Maury, Jerry, Steve, and others
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Posted:Oct 16, 2015 4:24 pm
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2015 7:00 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I am finally returning to work after being off work recuperating from knee surgery on July 13, and throwing myself off the stairs 2 weeks ago. Believe me, I am ready, this recuperation was totally different from the hip three years ago. I was back to work sooner, and I was able to enjoy most of my time off. This knee, was not as easy, but that is behind me now.
One thing I did while recuperating was do a lot of television watching. I had a regular routine. Part of the daily routine was Maury. Yeah Maury, the dna testing king.
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Maury, Jerry, Steve, and all these other shows that do dna testing for babies daddies seem to have no end of .
It's sort of sad. The females get on the show, and act all stupid.
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They say the daddy looks like the and point to pictures. Keep in mind this may be the 3rd, or 5th, or 12th time or more.
Also, the women and families carry on, I want him to be a daddy. I don't want him to be the daddy. yada, yada, yada.
Keep in mind, many of the men, have been on the shows more than once as well.
To me it's unbelievable that a person would not remember who they slept with and when. Especially when they end up pregnant.
When the dude is not the daddy, the crazy woman runs off screaming and again doing stupid shit. Maury, looks at the dude, and blows him off, even though the dude had to listen to all kinds of shit an hour earlier.
Maury goes to the female and says is there anyone else that might be the daddy.
Here we go again. Round and round.
I don't want to judge anybody's morals. It just seems that all the parties involved act like this is part of life.
The best part of the shows, is listening to the people involved, and to watch them fight. Some of the things that comes out of their mouths is mind boggling.
I love it when the weaves go flying and the hair pulling commence.
Have our morals changed, or has today's technology put everything out there in the open for us to view in the present.
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on line safety 101
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Posted:Oct 12, 2015 10:19 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2015 3:22 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
This is my last week off work wit the knee replacement stuff going on. I am healing well from throwing myself down off the stairs and hanging on that electric meter. I am taking off next weekend as well, since it is my last weekend off before i start back to work.
I would hope we all have certain things we do when meeting someone in person on-line.
Don't get me wrong, I have did some pretty stupid things when I first started on-line, but I am a quick learner.
By the grace of God those stupid things did not lead to any issues I could not handle.
Safety 101 - Meet n greets
After I have met someone on line, messaged, texted, and talked on the phone and have decided to meet, there are a couple steps I take.
Someone, normally my friend Sharon, or even my , knows I have a meet and greet.
I plan the meet and greet in a public place.
My places of choice are preferably a place that serves beer. So, it's either a bar or restaurant.
I have met in places like Waffle House, Mcdonalds, hotel lobby's, and Starbucks as well. As well as other public places.
There have been times I turned down the meet n greet. We are not going straight to each others house, hotel, some place isolated, or one of my favorites, the parking lot.
Oh yes, the parking lot.
We pull up, roll out windows down, speak a few words, like the looks of each other and go straight to one of our houses.
I have had more than one version of that thrown at me.
The best is I'm driving into your area now, can I come by your house. Ahhhhhaaaaaahaaaa I have not met you, and I am sure everything you have told me is true, sure stop on by. I don't think so.
I like the parking lot, and the I will stop by. Seriously, come on. Someone else may do it, but not me.
Yes, something could happen with someone you meet while out, but you more than likely have been talking to them for a couple hours while out. Is anything 100 percent safe, no.
Just use some common sense, don't do a drive by, and follow them or have them follow you.
I am not saying I have not done something stupid at times.
Be as safe as you can, and enjoy what life throws at you.
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Something to think about
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Posted:Oct 8, 2015 12:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2015 6:04 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Many of you know, I have been off work recuperating from left total knee replacement.
I have been released from my physical therapist. My orthopedic appointment was on Tuesday October 6th to be released for work.
The lead up to the blog. On Saturday around 5 pm, I was relaxing at my friends house. We had just got in from the flea market, and were getting settled in for the rest of the evening. It was cold and rainy and nobody was venturing out. I had to take some money to the car, and proceeded down the outside stairs from the second floor.
I have been up and down those stairs for the passed 6 years, and know to be careful, especially after surgery.
On the 5th step down, my right foot went, I was flat on my back falling, thinking, Oh God, this is not really happening.
IT DID
When it was all said and done after falling 12 feet outside, I ended up hanging by a screw that had caught my thermal shirt. I was hanging off the electric meter.
Long story short, I was immediately taken to the ER. I ended up and this is a miracle or whatever you want to call it. I had no broken bones at all, multiple bruises and contusions. A twisted muscle in the recently replaced knee, and a damaged rotator cuff. I was released for work on October 19 by my ortho.
THE BLOG
While in the ER, they were doing their thing. Ex-rays, c-t scans, neck collar, head taped down, transfers from here to there to here. Get her clothes off, or we can cut them, hearing aids out, everything out of her hands.
Then we come to the earrings. In all the pain and commotion, I didn't want them to take the earrings. Someone I allowed myself to love gave me those earrings. Was he there, no. Was he called, no. Does he know about the accident, NO, not yet. Did the earrings come off, yes.
You see, when you are involved with someone that is attached, when he/she is with their family, you cannot call or text, even though you may be involved in an accident.
To take up for myself, I didn't know this person was attached from the beginning.
You lay there realizing, you could die, and he would never know, until sometime after the fact.
Just something to think about.
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what would you do/another shaking my head moment
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Posted:Oct 2, 2015 6:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2015 7:04 pm
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Good evening, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
My physical therapist, released me for work. Hopefully the doctor will on Tuesday. It seems i get more accomplished when I am busy. It's been great being off, but I am ready to go back to work.
I should have blogged on this a week ago, but I pondered on it for a few days.
Ladies and gentlemen, if you are on any site at all that involves pictures and physical attributes, please be honest, and up to date.
If you do a meet n greet, everything is out there. Please do not be someone's surprise.
Especially, when I am up front about everything, including making sure you read my profile. I even ask have you read it, are you okay with everything posted.
THE MEET N GREET FROM HELL
You flew in from out of state. You told me for one night, and it was 2. I have other plans on that 2nd day.
You are sitting at the table in the restaurant. First glance, you are unkempt, it looks like you slept in your clothes. You might have showered.
You order a salad. you are basically a pig. Food all over, you pick it up with your fingers, and when you are finished, you have it on your hands, shirt.
Conversation was awesome. 2 beers and we talked a couple hours.
I asked him to walk to the car with me.
At that time he informs me, he can not walk well.
I shake my head, and roll into the being someone's surprise spiel. I was not rude.
He: So, you are pissed off because i have difficulty walking.
Me: The fact you didn't tell me before you flew out here. Before I agreed to meet.
I had decided pretty much when I met him, it was not going anywhere.
I felt sorry for the guy. He really could not hardly walk at all. He was a mess.
We talked, I explained myself about the walking issue. I wanted him to understand it was not because of that.
I didn't feel anything at all, there was no spark for me. That is the main reason it never got out of the starting gate.
This has bothered me, it still does.
My friend Sharon, told me she would have been rude regardless of the walking issues and him being forthcoming and walked out.
What would you have done.
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holier than thou mainstream media
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Posted:Sep 24, 2015 6:34 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2015 1:49 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Every since the Ashley Madison breach, it seems the main stream media has had to put their 2 cents worth in on marriage and sex.
What surprises me is how they all act shocked and appalled that such things could happen.
What amazes me most is when you have someone famous that gets caught stepping out. What do they do............
OH MY GOD, they discovered they are sex addicts and need to get help. Seriously.
I know SEX can be an addiction, but not that rampant.
It's the act of getting caught. If they had not gotten caught, they would still be doing what they were.
The media also acts like things like that don't happen.
I have news for them, when they were reporting their little bit of phenomena, some of their spouses, or attachments, were enjoying the pleasure from someone else.
There are billions of people on this planet, some follow what society says is normal.
It's like the Olympic athlete said, if she had not got caught, she would still be enjoying the pleasure.
We all do things society and the media don't consider society's norms. It's like this guy I met, he called it the down low.
It doesn't matter what it's called, people will continue to enjoy what they want.
Yes, a marriage/relationship will be affected, when it comes out. The one's involved will make their decisions then.
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It is all in the message
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Posted:Sep 19, 2015 9:37 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2015 8:29 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
This fine morning finds me waiting on the mechanic to have my van back here. It seems my passed 2 weekends for most part have repeated this pattern. I have two old vehicles I drive (I have an aversion to car payments). For some reason both of them, have oil leaks, fixable oil leaks. It's just a pain in the ass.
I have maybe 3 weeks off work with the knee rehab. Time is flying, and I am not getting a whole lot done.
I have had the pleasure of some wonderful playtime, probably too much.
I read a fellow bloggers blog this morning. This must be the week for the crazies sending messages. McManiac, had posted about people sending stupid messages. Others posted to his blog about similar messages. Just so happens, I have had several myself this week.
I went back and tried to retrieve the messages, since I had answered and deleted. I was going to post the words verbatum. That's not happening, so it will be from memory. These are a few of my messages this week.
1st message - a dick picture - 37 yr old male.
he:you up for some fun tonight.
me: no, good luck here.
he: I'm trying to with you.
me: a dick picture and a message wanting to fuck, are not going to get you anywhere.
2nd message - a couple profile from california
He: I am going to be in Lexington next Wednsday. Let's get together for drinks and fun.
I went to look at the profile, and it was deleted.
me: DELETE
3rd message - a single 40 something male Chattanooga tn - picture attached to a message
he: one liner I don't remember
I looked at the profile the guy wants NSA FWB
me: I already have fuck buddy that lives close by, why would I drive 5 hours for NSA sex.
4th message - a single 50's lexington, ky no picture
he: I don't have time for a relationship i just want to fuck every so often.
me: I already have a fuck buddy to scratch my itch. He comes when I call. I don't want another fuck buddy. If I am not exclusive, FWB works for me.
5th message - 40 something male elizabethtown ky sends a pic with message
he: I will be happy to answer anything you want to know about me.
The profile has no pictures of him, around 20 friends in his area, and basically nothing in the profile. It had answers to maybe 5 questions max.
me: You messaged me first. After looking at your profile, which contains no information, i wish you luck here.
he 'm new at this, blah, blah, blah.
me: good luck here.
There have been messages from overseas, one guy that i still messaging me hoping it will work out and he is willing to move to the states.
Many dick pics with more stupid messages.
Many messages from men my adult age.
Some civil messages, from men that can't seem to get passed the pen pal stage, who I will eventually tire of and end up deleting.
Some from friends, and some from others I talk too.
I try to be nice when i respond back. I got fed up when I answered the 5th message i posted and got snarky with the guy. Supposedly he was new. I sent a nice reply and deleted.
If getting sex was as easy as posting a dick or pussy picture and saying lets fuck, there would not be any need for all these dating sites.
We would all be just fucking and enjoying each other.
Oh wait, we could be mindlessly fucking each other, and I know some of us are. If you are into one time only and don't care who you fuck.
I am not dissing anybody if they are into that. I know we all have our wants and needs.
In retrospect, all I want to say to those people that post the dick pic and lets have fun or fuck message.
DO YOU REALLY THINK IT'S GOING TO BE THAT EASY.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here............thegrls
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unexpected morning pleasure
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Posted:Sep 12, 2015 4:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2015 5:45 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Since knee surgery, my sleep system has gone to hell in a hand basket.
I am by no means a morning person. But for some reason, 4:00 - 5:00 is when I wake up.
This morning, instead of trying to go back to sleep, I brewed some coffee, and decided to get on-line.
I stumble across this blog about group sex.
The blogger gives a very thorough explanation, and includes pictures.
I read the blog, comment, and proceed to the profile page.
If a person swings, or is into group sessions, this group appears to have it's shit together.
I am not usually a voyeur, unless I happen to be at our local swingers club.
I did however, look at every picture they had posted, and that was a shit load of them.
Keep in mind I don't troll this site or other profiles for their picture content.
Needless to say, the woman that prefers real versus masturbation, enjoyed some quick and fast masturbation several times hard and fast this morning.
I use a simple bath towel. The towel I am speaking of is laying here limply beside me.
Those fast intense orgasms, still lingering on my pussy and my brain.
Thank you for the blog, information and pictures.
My towel and I had some intense moments of pleasure.
How was your morning.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here............thegrls
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Couples or Coupling
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Posted:Sep 10, 2015 6:23 am
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2016 6:24 pm
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I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I took my morning walk. This helps with the knee rehab. What a pleasant morning.
In life, people have this inherit need to be together. We first of all were made to procreate. That's why the higher beings made sex so wonderful.
Just think, what would happen if sex was like going to the dentist.
If sex wasn't so wonderful, and we didn't do it, we would die out as a species. Obviously sex is here to stay...... .
So, we have these men, and these women. For whatever reason, we couple. Why, because it's nice to have that constant someone. And, someone has to take care of those babies as well.
People have tried group living, over the years, but for some reason, that couple shit seems to work.
I know I can't handle that group living shit.
Why do we couple with who we do. Prefrence, feelings, like minds, love, finances, attractiveness, convenience, sex, you got tired of being alone, or for any other reason on that huge list.
From my experience, besides those feelings of love, I believe many couples get together for other reasons. One of them being, they are tired of being alone.
There is nothing wrong with that or any other reason. Over time, one or both of the couple will be looking for what they are not finding.
And here we are on VisionPersonals.com. That couple has a few options.
fuck around without your partner knowing
swing with your partner knowing or being involved as well
split and become part of another couple
stay single and do friends with benefits, or whatever
be a saint
And you have the one's I call the saints. They stay in that couple, and one or both is not receiving that sexual gratification for whatever reason.
They don't step out. One of the reasons is medical issues, or family obligations. Like I said, saintly.
Couples are couples until the one holding on finally gives up and moves on.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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11th virtual symposium, DOORS
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Posted:Sep 9, 2015 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Sep 10, 2015 4:45 am
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I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
With all the knee replacement stuff going on at the time of the 11th virtual symposium, I missed it. It seems I took some time off from the internet, period.
I didn't know we had a symposium, evidently I didn't look that hard, because I found it today.
The doors I have decided to talk about are relationship's doors.
Doors are opened, and doors are closed. Some doors open again, and they close again. That same door may open again, and it may or may not close.
We can liken that door to fate, and we have the choice to step through it, or not.
Just remember, if you step through a door involving the same person, or situation
more than once, you better have your eyes wide open.
The second, third, and whatever time it is that the door opens, things are different than the first time the door was opened.
The first time the door was opened, neither person involved knew anything about the other. Life for them was shiny and new like those presents on Christmas morning.
For whatever reason the door closed.
When a door closes, I don't care what you do, you cannot open it.
No matter what you want, or do, unless fate, or your higher being opens that door, it is not going to be opened.
Then BAM, that door opens up again. Things on the other side of that door are more clear to you now.
You have a choice, do I step through, or not.
Depending on why that door closed and then opened, use some thought as to why you are stepping through that door again.
What will you do if it closes again.
That door closed again suddenly.
Then BAM, that door opens up again. This time, things have changed and moved a little. You see and know all the things.
You, could close the door, but you don't want to.
Life on the other side of that door didn't go the way you wanted, but you cannot change it.
When you step through the door a third time, You better be sure you have your eyes open.
Life changes in a blink of an eye, doors open and doors close.
Some doors stay closed never to open again, and some doors for whatever reason, open and close only to reopen more times.
All I can say is, make the best decision you can.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here.............thegrls
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What would you do
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Posted:Sep 9, 2015 7:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2015 11:47 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
i was out last night listening to patio music. It was a very pleasant evening.
My friend Crystal was a no show, but my joined me for awhile.
The people next to me had been conversing with me all evening, as well as buying me beer.
Long story short at the end of the night, one of the guys insisted he walk me to my car.
He had kissed me at the table, and gave me his number.
I like to kiss, very much. BUT, and there is a but. I have issue kissing if someone's breath smells.
Well, his did, and he wanted more kissing when we got to the car.
I gave it another shot, and just couldn't.
Then he wants to know why I don't want to kiss him. I decided fuck.
I told him. It didn't go that well. I think he took it to mean I didn't think he brushed his teeth.
My ex, had problems with his breath, as do others. He brushed, and then used gum, or mouthwash to keep it fresh.
I'm like this, I brush my teeth in the morning, but if I'm going out, I will run a brush over them before I leave.
The dude goes, you are not going to call me. I didn't say that, and at this point, it's up in the air.
So, what would you have done.
[bold] Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here................thegrls
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The wedding celebration
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Posted:Sep 7, 2015 6:34 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2015 3:29 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
Yesterday, I went to a wedding celebration. The wedding happened in Las Vegas in July. I posted the pics from that week, but not of the wedding it self.
I had to run out and get a card, their gift, and grab some wine.
I am not a big card buyer. My mom on the other hand, kept Hallmark in business.
It is nice to receive cards. I stumbled upon the perfect card for this couple.
She has always believed in the fairy tale, and sappy old me does as well.
The bride is my 's bestie, since first grade. Her and her now husband consider me mom. There are only 2 other people out there besides my adult that can call me mom.
The couple have been together off and on for 10 years. They took that last step.
During one of the down times the couple had a year or so ago, the bride asked my for advice.
To the best of my memory, this is what I said.
Whatever the issue or issues may be, what are you willing to live with for the rest of your life with this person. Can any of the issues be resolved in some way. Are the issues fixable. We all know some are not.
What are you willing to accept. Can there be compromise.
They stayed apart for a time, resolved the issues, and here we are.
I wish them success in the future.
In any relationship, of any sort, whether it be love, friendship, work, family, there are always deal breakers.
You talk to the person, and resolve it some way. you stay together, tolerate each other or you move on.
What may be a deal breaker for you, will not be a deal breaker for them or somebody else.
Back to the celebration, you could feel the love from the bride and groom and all the attendees.
Hopefully it will be there 5, 10, 20 or however many years it goes.
And life goes on.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..................thegrls
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This is one of those, what I miss in a relationship blogs
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Posted:Sep 6, 2015 10:15 am
Last Updated:Sep 20, 2015 12:26 pm
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Good afternoon, I hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face.
I travel for a living. Some of you know this, and some don't.
I have been off work recuperating from knee replacement since July 13.
As far as I know, I may be going back to work on October 13.
This being off and stuck close to home has been a lil rough on me for the following reasons:
Kentucky was my Ex's home. The only people I have here are two of my adult .
My family is in Wisconsin.
I travel for a living, that means my work collegues don't live in my immediate area.
They live throughout the united states.
Since I do travel during the week, and have worked sales and flea markets for more than 30 years, I am not that close to my neighbors. I pretty much never see them, unless I am home, like now. I have been working on being more neighborly.
I do have my besties, at home, 2 to be exact.
I am not in an exclusive relationship.
The majority of my playmates are not in my local area. In fact, I have 2 fuckbuddies, and one fwb in the vicinity.
Bless the FWB, I am glad he has a great sense of humor. I told him he is the only one in the area, so he is getting all kinds of invites he normally would not get from me. Thank God he knows me and knows I am not stalking him.
The fuck buddies are what they are.
Where the hell is this going you say:
When I am home for any amount of time, I have no running buddies, no family or extended family, not many friends, no one I can call and invite out, or in.
Unless I travel, or go out by myself, I am here in the house, like I am at the moment.
Here it is a long holiday weekend. Did I have any plans no. That's another thing, because of my work, I am a lousy planner.
I am more of a hey, let's do this person.
I have concluded I can change this. I can seek out more local playmates, try to do some pre-planning, maybe volunteer while home.
I am not by any means whining, just trying to make some changes.
I am a person that does go out by herself a lot. It's either that or stay in. I believe in getting out, but, I prefer not to go to sporting events, or concerts or stuff like that by myself.
It would be great to have someone to pal around with. A wing man.
At the conclusion of this, I finally titled it. Spending time with someone you care about. What do you do, when you don't have that someone special.
I am open for suggestions.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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