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Lady J's Musings
 
The Random Manifestation of One Woman's Sexual Emotionality: hopefully this will become sort of an interactive diary, where we can share.
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Can It Happen More Than Once?
Posted:Nov 26, 2012 10:58 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2012 12:07 am
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I was 15. OMG, I just realized how long ago that was. Forty years!!! Yet, I remember the moment perfectly. I can see it clearly in my mind, and my heart still races at the thought.

It was love, love at first sight. And forty years later, we still have a connection that is unexplainable to others. Ours is a love that is difficult to describe. It began as a forbidden love, moved to a tortured love, then on to unrequited love, and then for years we had no contact with each other.

Until, a comedy of errors and coincidences put me in the frame of mind to search and seek him. And then, time disappeared, our mind set was set back twenty five years ago. We didn't miss a heart beat.

I've never made love to this man (at least not in the flesh). Yet curiously, I've learned the greatest lessons of love with and from this man.

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Happy 7th Year Anniversary!!!
Posted:Nov 25, 2012 7:06 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 4:36 pm
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We had joy, we had fun, we had seasons in the sun.
But the wine and the song,
like the seasons, all have gone.

Seasons In The Sun by Terry Jack

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Peek-a-Boo
Posted:Nov 24, 2012 10:18 am
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2012 9:06 pm
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I wish these were your hands undressing me.
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To my "watchers", followers, friends, and even adversaries....
Posted:Nov 22, 2012 4:17 am
Last Updated:Nov 24, 2012 10:01 am
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HAPPY THANKSGIVING DAY!!!!
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Saw this list and needed to share.
Posted:Nov 18, 2012 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2012 8:47 pm
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With no further ado, here is the sexual bucket list for parents. Here are the 50 must-do sexual acts for parents. The sexual bucket list for moms and dads!

1.) Sex in the car.

2.) Sex in the rain (because you'll get caught inside!).

3.) Trying to finish as the bang on the locked door.

4.) Drunk, after a Saturday date night.

5.) In the shower while you're supposed to be getting ready.

6.) Sex on a boat when you're finally alone.

7.) Afternoon delight (when the are at school).

8.) Quiet sex in the hotel room while the sleep.

9.) Sex during naptime.

10.) A quickie in the closet while the play together for five minutes.

11.) Sex in the locked bedroom while the watch a movie downstairs.

12.) A date night in a hotel. Bonus points for renting by the hour.

13.) In the bathtub.

14.) In the ocean on a family trip.

15.) On a rock in the backyard.

16.) In a tent.

17.) In the basement like teenagers.

18.) In the middle of the night.

19.) First thing in the morning before the wake up.

20.) Scheduled sex.

21.) Just make out. No sex at all.

22.) Have sex slowly.

23.) Have sex fast.

24.) Use a vibrator.

25.) Read erotica together.

26.) Let him show you his porn.

27.) Watch each other masturbate.

28.) Give a hand job with no expectation of return.

29.) Ask for him to go down on you and don't offer anything in return.

30.) Wash each other's hair.

31.) Hold hands during a movie.

32.) Go to a crappy movie and engage in oral in the back row.

33.) Spend all day kissing and making out, but don't have sex until the night.

34.) Wake him up with a blow job.

35.) Tear each other's underwear off.

36.) Experiment with ice.

37.) Experiment with peppermint oil.

38.) Take a couple's massage course.

39.) Cook dinner together. Naked.

40.) Trade underwear for a day.

41.) Skip underwear for a day and text each other.

42.) Send nude photos to his phone.

43.) Wear a bikini to bed.

44.) Wear nothing to bed.

45.) Suck each other's toes.

46.) Trade deepest fantasies. Do them.

47.) Eat leftover birthday cake. Off each other.

48.) Have sex on the swing set.

49.) Flirt. Hard.

50.) Make him/her a bubble bath with no expectation of sex.

What is on your bucket list for the sex life with ?
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Sweaty, and the heart is pounding..........
Posted:Nov 16, 2012 11:23 pm
Last Updated:Nov 21, 2012 8:50 pm
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Perhaps you thought I had just had sex. No such luck. I'm just a mother hen that woke up in the middle of the night and found that one of her little chicks hadn't checked in.

The easier it gets, the harder my makes it. All she had to do is text. A single word would do. "safe" or, if that is too many letters "ok". It's the least a parent deserves, especially when I have her on my cell plan and foot the bill.

So, I called her to put my mind at rest. She called back within 5 minutes. She's in a bar, in Brooklyn, with 6 guys. So much for putting my mind to rest.
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Thank you to all veterans!!!
Posted:Nov 12, 2012 1:34 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2012 6:31 pm
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I've always felt the ole ticker skip a beat when I saw a man in a military dress uniform (sorry, but fatiques do nothing for me).

However, when I joined VisionPersonals.com I realized that a service history put men higher on my list of possible playmates. Anyone else feel that way, or been with women that felt that way?

Although, the young guy that wrote asking for a blow job, just because he was in the army...,did not get one. As tempting as that one sounded.
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Armistice Day
Posted:Nov 11, 2012 5:29 am
Last Updated:Nov 12, 2012 12:44 am
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My grandfather never stopped calling November 11th Armistice Day. He was proud, and rightly so, of our countries and his own contributions in World War I. He told us, as we sat on his knee, the story of the armistice, the truce agreement signed in an old railroad car in the forest of Compiègne on the 11th hour, of the 11th day, of the 11th month.

He found it an outrage when Congress changed Veteran's Day to the fourth monday in October in 1968, affording a long weekend to federal employees. In 1975 he penned a letter to President Gerald Ford thanking him for restoring Veteran's Day to November 11th.

To all my friends that have served our country, THANK YOU, your efforts are greatly appreciated.

My special thanks to my grandfather, Uncle Frank, my father (who served in WWII and Korea), Uncle Chubby, Uncle Charlie, Uncle Ger, Aunt Helen, Frankie, Jim, Doris, the members of my family that have served.

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Somewhere Out There
Posted:Nov 10, 2012 5:44 am
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2012 5:48 am
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Somewhere out there,
Beneath the pale moon night,
Someone's thinking of me,
And loving me tonight.
Somewhere out there,
Someone's saying a prayer,
That we'll find one another,
In that big somewhere out there.
And even though I know how very far apart we are,
It helps to think we might be wishing
On the same bright star,
And when the night wind starts to sing
A lonesome lullaby,
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the
Same big sky.
Somewhere out there,
If love can see us through,
Then, we'll be together,
Somewhere out there, out where dreams, come true.
And even though I know how very far apart we are,
It helps to think we might be wishing
On the same bright star,
And when the night wind starts to sing
A lonesome lullaby,
It helps to think we're sleeping underneath the
Same big sky.
Somewhere out there,
If love can see us through, (can see us through)
Then, we'll be together,
Somewhere out there, out where dreams, come true.
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I'm Feeling Sad
Posted:Nov 4, 2012 3:20 pm
Last Updated:Nov 10, 2012 5:31 am
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This week has been a difficult one for me emotionally. There has been a lot going on inside my head. Autumn is my favorite season, but it is a time of anniverseries. Anniversaries of the DON'T feel good kind, like of my father's passing.

I think the hurricane and all the devastation has me thinking about him all the more. If this were the 1970's, he'd be working on solving some of the problems people are encountering. It is what he did for a living, but more importantly, it is what he'd do as a volunteer.

He was a great man and I have found myself remembering him with love all week. It's a bittersweet remembrance. Sweet, make you smile memories, yet I'm sadly missing him.
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10-31-12
Posted:Oct 31, 2012 1:07 pm
Last Updated:Oct 31, 2012 6:44 pm
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Happy Halloween
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Try Everything At Least Once
Posted:Oct 28, 2012 9:59 am
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2012 1:43 pm
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I was chatting this morning with someone about things that I've done. And it hit me that I've done a couple of "different" things for me, since joining VisionPersonals.com. Most of these were requests from guys that get limited sex at home.

I laid on a picnic table in a state park and got cunnilingus.
I took a walk in a state park (a different one) and came upon a meadow, in which we fucked like bunnies (both vaginally and anally).
I met a man just to let him watch me pee.
I've masturbated for various men. They need a release, but don't want to full out cheat on their wives.
I've given a couple of guys a hand (and/or mouth) to help them cum. I've swallowed because that makes them most happy.
I mailed a man my scented panties.
I flashed my boobs at a man in a restaurant.
I let him finger me under the table at our next meal out.
I got fingered in a parking lot with a stranger watching. Really two strangers, since the guy fingering was someone I had just met through VisionPersonals.com.
I gave a guy a blow job because his wife won't and he hadn't had one since Vietnam. Actually, there were several guys that requested long overdue fellatio.
I got cunnilingus from a guy and peed in his mouth when he asked.
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GOOD MORNING WORLD!!!
Posted:Oct 19, 2012 12:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2012 5:17 am
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Yellow leaves, green tea, the soft sound of trees rustling in the breeze, the cool crisp air, chocolate, ice cream, the little tiny fingers of a newborn baby, family, friends, my , lovers, chocolate chip cookies, potato chips, music, art, rainbows,sex, moonlight, stretchy lace on my bosoms, the steady hum of my vibe, being inboxed, being texted, the roar of the crowd when the team scores, my front porch rocker, the tweet of birds, a full belly laugh, a hug, a kiss, lying entwined in bed, apple crisp ala mode, crossword puzzles, Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan movies, novels by Nicholas Sparks, a Hawaiian sunset, a pinacolada, a margharita, steak, baked potato with butter and sour cream, a hot bagel with butter or cream cheese, HGTV, CNN, Godiva truffles, red cars, green SUVs, blush wine, cheese, strawberries, cranberries, limes, cherries, grapes, mango, pears, peaches, bananas, or should I just say fruit, eggplant, olive oil, corn, tomatoes, salad, grills, diet coke, water, water, and water, sunshine, soft flannel pajamas, sheer lingerie, perfume, flowers, my fluffy throw blanket, orthoheel flip flops, Old English lavender, panties, a man that makes me laugh until I cry, a man that made me experience peace, tranquility, joy, soft fur on puppies, goose down, feather pillows, lemonade, whip cream.

These are just a few of the things that come to mind when I think what makes life worth living.
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