We are so tired of all the people on here who say they are available, wanting to meet, can't get anyone to meet. We have sent messages to people asking about chatting or meeting and they don't even have the courteosy to respond. If you are not interested that's fine just say so. Nothing wrong with networking, meeting new friends who may have friends you do like. Unless you are all out in the open about the lifestyle you need help finding like minded people. So if someone sends you a message don't ignore it. At least respond with a no thanks.