, but it's all on me. I cancelled one night already this week.
My job has had me just slightly a little busier than I normally would like to be.
I got home late on Friday. I unpacked and relaxed.
Yesterday, I caught up on all my paperwork most of it anyway. And I enjoyed a movie with my and her boyfriend. Then some bonding time later with my oldest .
I skipped today all together.
I forgot about daylight savings time till about 2 o'clock this afternoon when somebody posted about it.
I totally did not watch the UK Wildcats win the secc Championships.
I totally forgot about my friends playing music at a venue this afternoon.
I'm still wearing my black thermals, AKA I'm not sleeping with a guy sleepwear. In other words they are my Jammers, and I have been in them since last night. And I'm going to wear them to bed again tonight.
I hate to admit this, but I didn't take a shower.
I pretty much watched TV, cooked, and talked to some people online.
Evidently I didn't talk like I should have, because I sort of got bitched out for not calling somebody that gave me their phone number. Hey, I didn't feel like it, not yet anyway.
I did watch several YouTube videos, more than I ever have in my life for a few hours today.
There are several things I would like to do and learn. I started today, I watched videos on things that I actually plan on doing this year.
I did make some lists today as well. Something I have not done in a long long time.
I'm trying to get myself back on track. I know I will.
Hell, I have even been procrastinating on the playtime.
But again, that's okay.
I could work this week, but guess what. I'm not going too.
I have to take the crew out on Friday.
That gives me time to get my self in order.
And that playtime, it's happening.
Have a great evening. Get your secret smile on.
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