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To introduce myself: I'm bi and couldn't meet women with similar interests on dating sites.My friend recently posted my pic and I suddenly got lots of messages mostly from people who don't read with comprehension....sigh.... I felt a little embarassed so I didn't show my face. Seeking cyberfriends since I can't discuss alternative lifestyle with friends,family or customers
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a spiritual Valentine's day
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Posted:Feb 14, 2010 3:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2010 3:26 pm
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I stayed away from a nice lounge I like to stop into over the weekend because I knew I would feel jealous if I saw happy couples.Instead I went to church with my ex-GF. I was brought up Agnostic and am seeking a spiritual life but have no church family. We went to a healing service and I asked for help with my back and relationship problems. Everyone was very kind to me. Can you believe I guy motioned me to sit near him so I did . Well they tell you to go to church to meet people. Can you believe he's all ready to give me his phone # and tell me a girl stood him up. Here I was in church having gone to the trouble of not wearing the plunging neck line blouse and had my hair braided instead of leaving it loose....
On the home front BF invited me to watch Full Metal Jacket on his VCR (yes we don't have cable or DVD yet...) because he knows I support a Marine through SoldiersAngels.com and even though the movie was about Vietnam some of it would apply to the present
I'm trying to get myself out of a bad mood...
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is my profile confusing?
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Posted:Feb 12, 2010 2:10 pm
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2010 10:21 am
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Still unlucky in romance/sex. I keep getting propositions from people who are too young or have different relationship goals.
I met a guy last week who seemed nice enough. We had interests in common including being owners. Even though I thought it was clear that I only want single men for threesomes with BF he apparently only wants 1-on-1. I know I told him specifically that I was here so everything would be out in the open to avoid going behind BF's back. Oh well.... I keep giving up on VisionPersonals.com and then trying again.....I think men have fantasies about me based on my photo that have nothing to do with me as a person. Also when people get hot and bothered they don't listen to a word I say....
Maybe someone will cheer me up by telling me they found exactly what they hoped for here?????
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will Sugaree get lucky on Valentines day?
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Posted:Feb 9, 2010 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2010 3:30 pm
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Here we go again! Now that the first gentleman who promised to always be there for me ran away I met a new male friend for coffee yesterday. He seems nice and easy to get along with and clearly liked me...he told me how long it is and invited me to measure it for myself...He was right on time. I like that. Even if I bring a book to read I hate to be kept waiting. We both have dogs which gives us an interest in common even though they may never meet since mine aren't socialized to other dogs....wish me luck
For the moment another VisionPersonals.com lady and I are starting an e-mail friendship and seem to have a lot in common. i'm happy about that!
I have an unhappily married male friend from out of state. We're also e-mail friends even if we never meet in person. I hoped to make friends here of all place
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who else dislikes Valentine's Day?
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Posted:Feb 2, 2010 7:31 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2010 6:54 pm
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Unless I get lucky overnight I'll be sitting at home and sulking on Valentine's weekend. BF isn't interested in going out and has never been romantic. No gifts coming my way since he believes Valentine's Day is extortion!
Last year I went out to dinner with another lady who was going through a divorce so we were he unlucky in love ladies but since then she found a new BF who values her for who she is.
I even have cute red outfits and even matching dressy shoes (this is big: I always wear Crocs or Uggs to work!!!!) just in case....
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discouraged and cranky....
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Posted:Jan 26, 2010 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2010 7:44 pm
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Here I am whining again...Ladies do you think all the nice guys are married and that single ones are jerks who can't make a commitment? I'm disappointed to have to turn down one of my married admirers since we had a lot of interests in common outside of sex. I know I need to have a positive attitude and make room in my life for Mr Ms or Mr &Mrs Right....
Maybe my expectations are too high since I want the kind of attention I would get in normal dating...checking in phone calls.....thoughtful if cheap gifts just because...I guess I'm Mrs Romantic...
Time for bed so I can get to the gym tomorrow for a supervised class that I just started on the suggestion of the Physical Therapist since I can't afford to lose any more work on account of my bad back. My gentleman admirers in class are happily married...
My contractors should be back tomorrow but they're look-but-don't -touch...sigh,,
Maybe I'm in a bad mood because the adrenalin rush is over now that we elected Scott Brown to the US Senate since I devoted all my free time to the phone bank and holding signs. Boston residents may have beeped their horns at me. I'm petite with long hair and had on an orange hunting jacket so as not to be run over and I had my 2dogs with me.
oh well maybe it's bubble bath time?????
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dropped off VisionPersonals.com for a couple months...worth waiting for
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Posted:Jan 23, 2010 4:49 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2010 7:49 pm
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Here I go again looking for attention in a place where I'm certain to be hurt or disappointed. No luck with the gentlemen I was meeting here. Some never got beyond phone calls or were looking for something else. I went out with one a few times and thought we were compatible but something went wrong. I do expect the same level of attention as I would get with a vanilla dating service and ay have scared him away...
I met the nicest people volunteering for Scott Brown for US Senate but was probably his only Bi volunteer and certainly have the only yard sign in my extremely progressive/socialist neighborhood, but nothing led to romance...
My other big project was to join a gym to improve my health but stay away from the hot body types who are young enough to be my ....
Maybe next time I'll have an exciting adventure to report but for now I'm cuddling with my dogs to keep warm
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poor ms Sugaree couldn't entice.....
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Posted:Nov 24, 2009 2:21 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2024 9:19 am
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As the song used to say in disco days
"it's raining men halleluliah it's raining men" at my house...My fedex guy, who is about my age,takes trouble with his hair, has a good physique and brought my macbook.....cable guy #1 cute Irish guy but wife called on his cell,cableguy #2 was up in bucket truck a pleasant Black guy...
now my contractors:Uncle is a well to do Black guy about my age but I'm looking at nephews #1 and #2
both tall lightskinned with good bodies from all the carpentry but one is married and the other is shy. They even got me out of bed this morning..could it be that flannel old mother hubbaed nightie with polar fleece sweatshirt didn't do the trick?
so back to window shopping-with one exception my gentlemen VisionPersonals.com friends are all talk and no action and my lady and couple friends live out of state... back to special bubble bath for poor nrglected Sugaree...
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shaken up by scare at mammagram-I'ok
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Posted:Nov 18, 2009 3:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2009 6:14 pm
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I've been asked to get a second view before but never to have an ultrasound with the doctor. She was very supportive and it turned out to be nothing. I said my prayers BIG time since my sister-in lae who is my age was just diagnosed with breast CA. I had the operation,haiar falling out and wardrobe of hats and scarfs all planned!
Are other ladies uoset by proposal to have fewer mammagrams later in life to cut costs and possibly reduce what our health insurance will pay for?
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any one feel conflict w/ moral values and being here?
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Posted:Nov 15, 2009 7:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2009 10:48 pm
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I've been searching for a spiritual component in my life after a year resembling the trials of Job with a lot of bereavements and unexpected serious but controllable illness of BF.
I'm coficted about how I present myself-I want people to look at my face not my decolletage when I enter the room. How funny given my pic here!!!! I can't change it to one showing my face with shirt pulled down due to computer problems
Here I am looking for a menage-a-trois(or quatre) and trying not to hurt myself or others. In part I'm trying to avoid serial non-monogamy that's a hold-over from a Hippie last style that badly damaged relationship with current BF.If anyone else feels this way what did you do about it? "If it feels good do it" doesn't work anymore.
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progress report on 1st date
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Posted:Nov 14, 2009 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2010 3:39 pm
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My gentleman showed up where he was supposed to be on time.A lot of people on VisionPersonals.com like to get all worked up in the privacy of their own homes-who knows what nasty men do to themselves while admiring my pic-but drop out when you try to meet them.
Date#1 turned out to be pleasant and easy to talk to. Years ago he and I workd in the same hospital system in the same dept but in a different location plus he loves dogs so we had subjects for conversation. He listened to my life story(disfunctional families) and how I ended up loking for love/sex on the internet. We plan to meet again and be friends and have him meet Bf.I was nervous but it went better than I expectd.
Just as he was signing credit card another possible "friend" called my cell. I called gentleman #2 back once I got home and got under the covers. From our pics and profiles Mr#2 and I have intersts in common and I think we may have the tearing off clothes attraction based on body type...wait and see...I do get a tingling feeling down below imagining whatI think might happen...ladies keep your fingers crossed for Sugaree to get lucky,,,
then I met gentlman #3 for coffee today and let him look at my naughty and nice pics in my digital camera. He says he'll walk me thru getting them into my home computer so I can e=mail them. Maybe not- the connection drops off constantly on me. I think #3 is more of a player than BF and I are and Bf may not be comfortable if we get that far.
will report further adventures if any soon
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waiting for Gas Co. Did anyone ever greet the contractor in their undies?
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Posted:Nov 13, 2009 7:04 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2009 10:51 pm
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You always hear about ladies who entrap the contractos who come to their door but did anyone ever do this/ The closert case in the real world I know of is aman who did some work for a lady who was new to a very small town. One thing led to another and he ened up divorcing his wife and moving in with the GF. This upset th wife, her family and many of the neighbors. It's awkward for poeole who are friendly with the wife to have the lovebids living right around the corner. Iwill say that the lovebirds are radiantly happy. I'm annoyed since the only computer that sometimes works is in the attic and I'll have to run for the doorbell. Meanwhile I hope my Gas Co person is cute,since I like either he or she contractors less chance to be disappointed,right?
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wish me luck:first VisionPersonals.com date in ages tomorrow
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Posted:Nov 12, 2009 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Nov 13, 2009 7:05 am
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The phone call with interested gentleman went wellso we're meeting for dinner tomorrow. Now I feel like I'm back in high school-I was always the shy wallflower who danced with the other not popular girls,
The last gentleman I recently broke up with had built up such a fantasy of me-no I'm not the Goddess type I just like sex-that he never saw my real personality and I think some of my e-mail fiends tend in that direction.
Now I have to worry about what to wear. Unfortunately I'm outdooors all day at work and get all bundled up,so we'll leave the plunging necklines for the summer....
i'm tyring not to get nervous...
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getting back out on the town
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Posted:Nov 11, 2009 8:08 pm
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2009 8:46 am
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With all the stressful life events I haven't gone out for maybe 6 months but made up my mind to try again and went out for Halloween. BF is sick and also works 2nd shift but he isn;t much on the lounge scene. I went to a Halloween ball for artists. I didn't know anyone & we were mostly all girls(Fine with me as you know) so we danced the night away. Everyone was friendly and i found one of the girls hot but don't think she's bi...oh well,,,Then on real Halloween I danced the night away at the lounge where I go for my cafe sketching soI felt safe even as a lady out byherself among horny gentleman....I can stiil get them excited ooooon the dance floor even tho I was old enoughto be some of the younger gents' mom...
Bad news in the bedroom- we tried again with a nice well meaning guy from VisionPersonals.com, Unfortunately he didn't listen to or retain my likes and dislikes...I shouldn't have to keep saying please be more gentle. Now I'm at the point of meeting another couple and some single guys unless everything falls through at the last minute. Wish me luck...I'll tell all later.....
"leave all your fantasies here with me..."
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