Gret Expectations
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Posted:Jan 16, 2014 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2014 7:55 pm
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It seems that all of us come to sites like this with different expectations.
Some want love.
Some want sex.
Some want both.
And as it happens some of those wires get crossed and the people wanting commitment get messages from the ones who only want sex, and the one wanting group or couples sex hear from the romantics wanting always ...
It's going to happen, and it will happen to everyone.
I don't think there is a solution, some people don't read the profile they message or friend, some think every profile wants nothing but wild raunchy sex, and some romantics think every message is the one.
No Polyanna here. You have every right to get pissed if all you hear from offer nothing you want, and considering what most of us are here for things won't always go smoothly. If connecting was easier none of us would be doing it here --- the ugly ones (me) or the beautiful ones.
I don't know if I'll meet anyone or ever get beyond a few messages, but meanwhile it's one more way to try and meet someone for whatever you want or need.
We can be a bit more relaxed here than just a dating site, but we can't forget that what we like or want isn't on everyone's list. And really, if we can't respect what the other person wants or their boundaries we aren't going to hook up successfully anyway. 
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When Sex Was Fun
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Posted:Jan 14, 2014 4:06 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 3:33 pm
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Sex used to be fun. It just happened, no one really had to think about it (though we all did all the time), and while hooking up wasn't as easy as it is today, it wasn't as complicated either.
No, not being nostalgic. The brave new world is hornier than ever, but it does seem with all the options more time is spent getting laid than doing it.
Today we orchestrate our sex lives the way a composer does his music, writing for each instrument, each movement, each motif.
Other than finding a place to do it, the mechanics were a little easier then, and the sex just as good we didn't know it could be better..
I'm no better than anyone else, but even in bed the options have become greater and it seems at times you need a stop watch and schedule: 30 Minutes Foreplay; twenty minutes intercourse; an hour of cunnilingus; squirting by two and a half hours in ...
We even schedule spontaneity.
There used to be mystery (granted overrated), now we expect to know everything before we e-mail and be intimate before we chat. It feels at times as if no one goes to bed without presenting a resume today.
The past wasn't all that great, but sex does seem as if it was simpler then for most of us.
Now, lets have complex well orchestrated sex, here's the blueprint and my resume ...
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One Two Three --- Or More
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Posted:Jan 13, 2014 4:53 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2014 4:07 pm
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Threesomes, every guys fantasy and not a few women's, but how sexy are they really?
Damn sexy.
I was in college and 19 the first time, my girlfriends sorority sister unexpectedly joined us. Sometimes you can get lost in the crowd, but that night I was the main course and even when they did each other I was occupied with the other end if not both.
For some reason women looked at me and thought threesome. Part of it was because I spend a long time on her orgasm and it is a reward, some of it is a form of bragging because I'm fairly large and know my way around some spectacular female orgasms, but it still strikes me odd that women seem to look at me and want a friend to join in.
Funnily enough, much as I enjoy them it was never my idea. They always brought the other one in and I never asked or hinted. Didn't say no either though.
And I never once had a problem with jealousy her of me or me of her and her friend. That's the chief drawback, and it never happened. Nor were the logistics ever all that bothersome. Somehow everyone and everything ended up with the proper parts aligned at the right time and the big moment close together if not aligned like the planets.
Now foursomes require a bit more planning to keep everyone in the game all the time, but they worked too.
Yes, this is hot for all parties, but I wonder if my experience is the usual one. I know they are a lot more common today than then so more people have been there, but how much satisfaction is everyone getting? Was yours really great sex or more exciting than actually fulfilling? I've been told it's a lot like titty fucking --- it looks better on the screen than it feels in practice.
What kind of experience was it for you>*Y*(Y)...\8
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Sunday Blahs
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Posted:Jan 12, 2014 5:27 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2014 3:48 pm
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Lately I've been having an intimate affair with my right hand, versatile, but limited personality, originality, and satisfaction. We all have these periods and it seems as if it will never end, but usually it does.
I used to try not to make decisions about sex when I was too horny, but since I was too horny all the time ... Good intentions and all that.
Sunday's with my second wife were going out early for donuts and the papers, coming back with at least the local paper and the NYTimes, piling back in bed with coffee donuts and the papers, and spending most of the day munching and reading --- especially good if it is cold and miserable out.
Of course inevitably the munching turned to munching on each other and we both ended up with newsprint places you don't usually find it with wet newspaper (how'd that happen) stuck all over us. By Monday we were wiped, because by Sunday evening we were into a a marathon trying for epic. I don't think I saw Sunday television as until after her death --- happy to miss some now.
I'm going to ask a question here of guys and gals.
How do you feel about strap-on sex, gal(or gals) doing the guy?
I'll admit I was a little shy about this the first time, a finger, a tongue, even the tip of a small vibrator or buzzing egg, but a big old rubber cock... I'll let you know the details later, but I'll say now I was perfectly happy to be her bend over boyfriend when she finished.
If it's too late for a great weekend, have a good night, and if it is too late for that remember Monday only lasts 24 hours and with any luck only 8 of them stink.
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Cartoon For the Day
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Posted:Jan 9, 2014 8:13 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 3:33 pm
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This is from a book I did for friends at Christmas several years ago. I hope you enjoy.
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Wetworks
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Posted:Jan 9, 2014 3:12 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 3:33 pm
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Last time was more of an appetizer, this is more expansive.
I like sex, all kinds of sex, but that part is just play, I'm also willing to find a committed romantic relationship with the right woman. Trying not to rule anything out, at the same time to be sure no one gets hurt.
The woman in my first affair (as opposed to dating and making out) once told me I was a sort of idiot savant at sex, meaning I was good without much experience. That was a long time ago, and I hope now I'm good with the experience. I don't believe everything a woman tells me in bed or about me as a partner, but quite a few have informed me they wouldn't say it was great if it wasn't --- I seem to attract the type who think faking an orgasm is just a good way to encourage the guy to stay bad at it. Frankly, I prefer that approach --- you know what the ground under you is like that way.
I will discuss some memorable encounters in this blog off and on. I've been around long enough there are many. But if you don't mind I'll start with a funny as well as sexy one.
There are two things you need to know to appreciate this: My second wife S always sneezed three times --- not one or two, but always three; second, a rule men and woman need to deal with --- female ejaculation feels like the woman is going to pee, and if you perform oral sex for long periods and often enough on a woman at some point there will be waterworks whether you are into them or not. To be honest, it is almost impossible to perform oral sex on either a woman or a man without a taste of pee. Luckily it's sterile leaving the body, but its presence is unavoidable.
We were at home, and had retired early so we would have time for me to build her up to a full body multiple orgasm lasting up to an hour and ejaculation. These things can happen faster, but work best when you take your time, beginning with a warm candle lit bath, a sensual oil massage, slow drawn out and maddening foreplay, intercourse, and a fairly quick but intense orgasm before the main event.
It helps if the man is fairly thick and or has a large head on his cock since at certain angles that produces pressure on the right places in the vagina, causes increased lubrication and on the outer stroke the wide glans pulls the inner lips out then pushes them back in which is very arousing according to many partners.
She didn't want to bother with a condom so I pulled out to cum on her breasts, but she grabbed me, stuffed my cock in her mouth and sucked me before I could stop and ended up getting a large load in her mouth, on her face, and in her hair Luckily she thought it was funny I knocked one of her artificial eyelashes off in the process.
At this point my incentive to reward her behavior was obviously great. After more teasing I finally worked my way between her legs and began to provide oral stimulation waiting for her to get wet enough it would be comfortable when I inserted a finger.
To be honest by the time I got to that point I was dripping from chin to chest since she was very wet in any circumstance. She had reached the point where she was constantly moving her ass and humping against my mouth to get my tongue on just the right place, her hands were tangled in my hair pulling me tight against her, and when I slipped two fingers (the middle and ring finger, not the index and middle) and began to palpitate the front wall of her vagina she was already producing a clear whitish coating that was running down her taint into her ass, down my chin glazing my face like a donut, and down my arm. I could feel the rhythmic undulation of her stomach muscles, the inner muscles of her pussy milking my finger, and the thumb I had slipped up her very lubricated ass was being milked as well.
Any man or woman with any experience at this can tell you that is very close to a strong orgasm.
When S was very aroused she liked her nipple or clit bitten, and fairly hard. When she began to virtually chant 'bite my clit' I knew we were almost there, and closed my teeth as hard as I dared pulling on her clit at the same time. She nearly pulled what little hair I had out at this point, arched her back to push against my mouth, and began to pant. A really strong orgasm was only moments away, maybe even the rare true hour long kind.
Which is the exact moment our cat chose to walk across her chest, and his long furry tail ran under her nose.
S always sneezed three times recall.
One ... two ... three ...
And she pissed copiously in my face and down my throat with every sneeze.
Female ejaculate doesn't smell or taste like pee. It has only a trace of urine in it. This was piss --- and there was nothing to do but swallow the salty stinging brew.
I know from her later reaction she was embarrassed, but just then she was extremely horny, highly aroused, and on the brink of an extreme orgasm, my fingers were in her pussy and ass, and my teeth were clamped on her clit as she pissed not only in my face, but down my throat and up my nose --- I had no choice but to swallow or drown. She didn't care she was pissing in my face the least bit, and I can't say I blame her.
And that triggered what has to be the most intense orgasm I have ever seen a woman experience. Her whole body convulsed as if she would snap her spine, her head went back, her heels drummed the top of the bed then dug painfully into my ass, her ass and pussy clamped down on my numb fingers, and her thighs tried to crush my head like a walnut.
That intense behavior went on for twenty minutes of panting, grunting, huffing, hair pulling, head crushing, finger pinching intensity, before her spine relaxed and again touched the bed. Her pussy and ass were still clamped on my fingers, her legs on my head, and her pussy and ass twitched and milked my fingers as her stomach muscles rolled relentlessly like waves.
This went on for a good forty minutes longer. Eventually she relaxed enough for me to free my fingers, but when I withdrew them that triggered another long spasm of orgasms, and her hands and legs were still yanking on my hair and crushing me skull.
It was a little past an hour when she mumbled "just hold me" and passed out. Literally fainted, still having gradually decreasing spasms for almost half an hour. She slept about two hours, and when she woke up I had to help her to the bathroom because her legs were wobbly.
S was in her mid forties, and as women in their mid forties will tell you a really intense orgasm of that kind in sometimes accompanied by a spontaneous orgasm from twelve to eighteen hours later. Luckily hers hit at home because I had to grab her at the waist to hold her up, and she dripped all the way to her ankles and on the carpet.
We didn't talk about this for a few days. Her period started the next day and she didn't feel like sex. but when that was past and we were next getting frisky, she disappeared for a few moments and when I followed her into the bedroom I found a shower curtain covering the mattress beneath the sheets.
Maybe it wasn't my best sexual experience, but it was certainly the wettest.
Still, I always keep in mind when engaged in oral or digital stimulation just where I'm operating. A mask and snorkel might be good ideas just in case.
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Getting in the Swing
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Posted:Jan 8, 2014 9:01 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2024 3:33 pm
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Just a bit about me. Texas born, Halliburton brat, grew up around money without actually having it. My first career was with the US State Department in London and then Paris, where I met my first wife, Angelique, who danced at the Crazy in Paris. She is the mother of my only who lives in France (because he's French actually). Long story, but her grandparents were wealthy so he had few worries.
After that a long checkered career as everything from a private investigator working undercover for a big agency, portrait painter, comic book artist, glamor photographer, journalist, public relations man, and copywriter (advertising). I'm a professional writer, and I have six book in print currently.
Aside from Angelique I've been married twice more, and widowed twice (sounds a bit careless I'll grant).
I've had some great relationships though, even the first one, and I'd like to do it again.
I'll fill you in as things progress (or not).
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