Happy Leap Day!!!
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Posted:Feb 29, 2012 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Mar 11, 2012 11:11 am
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I found myself weeping instead of leaping today. Sometimes it just all adds up and you have to let it all out.
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Someone asked,
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Posted:Feb 28, 2012 3:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 3:31 am
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I could tell you, but I think Maslov and all his research, do a much better job than I ever could. The sex act, as a raw physical need, is ranked with food, water, breathing, etc.... While the emotional aspects of sex and intimacy are third tier needs.
Man is meant to have sex, not just during the bearing years, but throughout his entire life.
Without sex, I think I would become a very difficult person to deal with. Depressed, lonely, and bitter!
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Enjoy.... I did.
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Posted:Feb 26, 2012 11:51 am
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2013 9:34 pm
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He grasped me firmly, but gently, just above my elbow and guided me into a room, his room. Then he quietly shut the door and we were alone.
He approached me soundlessly from behind, and spoke in a low, reassuring voice, very close to my ear.
"Just relax. . . "
Without warning, he reached down and I felt his strong, calloused hands start at my ankles, gently probing and moving upward along my calves, slowly but steadily. My breath caught in my throat. I knew I should be afraid, but somehow I didn't care. His touch was so experienced, so sure.
When his hands moved up onto my thighs, I gave a slight shudder, and I partly closed my eyes. My pulse was pounding. I felt his knowing fingers caress my abdomen, my ribcage. And then, as he cupped my firm, full breasts in his hands, I inhaled sharply.
Probing, searching, knowing what he wanted, he brought his hands to my shoulders, slid them down my tingling spine and into my panties. Although I knew nothing about this man, I felt oddly trusting and expectant. This is truly a man, I thought,...a man used to taking charge. A man not used to taking "no" for an answer. A man who would tell me what he wanted. A man who would look into my soul and say . . . ..
"Okay, ma'am," said a voice. "All done." My eyes snapped open and he was standing in front of me, smiling, holding out my purse. "You can board your flight now."
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Okay, It's a New Day.
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Posted:Feb 25, 2012 6:10 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:01 pm
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"Chin up, pip pip" he said. So, I will try. I enjoyed the snow yesterday. Then I saw this....
Looks like someone else enjoyed the snow.
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Low Down
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Posted:Feb 22, 2012 3:48 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2012 11:07 pm
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There have been fewer, if any, times in my life in which I felt totally helpless to do something about a problem. Oh yeah, I've had more grave situations, and my 's health issues are in a way outside of my abilities. But even still, through all of that, I always felt there was something I could do, if only to console. Now, I sit, cut off from the issue.
I'm confused, my mind circles through the past few months, is it connected, or coincidental? Does it matter? What matters?
The low down is, my mood right now is, low down.
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He Can't See Me, Talk To Me, Or Email Me....
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Posted:Feb 21, 2012 8:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 1, 2012 4:18 pm
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But... maybe he'll visit here and check up on me.
I wonder if he sees the true Hell and pain I'm going through. Or, is my stoic front covering it well?
Sorry, not much to say today. I had a very bad day. Last night I skipped my evening medications, I awoke at about 2am feeling very jittery and hyper. I thought it was thoughts of the past week that were causing it, rather than BP and heart related.
So, I spent 3 hours drifting in and mostly out of sleep, and then caved in to wakefulness and got up and showered at 5am. Work was hectic and my had a minor health emergency at lunch time. I skipped eating and ran to his school to take him home. I made it back to work, just in time for a meeting. This evening we were lucky to see his pediatrician and learn it's viral.
I did one thing to pamper myself though. I took my out to eat. Even still, look how late it is and I haven't finished for the day yet.
Life is lopsided, not enough free time in a day.
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Ringo Starr & the All Star Band
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Posted:Feb 18, 2012 3:31 pm
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2012 3:49 pm
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We're going to see him at Bethel Woods on June 16th!!!
I'm so excited, he's my favorite Beatle personality and second favorite Beatle performer. After all, it's hard to beat Sir Paul as a musician.
Plus I like the Bethel Woods venue.
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TGIF
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Posted:Feb 17, 2012 3:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2012 1:17 pm
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What are your plans for this long weekend?
I'm planning on sleeping in tomorrow morning, and doing a little catch up work. After that, I am just going to laze around my house and enjoy doing nothing I MUST do.
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Email from his wife....
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Posted:Feb 13, 2012 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 12:46 pm
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She got into his email account. By her own admission, she is tech savvy. And she is ready to use her tech savvy against me. I think the technical name for that is "cyber bullying".
I do understand, I know how I would feel in her shoes. Anger, helplessness, and probably a bit of guilt.
As for me, I'm just numb. It is just unbelievable.
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How Sadly Ironic
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Posted:Feb 9, 2012 6:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2012 8:02 am
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I recently read the following quote....
"I want to grow old without face lifts. I want to have the courage to be loyal to the face I've made. Sometimes, I think it would be easier to avoid old age, to die young, but you'd never complete your life, would you? You'd never wholly know yourself."
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MSN Article on Baby Boomers and STDs
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Posted:Feb 5, 2012 10:30 am
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 1:01 pm
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We have all heard that Baby Boomers have a alarming rate of increase in STDs. Pretty much it boils down to them not using condoms because they don't need birth control to prevent pregnancy and they forgo the need to protect against STDs.
I have gotta pleed guilty. I came to VisionPersonals.com had a couple of meet and greets, had sex with two men and then settled into a long term relationship with one of them. In the beginning, we tried condoms, but we had a failure. The condom came off after orgasm, but while we were still cuddling and joined (if I remember correctly). The next time we were together, the attitude was sort of "what does it matter, the cats out of the bag."
And so, we continued....
We feel certain our spouses are not active on the side and so we felt safe being together without condoms. Then there was the confession of a tryst (or perhaps it was more than once, it didn't matter so I didn't ask). I asked though if they used a condom and his answer really didn't matter. I was shaken anyway.
That was several medical exams ago and I didn't address the issue with my doctors, despite my gyno specifically asking if my husband was my only partner. This time though, I asked for the test. She ordered it without any discussion. I'm sure next year she'll ask again.
I suppose all of us active here should be tested. It's painless and takes so much pressure and stress off ones mind, when you get good results back.
We should also use condoms, but I remain guilty....
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