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Rantings of a Goddess
 
Just what the name says....just think of it as a potpourri of my thoughts, ideas and little tidbits that I share with everyone!! A special thanks to all my friends who read and comment in my blog on a regular basis!!













Kisses to all my friends!!
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Bling Nation Wheel O' Bling
Posted:Apr 27, 2008 7:17 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2008 7:56 pm
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Hi Everyone,

Well it's been a while since I've posted in my blog. I've been busy now that the nicer weather has arrived and it seems when I am on A*F*F, most of my time is focused on my Associate Moderator duties in Bling Nation. Who would have ever thought that a group devoted to bling would be so active on an adult sex site.

We attribute some of our success to our innovative games. We have developed a variety of games such as Letter Linker, Bling Twister, Blindoku, etc. The boards we utilize were made by us under our profile blingnationgames and are created with the bling we have developed.

Our most recent and most exciting game to date is most definitely Wheel O' Bling. It is a spin on the popular Wheel of Fortune game and Discretion4sur has done a phenomenal job on the board. It was done with the proper combination of 25 handmade bling (none of them are photo bling) put together to create a board that is beyond compare. I think it is by far the most aggressive and well laid out bling project to date on this site.

It is most definitely worth a look so please check it out at NEW GAME: Wheel O Bling!. I know you will be glad you did. You might even decide to join the group and participate in the games. All are welcome so come by and say hello and stay a while. We've proven that if doesn't all have to be about sex on this site to bring people together for fun and to make new friends!!!!

AM (along with D4, Deb and Katt)

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News
Posted:Mar 5, 2008 4:41 pm
Last Updated:Feb 10, 2009 9:29 pm
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Hi Everyone,

I just wanted to let all of you know that I got my test results today and all my blood tests were normal and my CT scan shows I remain cancer free!!!! Each test is a huge milestone because it puts me farther away from having cancer and reduces my risk of a recurrence.

Thank you to everyone for your prayers and well wishes....they are very much appreciated!!!

With Love,

AM

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Cancer Sucks!!!!!
Posted:Feb 26, 2008 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2008 5:43 am
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For all of you that know me, I am the type of person that stays very positive and upbeat most of the time. There are times though that I just wish I could scream out and get all my frustrations out about this horrible disease.

The mother of one of my 's good friends passed away today.....she lost her battle with cancer. She was younger than me and fought so hard and they really thought they had gotten it under control but unfortunately it won!!

It just seems SOOOOO wrong that this horrible disease can kill someone in the prime of their life. She had so much life left to live and so much to look forward to. Now she will never get to see her grow up, never get to be there for her when she has her first date, goes to the prom, gets engaged, gets married, has her own .....because of this horrible disease she will miss out on all those special things that you are supposed to be around for in your life!!

I believe in God but since being diagnosed with cancer and seeing other people die from this horrible disease, I often wonder WHY....why would God do such a terrible thing? Why would he leave a little 10 year old girl without her mother? Why would he let this disease take a woman in the prime of her life?

It's so frustrating and so hard to even know what to do or how to feel.....Am I destined for the same fate eventually or did I truly kick this horrible disease in the butt? And what makes me survive while someone like her has to lose her battle? So many times a day I wish I could go back to life "pre-cancer" when life seemed so much easier and I didn't have the worries that it now brings.....I try to look at the positive and realize that everything happens for a reason and I am now a stronger person because of everything I've been through but it is SOOOO hard to stay positive when you see other people losing their battle and wondering WHY?????


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It's That Time Again
Posted:Feb 25, 2008 7:37 am
Last Updated:Mar 2, 2008 1:10 pm
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You know I always know that these times are coming but for the most part I don't let them bother me until it is practically right on top of me....I just got called today and my CT Scan is scheduled for next Tuesday morning.....so now I get to spend the next two weeks with knots in my stomach (waiting for the exam and then waiting another 4 days for the results)....and as much as I tell myself not to do that, it just doesn't help.....every 6 months I battle with staying positive and wondering if they will find something this time.....not a fun situation to be in to say the least.

With all that being said, if I am a bit out of sorts for the next couple of weeks, that's the reason. The littlest things will bother me and I most definitely will be a bit more sensitive.....par for the course I guess....don't you just hate emotions????

I'll keep you all updated on how things go....please keep your fingers crossed for me!!

Have a great day!!

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2008 Nascar Season Begins
Posted:Feb 17, 2008 11:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2008 7:35 am
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It's February 17th and the start of another Nascar season with the annual racing of the Daytona 500. I will admit, I, of all people, never thought I could enjoy car racing but my husband turned me on to it in 2001 by bringing me to a race. That was all it took.

I have been a Jeff Gordon fan since I went to that first race in 2001 (I have taken plenty of razzing for that over the years so nothing you say here will shock me if you are not a fan of his)....It is actually rather comical that most people tend to hate the most talented drivers.

I have also been a Jimmie Johnson fan since he came onto the scene but even I'm getting a bit bored with ALL his success. It just seems to be coming easily to him the last couple of years and I'd like to see him have to work just a bit harder for it.

Three years ago however I went up to New Hampshire for the September race and got to meet Casey Mears (the photo incuded with this post is from that race). I really hadn't paid much attention to him in the past, although I did know he was part of the famous Mears racing family. I was extremely excited when he came over to the Hendrick camp last year so decided to start watching him a bit more closely. He won his first Nascar race last year and had many great finishes. He finished 14th in the points and showed that he can indeed compete with the "big boys".

Casey will be driving the No. 5 Kelloggs car this year and I have decided he is my racer of choice for 2008. Can he win the championship this year? Probably not but I am rooting for him to get into the Top 12.....we'll see how it goes!

Anyway, enjoy the Daytona 500 and GO CASEY!!!

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So What Do Those Valentine Flowers Mean?
Posted:Feb 14, 2008 5:50 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2008 5:33 pm
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First and foremost, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!!

With that being said, do you plan on sending flowers to that someone special in your life? Flowers can brighten up anyone's day, but Valentine's Day adds some special meaning to the exchange. The secret code of color plays an important role in sharing meaning; each type of rose, carnation, or exotic petal represents a distinct message and purpose. Here's a basic guide to help you decide just what type and color flower is best:

Pale or light pink rose: the best pick for a dear friend or platonic relationship

Red rose: no doubt about it, this one says 'I love you'!

Dark pink rose: this one says 'Thank you' gracefully and eloquently

White rose: a symbol of purity and innocence; it adds a touch of mystery for a secret admirer or can also mean 'I miss you'

Lilac rose: perfect for your crush, this one offers its mystical properties for the ideal surprise

Coral rose: these exotic beautifies exemplify desire

Peach rose: these are often used for sympathy, but can also be a nice way to say 'thank you'

Yellow rose: perfect for friends, cheering up, and celebrations

Orange rose: a symbol of desire and enthusiasm, a great way to create some sparks!

So roses are too cliche for Valentine's Day? There are plenty of other flowers out there to choose from. Carnations, camellias, poppies, tulips, and orchids are other choices which also have significant meaning:

Daisy:
Innocence, romance, and loyal love; this one's perfect for the best friend

Pink carnation: long-lasting love

Red carnation: admiration

Yellow carnation: rejection (be careful with this one!)

White carnation: pure love, adoration

Blue Camellia:
heart ache and yearning

Pink Camellia: longing

Red Poppy: pleasure

Yellow tulips: hopeless love

Orchid: magnificence, beauty

So what's it going to be? What are you sending that someone special in your life today?

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Good Advice
Posted:Feb 10, 2008 9:03 am
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2008 6:23 am
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A popular motivational speaker was entertaining his audience one day. He said, "The best years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who wasn't my wife!"

The audience was in silence and in shock.

The speaker then added, "And that woman was my mother!" Laughter and applause ensued.

A week later, a top manager trained by the motivational speaker tried to crack this very effective joke at home. He was a bit foggy though from having had several drinks.

He said loudly, "The greatest years of my life were spent in the arms of a woman who was not my wife!" Of course the wife went white with shock and rage.

Standing there for 20 seconds trying to recall the second half of the joke, the manager finally blurted out "....and I can't remember who she was!"

Moral of the Story:
Don't copy if you can't paste!!

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Remember "The Telephone Game"?
Posted:Feb 2, 2008 9:06 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2008 6:38 am
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Most of you probably played it as a . I know I did. We'd all sit around in a circle. The first person would whisper a few short sentences in the ear of the next person. They would have to repeat it to the person next to them, and so on around the circle. When it got to the last person, they would announce what they heard. It never, ever, came close to the original message, and was usually so distorted that it would evoke belly laughs from all the players.

Funny game...right?

And of course, it never happens in the real adult world... does it?

Well guess what folks? It happens all the time! Every single message, every attempt at communication between any two beings suffers from the same problems and gets degraded in one way or another. Yet, we like to believe that it doesn't.

At this point you're probably thinking, "Oh yeah, I remember that game. But why on earth is she mentioning it in her blog?" I only mention it to make a point.

Information is communicated daily in A*F*F through GROUP POSTS, blogs, advice columns and magazine articles. As adults we need to remember the telephone game and realize that the information communicated could potentially be conveyed incorrectly.

So, what does all this mean? The next time you are reading group posts, etc. remember that oh so funny childhood game and realize that what you are reading could very well be very different than what was originally communicated.

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New Blog Header
Posted:Jan 31, 2008 9:48 am
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2008 9:00 am
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Well we're almost into the second month of the new year and I figured it was about time to change the look of my blog. I'd like to thank danaman4u for his beautiful twinkle bling...I've admired them for quite some time so figured I needed to grab them and use them.....also a HUGE thanks goes out to discretion4sur for the bling I used to create the border and for taking the time to walk me through step by step on creating a border using only bling......67 bling in total to be exact.

Also with the new year comes my active participation in Bling Nation. Hope you'll check it out and join. The Bling Galleries are beyond compare!! There is also a "Bling Request" thread where you can ask our bling artists to make that special bling for you.

In addition, we are incorporating informational threads on making bling and using bling in your signatures, blogs, group posts and profiles. As if that weren't enough there will also be bling related contests and games for the bling maker and COLLECTOR alike.

Look forward to seeing you there and once again thanks to the above-mentioned individuals for their bling and help!

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Cancer Awareness Ribbon Bling
Posted:Jan 27, 2008 6:38 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2008 8:52 am
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Hi all,

If anyone is interested in Cancer Awareness Ribbon Bling, please visit Cancer Ribbon Bling for a description of the color designation and two bling options for each color.

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Planning a Vacation???
Posted:Jan 11, 2008 4:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2008 4:42 pm
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I was browsing around online this morning and saw an interesting list of the Caribbean's Sexiest Beaches, so if your desire is to go somewhere nice and warm this winter then here's a great list to choose from:

1. Macaroni Beach, Mustique
2. Aquarium Beach, Curacao
3. Pigeon Point, Antigua
4. Crane Beach, Barbados
5. Baie Longue, St. Martin
6. Playa Esmeralda, Cuba
7. Young Island Beach, St. Vincent
8. Grace Bay, Turks and Caicos (I can vouch for this one.....absolutely beautiful!!)
9. Pirate's Bay, Tobago
10. Plage Malendure, Guadaloupe
11. Eleuthera, The Bahamas
12. Pinney's Beach, Nevis (small island next to St. Kitts)
13. Punta Cana, Dominican Republican (Deb isn't this where you and the hubby vacationed last year??)
14. Saline Beach, St. Barts
15. Placencia, Belize
16. Shoal Bay, Anguilla

Okay I guess I am done dreaming for the morning. I can definitely say I'd rather be at any one of the above listed beaches rather than here right now....LOL

Have a great day everyone!!



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