I am honest. Dead honest. Problem is people say they like the truth, but in reality they don't. Nor do they understand what constitutes honesty. If you are honest you don't sugar coat things. If you are mean you bring other people to the person to point out whatever you laugh at. No humor is derived from the situation. Also with honesty you won't ignore someone who has snot dropping from their nose. You will go to that person hand them stuff to blow their nose and tell them their nose is dripping, blow it.