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Are you ready to quit?
Are you ready to learn?
Are you ready to find the spark inside and let it burn?
I'm the walls that close in
I'm the words you won't say
I'm the voices you choose to keep inside
And lock away
Everyday
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I don't want to be flawless. When I go I want the cuts to show.
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Passion. It lies in all of us, sleeping, waiting.
And though unwanted, unbidden, it will stir.
Open its jaws and howl.
It speaks to us, guides us, passion rules us all.
And we obey, what other choice do we have?
Passion is the source of our finest moments.
The joy of love, the clarity of hatred,
and the ecstacy of grief.
It hurts sometimes more than we can bear.
If we could live without passion,
maybe we'd know some kind of peace.
But we would be hollow.
Empty rooms, shuttered, dank.
Without passion, we'd be truly dead.
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'Cause sometimes you just feel tired, you feel weak
And when you feel weak you feel like you want to just give up
But you gotta search within you, you gotta find that inner strength
And just pull that shit out of you and get that motivation to not give up
And not be a quitter, no matter how bad you want to just fall flat on your face and collapse
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Music is like a tattoo,
and bands have to make music
where people are proud to wear your tattoo,
no matter what kind of music you like.
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For some, music is not just a pastime,
It’s an undeniable fact of living,
A blissful slavery of mind, body and soul.
To rise above the ashes of mediocrity is rare,
Yet the gift of song is freely handed out to anyone who cares to receive it,
Instantly shattering our daily drudgery. The path to pursue more than the usual,
More than what is safe and known,
Is wrought with time-sharpened jagged blade s that cut deep,
Blocking many from the road to something greater,
Beyond the stunted imagination of their peers. Within the veins of the few,
Passion fills every sinew with a sweet unquenchable purpose,
Calming the fear of those treacherous paths,
Though every slice burns and bleeds,
Still they take each cut
And wear the scars with pride to signal their choice,
That undying pursuit of greater joy within every cord.
And so they say – Watch me bleed
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When life knocks you down..calmly get back up, smile, and very politely, say, "You hit like a bitch."
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I’ll never show you my cards, I won’t be playing a hand worth bluffing. But when you’re running with me, you won’t be wondering why you’ve fallen.
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Hanson Could Have Disappeared. Here's Why They Didn't.
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Posted:Feb 11, 2016 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Feb 21, 2020 8:57 pm
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Hanson could have been a one-hit wonder. (Remember “MmmBop”?) But rather than quit after their star fell, they took full control of their brand. Now they’re music makers, festival organizers, beer brewers and marketing masters -- and still have legions of fans.
How'd they do it? Check out our Q&A with the busy blond-haired brothers.
"MmmBop” was an international hit. But then your major record-label deal started falling apart. Was that when you realized that to have a long career, you needed to be entrepreneurs as well as artists?
Isaac:We were always a bit hard-nosed, despite our cheerful demeanor. Our first manager really pushed that we not sell our publishing rights, which is one of the earliest things an artist will do: They’ll sell in order to get a cash advance. The premise of anything you do -- whether it’s writing a song or any business -- is ultimately that it hinges heavily on your belief in the thing that you’re doing and promoting and selling. It’s a reflection of who you are in a very deep way. We looked at it as: We care about the future of what we’re doing. This is not just a way to make a quick buck, but it’s ultimately a life to be proud of.
Taylor: There’s an epidemic in the music industry, which is the idea that artists need all these other people to succeed. You need the manager, you need the label, you need the publicist. But artists of all kinds -- designers, painters, everybody -- are now seeing that they can be their own brand manager and marketer. The whole creative world needs artists to embrace that. They are the center of their business, not just the center of their art.
Still, there was surely a lot you had to learn. How did you begin?
Taylor: Distribution of records, retail, radio, press -- all that stuff is critical. But our strategy first and foremost was to support this idea that we want to have a hard-core base. We wanted to make the community bigger than us. We can’t be in people’s eyes and ears every single minute of every day, so how can we create a culture with a community that fuels itself?
Isaac: As an example, no matter whether we’re releasing a record or not, every year we put out an EP and it goes directly to the fan club. So fan club members can expect to get five songs from us, hell or high water. And there are various things that go along with that release -- watching us make it [through video the band shoots] -- that’s always creating content for the core base to talk about.
Taylor: The challenge of most artists is: Labels fight with managers. Managers fight with publishers. Publishers fight with artists. And what we’ve done is bring all of those pieces under our roof so they can all work together, so they’re not in competition with each other. We don’t have one side of our business trying to screw the other side of our business.
When we started talking, I assumed you would have felt like artists learning to be businesspeople. But it seems the inverse: You created a business that was informed by your needs as an artist.
Taylor: That’s a pretty fair assessment. The art is the commodity. That’s the bread. That’s what matters because that’s what created the relationship, the economy of Hanson. And the other stuff, you can learn.
So how did you transition out of pure art, and into products such as your beer?
Taylor: We like to move our focus into areas that create community and create self-identification so that our fans who love our music, who love what we’re doing, can identify themselves in ways outside of just the song. The beer is like the ultimate evolution of that kind of idea. It can stand on its own, outside of what we do, because it’s a whole other artisan business. That’s why it’s evolved more and more into creating its own identity, with things like Hop Jam, our annual beer festival, that stands around Hanson. We’re at the festival, but it’s its own party.
It also strikes me as a smart way to sell more things to your fans. They’ve already bought the ticket to your show, after all, and they can only own so many T-shirts.
Taylor: It’s a natural step to say we’re playing a show, we should have our beer there. One, because we know our fans are five times more likely to buy our beer than someone else’s. And music and beer create the DNA of a great event, so we use that combination as a way to create a secondary event: We’re deejaying and playing the after party ourselves.
When we started producing beer, it was weird: There’s a perishable thing that’s in stores! A song, there’s never a point in which it’s going to go bad. I think that’s a blessing from the point of view of the creative and business minds. You have to measure yourself within those parameters. It keeps you thinking.
So why call it MmmHops? Were you worried it would seem like a novelty product?
Taylor: It was a question of whether you call out the elephant in the room or wait for others to call it out. What we’ve done with MmmHops is actively and proactively tell people, “We are and always have been proud of who we are and our music -- and by the way, MmmHops is the 20-year personification of that brand.”
Zac: And we wanted to cut off newspapers from titling their articles, “Mmm, Beer.” Because that’s not even a pun. Also, in the end, you know that the name will get more attention than if it’s just called Hanson Brothers Pale Ale.
On your last tour you did two nights in each city: The first show was covers. The second was your songs. Where do these ideas start -- thinking about how to increase your returns on the road?
Isaac: Like anything, it has to start with, is this a good creative idea? If you’re not passionate about it, it will have great risk of falling flat on its face. So the idea was, hey, playing shows that talk about our musical influences sounds really fun. But there’s only so many songs we can play on a set list, so maybe we should make it two nights.
Zac: It’s about expanding the experience, about finding ways for people to identify with the band in different ways. This is an example of how that progresses. It has incredible value because you get to walk in to a promoter and say, “We’re going to be twice as valuable to you.” But it’s risky because in some markets, that might not work. So what we try to do with our audience is ask a lot of them, and in turn require a lot of ourselves. We’re not averse to risk because we feel like we have tried to cultivate a relationship where fans understand that these experiences may not be your average band experiences, but if you make the effort to show up, to give your paycheck to Hanson, that you’re going to get a great experience.
Do you think being an artist makes you more willing to embrace risk?
Taylor: I know a lot of artists who are extremely afraid of risk. That’s why some never change their style. But I think it might allow you to realize that the future could be almost anything. It’s not that the risk is any less scary. It still keeps you up at night. But you have the natural ability to see the new potential in things and believe in the opportunity because you spent so much of your life creating things seemingly out of nothing.
Isaac: Being an entrepreneur means being a creative businessperson. The most creative person is not the person who can come up with the best idea; it’s the one who can take that group of things on the table and assemble them in the greatest multiple of unique ways.
Hanson in brief:
Music: The band releases albums on its own label, called 3CG.
Festivals: The group organizes an annual Hanson Day in Tulsa, full of events and seminars; Hop Jam, a craft brew and music festival also in Tulsa; and an annual destination show, in which the band fills a resort in Mexico or Jamaica, produces a weekend of activities and even curates the menus.
Beer: Its flagship brew is MmmHops, available in 20 states and online.
article from Entrepreneur magazine
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Brutally Honest Confessions Of Girls Who’ve Dated One Too Many Assholes
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Posted:Feb 7, 2016 5:51 pm
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2016 5:13 pm
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We never asked to be this way. The truth is that we’ve dated one too many assholes — one too many jerks that hurt us and even though we’re trying to be hopeful, we can’t help but feel differently when we approach new potential relationships. These are the brutally honest confessions of the girls who’ve dated one too many assholes:
1. We’re always on guard. Just like any woman who’s been scorned, we’ve built strategic walls brick by brick, each engraved with the name of a different asshole, and behind each brick of the wall are the lessons of what the shitty relationship taught us. We want to trust that everyone has pure and honest intentions, but our pasts have triggered alarms within us that tell us to be careful as we take new steps forward.
2. We’re not play-toys. We’re not strangers to the guy who has his way with us and then fell off the face of the earth. We’re not strangers to being victims of gaslighting and been called crazy for having valid emotions one too many times. We’ve been lied to, manipulated, lead on… the list goes on. Because of this, we have zero tolerance for asshole behavior. We’re not going down that road again.
3. We’re always waiting for the other shoe to drop. We’re sorry, but we’re so used to being blindsided by someone’s true and ugly colors that we hesitate to trust up front because we’re trying to figure out if you’re worth letting our guards down for. We’ve allowed ourselves to be vulnerable over and over again and been left with repeated reason after reason of why trust needs to be earned, and it won’t happen overnight. Be patient with us if your intentions are good.
4. Our defense mechanisms are bittersweet. We might be initially oversensitive about things in the beginning while we’re learning to build that trust. We’ll be quick to defend ourselves if we feel we’re being treated unfairly because nothing will ever turn us back into the doormats we might have been in the past. We don’t mean to seem so closed off or assumptive, it’s just that without any grand separation between the assholes and the good men, we can’t be too careful.
5. We don’t put up with any shit. We have a zero tolerance policy about the behaviors and words that took us down before, so if you show us any of the red flags we’ve already run from, then sorry, but we’ll run from you, too.
6. We hold on to hope even when we’re clinging tightly to our fear. Deep down, everyone we meet and are interested in, we approach with optimistic hopefulness. We want to believe so badly that this time we’ve finally found a good one, but rooted inside of us is a fear that we might be acting naive and we don’t want to feel any of the pain we’ve felt before all over again.
7. We take things slow. We’ll take things slow with you because it gives us a chance to really assess and become comfortable with you little by little. It also helps us to weed out the ones who are only after us for one thing. If you’re not the type of asshole we’re trying to avoid, this won’t be an issue for you, and patience with us is the first step in breaking those bricks away.
8. We’re looking for that person to turn it all around. We’ve had all the jerks we can handle and we’re looking for that one that will separate the past from the present and future. We want the one who will show us what good looks like and someone who will appreciate the things that went unnoticed to the ones who didn’t treat us right before. Once we find it, we’ll never look back.
By: Andrea Wesley
*Not me, but I can relate to this*
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Going Down on Her Turns Out to Be Healthy For Everyone
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Posted:Jan 30, 2016 10:07 am
Last Updated:Mar 23, 2016 6:04 pm
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Many say that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. We beg to differ.
New research finds that cunnilingus has many health benefits, so both your ladylove and your doctor will be happy.
Researchers at the State University of New York—who are doing God’s work—found that going down on your girl encourages the production of hormones like oxytocin and DHEA, which can provide protection from cancer and heart disease.
This all-important research also noted sedative effects in kneeling at the altar. Cunnilingus promotes release of the "love hormone," oxytocin, in addition to endorphins. All can alleviate headaches and promote sleep.
Givers share in this amazing host of benefits as well, potentially experiencing what scientists call the “Helper’s High.”
Crazy, to think that all these years we've been reaching for the wrong medicine cabinet.
By: Thomas Freeman (Maxim)
(Obviously not me, but since I've posted articles by guys in the past and people still thought it was me, how I don't know, I look pretty damn female if I do say so myself, I am making an outright statement this is not me)
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Girl Writes Empowering Message About Self-Acceptance Online
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Posted:Jan 30, 2016 9:56 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2016 6:14 pm
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Brittaney was in a relationship with someone who pointed out her every flaw. She allowed him to dictate her hairstyle, her makeup, and even her weight. She was used to hateful words being used in relation to her physical appearance — words like “ridiculous,” “tacky,” and “ugly” — yet Brittaney couldn’t find the strength to leave the relationship behind.
Eventually, Brittaney lost complete confidence to the point that when she was left for a “prettier” girl, she blamed herself. At this point, she could have turned down a dangerous path of self-hate and self-harm, like so many other young people do in similar situations. But instead, something amazing started to happen. Recently, Brittaney took to FB to share it with the world.
Now, the ’s message is going viral. with tens of thousands of “likes” and comments on social media.
Scroll down to see the FB post that’s got everyone talking…
“You always told me I didn’t look good with long hair and that you preferred girls with short hair. So I kept my hair cut above my shoulders at all times. You laughed at me and told me I looked ridiculous when I dyed my hair red when we were together. So a week later I dyed it back blonde.”
"You would always point out if I was wearing too much makeup. (Winged eyeliner and mascara most of the time) So I just stopped wearing it. You told me tattoos and piercings were tacky and ugly. And would try to take out my belly button ring every time you saw it. So I took out my piercings and didn’t get any more tattoos.
You pointed out my stretch marks every chance you got. So I did my best to keep them hidden.”
“You pointed out every time I looked like I had gained weight. So I started eating less every day. You pointed out every single flaw I had. So I lost every bit of confidence I had.
I did everything I could to be what you wanted. I did everything you told me to do. It still wasn’t good enough. You left me for a younger prettier girl. Someone you could mold and shape into what you wanted. Like you tried to do with me. And up until a few months ago I blamed myself for everything that happened. You blamed me too.
But finally I started to see the truth.”
“You weren’t out of my league. I was out of yours. I wasn’t the one who wasn’t good enough for you.
You were the one who wasn’t good enough for me. You couldn’t accept me for who I was. When I took you the way you were.”
“So now here I am a few months later. My hair is past my shoulders. My hair is bright red. I’ve got a new tattoo. New piercings. Started wearing makeup again. I eat whatever I want whenever I want and weigh 135 pounds. I still have my stretch marks.
And I’ve finally gotten my confidence back. I finally see myself looking back at me when I look in the mirror. It’s so hard for me to come out about this and admit that I became so vulnerable because of one guy. Something I always said would never happen. It’s humiliating to even think about how low I got. But what gives me the guts to come out about this is the fact that I overcame it and I’m finally back to who I really am.”
Brittaney’s public declaration of self-acceptance and self-love is something everyone should see. She may be young, but she’s already inspiring thousands of people.
I found this on FB, There's pics with it but as she's I didn't wanna post them here. But the story is inspiring I think and I wanted to share it.
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My sex filled weekend in Nov last year
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Posted:Jan 30, 2016 9:23 am
Last Updated:Feb 13, 2016 7:06 am
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Back on Nov 20 I got to see the guy from my Cleveland Hanson trip in Oct. We were gonna try for 2 weeks sooner but my lovely monthly enemy was due and we didn't wanna chance him coming. Ended up it didn't come till that Sunday I think so would've been ok, my luck, but oh well.
So I got off work and he came to get me like an hour and a half later. Got the hotel room, grabbed dinner since I was starving by that time. He would have been happy staying in the room. I would have too if not for not having ate since lunch and my blood sugar drops way low if I don't eat and I was feeling it at that point.
It's been 2 months so at this point the weekend is a blur. I just remember we got back to the room and all weekend if we weren't out grabbing something to eat or sleeping we were having sex every hour and I am not exaggerating. By the time he left early Sunday afternoon my stomach and legs were so sore. It was better exercise than any exercise routine could give me!
Sucks he lives like 4 hrs away. We were gonna try for New Years weekend but my enemy came again. Ugh. What's ironic is in all the years I've had it I can't ever remember having it for New Year's and the ONE YEAR I could have had plans involving sex it came. I'm taking that as I'm just meant to be celibate. *sigh*
and now He's had some major stuff happen to him, that is preventing him from coming probably till spring maybe later. I mean I understand but it sucks regardless ya know? (and no this isn't an excuse he's making to not see me. I'm not sharing his business here, but it's serious stuff).
If I want horrible one night stand sex, that is in abundance but when I find a good fwb, it never lasts.
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Winter in one day
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Posted:Jan 24, 2016 11:39 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2017 7:34 pm
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So I was pretty much smack in the middle of the winter all at once.
Before then we had like almost no winter, a dusting of snow but nothing major.
This was our car and outside the front of our house before I shoveled yesterday. I was outside yesterday for 2 hours and if not for a neighbor with a snow blower I'd have been out for probably another 2 hours.
This was our back porch.
I'm in Johnstown.
Today it's sunny and the roads are clear, no sign of the craziness of yesterday. They were even closing a lot businesses like grocery stores yesterday. The mail even didn't go, so that's how bad it was. Of course that couldn't happen on a weekday when I have to work so I have a legit excuse to call off. lol
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Another contact from jerk former FWB
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Posted:Jan 16, 2016 3:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2016 10:03 am
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On Dec 30 I got a text from dude from Met up with a former short lived FWB
I haven't heard from him since then. He asked me how my Xmas was, etc. So then he says I could cum in his town (not gonna put where he's from) tonight if I wanted. I said well it's too late for me to take the train or bus up, if he'd have let me know sooner. I also said I thought after last time he said that it felt weird which is why we didn't have sex. He replied That a fuck's a fuck and that he thought he almost made me cum last time. Which I think he may have which is the only reason I was even talking to him, but even if he would be the first guy to make me cum, his disrespect isn't worth it.
He said well get my friend to bring me up like I did last time. I said I can't my friend has been sick for awhile, even been to the doctor, we're talking weeks. He said I just didn't wanna see him. I said no my friend is really sick and I wouldn't ask him to give me a ride. If he wanted to see me so bad he could come get me. That was the last I heard from him. Seems I'm a last resort to him when he's horny and needs some. Whatever. I may get desparate but not THAT desparate. He's had his chances and I'm more than a fuckin booty call for a jackass.
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Didn't sign up for this as a parent.
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Posted:Jan 16, 2016 2:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 1, 2016 6:01 pm
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This pic (if it's not showing check back) I feel strong about cause I have a lesbian friend and she came out to her parents a few years ago. She's in her mid 20's now. Her dad, who she's always been close to, said she'd rather she offed (stronger word, but this site keeps flagging my post so I had to dumb it down) someone than be gay and her mom wanted her to go for counseling to fix her. So she quietly went back to nothing and pretend to be straight. But her parents want grandkids which they will never get cause hello? she's a lesbian and if she would have it would be her partner not her carrying the . So for the past few years she's been single. Which irks me cause like her parents aren't stupid but they choose to "believe" she's straight. lmao really? So she met someone, her parents have met her as her friend, but they spend a lot of time together. I seriously want to shake her parents and be like grow the fuck up! This is your and she can't even be herself around you cause even though you say you love her unconditionally, you don't.
Her mom is friends with me on FB so every time I find anything pertaining to gay/lesbian I post it. especially when it's like this about loving your no matter what. I can imagine what her mom thinks, but I don't care. I'm surprised her mom hasn't unfriended me yet. lol
Just pisses me off. and now my friend is agonizing cause she can see this girl in it with her for the long haul so eventually in a couple years she's gonna have to prepare herself to lose them again (they didn't speak to her for months last time) when the girl moves in with her when they get to that point and her parents will probably stop speaking to her again.
I just can't.. how can you do that to your ? Then her mom is always posting stuff on her FB how much she loves her. Makes me wants to gag. Her love comes with the condition that she's straight.
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It Doesn’t Matter Why He’s An Asshole – Why Are You Putting Up With It?
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Posted:Jan 16, 2016 2:33 pm
Last Updated:Aug 14, 2016 8:51 am
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“I’ve been dating this guy for 6 months. He tells me loves me, but also tells his parents we’re not together, ignores me in front of his friends, and doesn’t want me to know where he lives. Why would he do that?”
I read some version of this question on a weekly basis on Matt’s Twitter account or GettheGuy Facebook page, or even in the comments of this blog.
I’ve always found myself puzzled at what exactly the questioner in these moments is trying to discover. On the one hand, they may be innocently searching for an answer to the question “What’s going on in his head?”
Yet, I can’t help but want to respond: Does it really matter why he would treat you this badly? Isn’t the really important matter at hand why you should stand around for a second longer and put up with someone who is violating every standard of decent human behaviour?
Some readers I suppose are asking precisely in order to get a reality check on whether this sort of thing is normal guy behaviour (it’s not), or they ask the question in order to hear an answer they already know in their heart to be true: this isn’t acceptable from a man or woman and you need to seriously reevaluate whether you would allow anyone else in your life to get away with this kind of behaviour if you didn’t also happen to be romantically attracted to them.
There’s a saying which I’ve recently grown fond of: Follow your heart but take your brain with you. Or to be more accurate, listen to your emotions but bring your reason with you.
If it smells like mistreatment, if it looks secretive and shady, or if you suspect you’re allowing a a guy to get away with behaviour you would never tolerate from even your most unreliable, flakey, not-really-but-sort-of-friend: listen to your rational brain and act on it.
We spend so long figuring out the enigma of other people’s behaviour and not nearly enough time on deciding our reaction to their behaviour.
Sometimes the reasons really don’t matter.
We don’t have to understand every facet of the human mind. If I’m with a nasty, mean, duplicitous, manipulative person, I don’t need to understand all the reasons why someone would engage in that kind of behaviour. I’ll leave the analysis to the therapists. My job is just to decide why I would allow myself to give my time and energy to that kind of person for so long.
The reasons only matter if you’re already in a relationship who is already proven to be reasonable, respectful, and loving in other kinds of ways.
For example:
– You feel that your man, although kind and honest, is over-critical of your ideas sometimes.
– You feel that your man, although loving, gets jealous on occasion whenever you go out without him.
– You feel that he cares deeply for you, but he finds hard to express intimacy and you want him to be more open.
These are all worthy times to figure out the reasons behind this behaviour and attempt to address it with your guy. I’m all for understanding in a healthy relationship. In fact, Matt and I wrote our How To Talk To Men product precisely because we were obsessed with how to create better understanding between two people when those conflicts in loving partnerships arise.
But ultimately, when you’re dealing with a guy who has been lying or violated your standards from the beginning, you really don’t need to analyze the behaviour all that much. You can spend your life trying to understand shitty people, or choose to act so that you can make immediate room for the better relationship you deserve.
I know which one makes me happier.
By: Stephen Hussey
*didn't think I had to put this, but I got a comment, so I shall - THIS IS NOT BY ME*
*gasp this is by a guy, not a woman hating on guys article* (can you hear the sarcasm? since I get from the other articles I post that it's just women man hating)
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10 Signs He Doesn’t Like You As Much As He Says He Does
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Posted:Jan 16, 2016 2:28 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2016 5:55 pm
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Not all men are liars, but some of them are pretty talented when it comes to tricking women. They’ll use their charm convince you that they’re crazy about you so that they can sleep with you or just boost their own confidence. That’s why you need to keep both eyes open when a guy seems too good to be true. Here are a few signs that he doesn’t like you as much as he says he does:
1. He won’t acknowledge you on social media. If he refuses to post an Instagram picture of you, or tag you on Facebook, then he probably doesn’t want anyone knowing you’re involved. That means he might be involved with a few other girls at the same time.
2. His friends have no idea who you are. If he really liked you, then his friends would know the names of all of your cats. If they don’t even know your name, then he probably isn’t as crazy about you as you’d like him to be.
3. He only hangs out to make out. Or he only texts you to ask for nudes. If every conversation revolves around sex, then he’s not interested in anything more than getting laid.
4. He never sees you in person. You can’t have a relationship over text. If he won’t set aside enough time to meet up with you in person, then he doesn’t like you as much as he says he does.
5. You don’t spend holidays together. If he really liked you, he’d invite you over for the holidays. If you two aren’t all that serious, he’d at least invite you over to meet his parents on any other day of the year.
6. He won’t delete his Tinder. If he was planning on committing himself to you, then he wouldn’t need his photo on a dating site—especially a site that is known for hooking up. If he’s still on Tinder, then he isn’t taking your relationship seriously.
7. He never starts the conversation. If he only talks to you or hangs out with you after you initiate the interaction, he’s not as interested in you as you are in him. He should be thinking of you, even when you’re not around.
8. He won’t watch the movie you picked. If he liked you, he wouldn’t mind sitting through Mean Girls for the third time that month. He’d do whatever he could to get on your good side, and that includes watching chick flicks.
9. He talks to other women the same way he talks to you. If he flirts with you constantly, but then uses the same lines on your friends, he’s just recycling his moves. He’s trying to see which one of you will agree to sleep with him first, and then he’ll move on to the next one.
10. He’s a hypocrite. If he gets mad when you won’t text him back, even though he never actually texts you back, then it’s a power move. He wants you to answer his beck and call while he gets to neglect you.
By: Holly Riordan
*not me*
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2 jump starts and a blood transfusion
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Posted:Jan 13, 2016 9:14 pm
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2016 2:02 pm
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Three Nurses working in a morgue discover a Dead Man with a hard on, the 1st Nurse says 'I can't let that go to waste', & rides him. The 2nd Nurse does the same. The 3rd Nurse hesitates & explains she is on her period, but does him anyway. Then the Man sits up & the Nurses apologize saying they thought he was dead. The Man replies 'I was, but after two jump starts & a blood transfusion I feel fuckin great!!!'
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