The Art of the Pursuit
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Posted:Dec 24, 2012 6:38 pm
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2016 4:53 am
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When I first had the ability to hook up with girls regularly, I began experiencing an empty feeling. I began comparing girls and realized one thing, chemistry is important.
It is not about the prettiest girl, the girl with the best body, or the girl that outwardly demonstration of being great in bed. Its about the chemistry between two individuals - which is a simple understanding with a broadness in application.
If one person loves sex so much that it consumes them, if they are smart, they would continuously learn of ways to please their potential partners. One must evolve, to learn about pleasure zones and making an experience memorable.
I continuously learn of ways to be more diverse in the bedroom and the key thing is being more diverse out of the bedroom. Stimulating a female to get her to think and want can be beneficial when you are at the moment of a physical encounter. Knowing of ways to improve your physical performance by knowing the science behind the body machine... Working out, taking the right supplements (especially around the time you plan to be intimate) and wearing the right clothes. The decision of sex doesnt happen when you are naked, but when everyone is fully clothed and being normal people.
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Alpha vs aggressive
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Posted:Jul 8, 2017 2:09 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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I think we learn lots from porn stars off of YouTube as they share their experiences. I feel they highlight why many of us enter sites like VisionPersonals.com or more conventional dating sites to interact. Clearly we are lacking something, we may call it a path towards enhancing or simply it could be self esteem or it could be time; bottom line we are here to fill a void that is valued as important.
I don't have a negative or positive view on online sites, I do think it is what it is and it's important for us to be honest about the "why" we utilize these sites to fulfill a void.
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Sexual Drive
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Posted:Jun 13, 2017 7:06 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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What drives a man to take supplements to perform? Is it for selfish reason aka ego or a hope to have a partner want you more often.
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Sex Jokes
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Posted:May 14, 2017 11:35 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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# 9 A man is in a hotel lobby. He wants to ask
the clerk a question. As he turns to go to the
front desk, he accidentally bumps into a woman
beside him and as he does, his elbow goes into
her breast. They are both startled and he
says, "Ma'am, if your heart is as soft as your
breast, I know you'll forgive me." She replies, "if
your penis is as hard as your elbow, I'm in room
1221."
# 8 A young man walks up and sits down at the
bar. "What can I get you?" the bartender
inquires. "I want 6 shots of Jagermeister,"
responded the young man. "6 shots?!? Are you
celebrating something?" "Yeah, my first
blowjob." "Well, in that case, let me give you a
7th on the house." "No offense, sir. But if 6
shots won't get rid of the taste, nothing will."
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Health Benefits
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Posted:Apr 9, 2017 10:45 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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We are sexual beings, and thankfully so. However, I believe this energy is greatly underutilized and misunderstood.
Largely that’s because the word “sexual” for some, can bring on all sorts of unhealthy thoughts including religious sin, poor self-image, jealously of others or frustration over being deprived of intimacy.
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Sex Culture
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Posted:Mar 7, 2017 4:07 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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Dating someone new is very exciting; thrill of someone new, the sincere interest to get to know one another, and the fresh new start to express emotions. However, the moment of intimacy can be a moment of intense complication. First, the courting process usually doesnt involve a person's sexual interest. Next, the assumptions made on what pleases the other may lead to further challenges. I feel the topic must be presented and discussed in hopes that there is a history lesson on a person's past and interest. There is no one size fits all approach, but I do believe if someone truly cares about another there is a possibility to make those intimate moments fun and magical.
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2017
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Posted:Feb 20, 2017 7:14 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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This site has evolved and needs to return to its roots. Its allowed fake profiles to infiltrate the site as well as recruit people who are not here to meet. I feel that stigmas around safe adult fun being viewed as bad needs to be removed, considering it consenting adults attempting to fulfill a void in their life that led them to join this site.
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Sex Prep
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Posted:Jan 7, 2017 8:38 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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Groom yourself... good hygiene and being maintain increases the attraction to your partner
Communicate with your partner... try to collect enough information about the likes, dislikes, interest, and points of curiosity; then attempt to surprise her with your attention to detail with the information you collected during your performance
Be Confident... when you have your partner one-on-one, there is no need to worry about the "what ifs", believe in yourself and process later
Increase your partner confidence... who knows what your partner is thinking, that is impossible; however, timely compliments and acknowledgment of your partners attractiveness and appreciation for your partners presence should be recognized
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Sex first than dating
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Posted:Dec 3, 2016 5:31 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2023 10:45 am
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I feel that it is best to have sex first, safely, than pursue a relationship. The romance to sex paradigm doesnt work. First, the obvious... "what if the sexual chemistry is not good?", that can have the relationship go downhill. It will be an issue for either male or female, quite frankly, it is easier to establish all superficial forms of connection before you dive into the deeper connections of a relationship.
Of course, all theories lead you in a different direction, but I learned in my years dating that has never work. My best relationships have begun with sex first or very early on then the relationship. My belief is you can rely on the superficial components of a relationship to support and get through bad moments; nothing like moments of passion to offset a bad day or argument.
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Sex before dating...
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Posted:Nov 17, 2016 4:52 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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It is easy to default to the process of chilvarian practices in order to find an ideal mate for quality experiences in and out of the bedroom. However, my years of personal experiences and talking to people it appears more practical to have sex before officially becoming a couple. First, most couples tend to lose that fire that limits or makes those intimate experiences dull; next, it creates a domino of problems across all aspects of a relationship. The saying "if you dont get it at home, you will get it elsewhere" becomes real for both men and women.
Dont mistaken what I am saying, you still need the responsible practices of a relationship...
-honesty
-attraction
-compatible and acceptable lifestyles
-etc... those things that are unique to the two people in the relationship
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Swinger vs Single
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Posted:Oct 7, 2016 4:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 3, 2016 5:32 am
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What makes a person a swinger? Is it a title that one explains of themselves or is it because of behavior. I ask, because now that I am completely single someone described me as a swinger and I disagreed. I told them im single and looking for the right person to come along... while i search, Im willing to meet some cool people for casual fun.
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Happiness is a choice...
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Posted:Sep 5, 2016 3:34 am
Last Updated:Sep 9, 2023 11:39 am
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With that belief, we should consider that we all have a different definition of what will or could make someone happy. That definition will vary and change as time goes on, but it begins with having a conversation with oneself. Being honest with yourself and acknowledging who you are and what you want can lead to a clearer definition and understanding when to pivot from your current belief.
This site has allowed me to meet 2 people, talk to many, and realize that we are all here to fulfill a void within all of us. Im sure many of us go through a cycle of viewing this site as a waste of time and yet return to kill time. Until that void is fulfilled or you pivot from your pursuit of happiness it is validated to make attempts through a variety of sources to pursue happiness.
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Evolution
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Posted:Aug 5, 2016 4:37 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2024 12:38 am
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We like bush, then we hate it. We want a submissive women, now aggressive. We tend to live in the moment of expectations and the standard is set by others, but how about the standard of choice with a variety of experiences to draw from. I offer this, we can continue to live in the moment and should reflect on the past to form of judgement of who we are and what we want. These are individual decisions, but should be informed.
Of course, this is all about sex, but I want to think differently. I feel people should feel free to explore and not trapped to conform.
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