Problematic Bottoms
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Posted:Dec 22, 2012 1:03 am
Last Updated:May 13, 2013 6:21 pm
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I am not sure why, and maybe other guys can report differently, but I have been having issues recently with bottoms not being able get fucked. Complaining I'm to large and being unable to handle it.
Okay seriously... really...
I have been told I have a decent length and girth sized dick. Statistic wise I do know I'm on the larger size but, seriously. During my entire life like 90% of the guys I've fucked have been first timers or guys with like 1 or 2 times experience and can fuck them like they are riding a . (Once fully prepped).
WTF then are the guys who know they are bottoms, get fucked regularly, and love getting fucked. Such fucking pussies about getting taking it.
Don't get me wrong, I love fucking virgins or people with no experience but there are times where I don't have to hold hands, calm nerves, or do the extra things you have to with a virgin.
So I go look for an experienced man, and I get these guys who complain and like say stop, take it out, etc. Seriously. I fuck virgins who never even had a dildo up there and they love it, take it and accept it. Yet you can't... sigh...
*frustration vented*
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Moving Sucks
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Posted:Dec 9, 2012 8:06 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:19 am
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*** No Puns (I wish) ***
Moved from southern OKC over to Yukon. I love my new place and have yet to christen it.
So basically spent the entire weekend from sun up to late after dark, also helped some good friends with a move as well. Wish I had a couple days of vacation to recover from this move before returning to work.
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g0y A personal view
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Posted:Apr 3, 2012 11:50 pm
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2012 12:07 pm
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*Before you read be warned this is a long post. Apologies for it being a bit rambley but trying to express my views and thoughts and maybe provoke an interesting discussion in the process*
I'm am not one for posting to forums. But I came across a new word and it interested me. After researching the subject and found a culture identity that I would have happily identified with except for the fact, that according to this subculture they would not want me.
A little about me first to let you know where I'm coming from. I am a bisexual male. On the Kinsey scale I would put myself at a 5. For those who don't know about the Kinsey scale that would mean "Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual" normally with m/f couples.
I enjoy my sexuality immensely. I enjoy sex, like most sexual people.
As far as that goes, I never felt comfortable in what would be considered the "Gay scene".
I always preferred going and hanging out with my straight friends and other gay guys who were masculine and straight acting as well. For bars, I preferred straight bars that are gay friendly. I was always more at ease and comfortable in those surrounding, it just felt more natural for me. If i was more interested in just women and not at all in men I would be perfectly fine straight guy.
This brings me to the point of my post, recently I came across a new word "g0y".
I was am by nature curious and wondered what the term was about. I have been having sex with guys for a while and knew that male/male sexuality is a complex things. Over the years that I have been sexually active I had to uncover a lot of stuff on my own. Also find my own place in a world that wanted to label me and say I was supposed to act or behave a certain way because I was X. How I rejected that view and after being comfortable with the identity I forged for myself, and I've been lucky enough to try and help other guys once I was experienced enough to bring them along.
For me my sexuality views are kind of this. I want my guys to be guys and my girls to be girls. I just don't find the blur in-between attractive. Girly guys or butchy women just don't crank my gears and get my engine running. Give me a masculine hunk or a sensuous woman any day of the week hands down.
Being as I am, I tried to support the gay community and met some good people and are friends with but I never really identified well with the group. Its just a lot of gay culture just doesn't resonate with me. I felt like an outsider looking in.
Upon initially reading about g0y, I was like hallelujah a group of guys that think like me. Men who like men. No gender bending. No extravagance. Just guys being guys with guys who like guys. That was until according to the almost everything I read about g0y said I was essentially a disease spreading, murdering, , and destroyer of masculinity because I enjoy having anal sex. How anal sex was the worst more degrading sexual act out there and responsible for destroying human sexuality, whether male/male or male/female.
I was honestly surprised and it confused me, after the initial anger of course. I spent a great deal of time developing and understanding myself and my views on sex. Of course whenever someone essentially says something that destroys an importantly held view you go on the defensive. But I stepped back and considered and started to think.
When I was growing up I was out of touch with a lot modern media at the time. So when I first started having interest in and pursuing sex, it was a lot of finding what felt good and natural and developed from that. It was like it kept on getting better and better until I had anal sex and it was like "Wow." For me being a top and pursuing anal sex was natural development. For some I know they are natural bottoms. Some guys are versatile and some guys don't enjoy anal sex at all whether on top or bottom.
I was utterly surprised at some of the views, bile and rhetoric I read on some g0y sites about anal sex. Please feel free to research as well.
The funniest thing I read though was male/male anal sex violated masculinity. I literally laughed at that. Some of my favorite sexual partners involved guys who would probably beat the crap out of anyone who even implied that being a bottom made them anything less then a truly masculine man.
It's strange to find a group that has almost 99% of my own personal view of male/male sexuality but that slight 1% difference is essentially as wide as the Grand Canyon.
Its not to say the g0y movement is bad. Anything that allows people to experience their honest feelings for one another is a good thing. Its just much of the material I read online was like finding that ultra hot guy or girl that just turns you on like nothing else and then finding out that he or she has that one fatal flaw that turns them from a smoking hot 10 to a ice cold 0, like dragon breath that could peel paint and perm your hair.
Is it really to much to find the sub-sect of gay/bi/str8 guys who appreciate masculinity with other guys, the male/male bond but doesn't believe anal sex is akin to murder and .
These are just my views and opinions after reviewing page after page after page of g0y related sites. If there are g0y men who read this, please feel free to respond if you to clarify something or maybe have your own take on the subject.
Hopefully this post will spark some thought. Maybe a curious guy reading the forum can find some additional information he didn't consider before. While I don't like everything I've read about g0y, I do think it could be an answer some guys are seeking. Yet there are some aspects I just can't agree with and unfortunately don't see a middle ground too at all.
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I don't get it some people's behavior
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Posted:Mar 30, 2012 11:42 pm
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2012 12:07 pm
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I don't get the people on this site sometimes. The way they behave and do things does not make any sense to me. Not everyone just a few people and few things.
Example 1 - I drool over your profile but will never reply to you
So we are all here on this website to meet someone, whether for LTR or something quick fun and dirty. In order to do that we create profiles and we surf the profiles that are created. We as users have the ability to let people know we like their profiles by hotlisting or winking.
So when someone checks out my profile everyday of the week, hotlists me or flirts me. I think they like what they read and thus check out their profile. If the profile jives with mine, I'm going to hotlist/flirt them back and then send them a message so we can see where we can go and nothing. No reply. No response. Yet they continue to check out my profile.
Example 2 - I don't like your profile but I look at it every day
This person says they are a complete and total opposite of what I like and same for me. ie I am not what they want. We may have even exchanged a message or two and been less then courteous. So why do you continue to poke my profile anywhere from twice a week to once every 2 to 3 weeks. Really if you find my profile so gross why do you keep looking at it all the time.
Example 3 - The out of the blue no reason Block in the middle of talking
So either I hit someone up or I get hit up and we start talking and starting hitting it off. Things seem to be going good. No topics that would cause any bad feelings. Everything seeming to be casual even setting up for a date to fool around and suddenly out of the blue... blocked??? WTF? Really? Did I say or do something that pissed you off. Were you jerking my chain? Can you at least have the decency to tell me your not feeling it and let me respond like an adult and say "oh well, that sucks." And only block me if I turn into a 3 year old whiny bitch like someone people out there when they don't get their way.
Seriously why is it so hard to expect adult behavior and respect from adults.
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Annoying Emails *Slight Rant Alert*
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Posted:Mar 4, 2012 11:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 12, 2012 12:07 pm
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So I've been on VisionPersonals.com for a while now. I've talked to some very nice people and even had fun with quite a few of them. Yet I think the one thing that is starting to really annoy me is the people who hit me up, want to hook up but obviously never read an inch of my profile.
I would rather deal with flakes who say they will then they won't. At least I already know what to expect.
I'm bi but prefer guys over girls. I say so in my profile. I also say what type of guys and girls I prefer.
I like my manly men. I like my sexy ladies.
I also say I don't like any feminine guys, nor interested in cross dressers. Yet I've been hit up repeated by a lot of guys who are into and want to do that for me.
Am I the only person who thinks "If I wanted a woman, I would go out and get a real one."
I understand some guys are naturally feminine and so guys get off on the reverse gender rolls. More power to you, but you DO NOT turn me on.
When I am fucking a man, I want to be fucking a man. When I am fucking a woman, I want to be fucking a woman. Do us all a favor and instead of wasting your time and mine, find yourself another guy who is interested in that.
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Questions and Updates
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Posted:Oct 12, 2011 10:10 pm
Last Updated:Mar 4, 2012 11:09 am
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So I've decided to update my profile. While I do like what I have up currently I decided that its a bit dated and would like to add more information to it. Unfortunately I'm not the best at talking randomly about myself and took me a while to put down what I had down.
So going to ask the people who visit my profile to send me your requests. Posted here (all posts are screened for privacy) or by an email and I will do my best to put it all into my updated profile.
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Barren OKC
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Posted:Oct 6, 2011 6:46 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2012 9:07 am
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So... been in OKC almost a year and ironically I think I got laid less this year then I ever had when I was in Lawton. And everytime I get back down to Lawton, I get some play. Its so weird you would think in a bigger city you would get more opportunity not less
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Officially Moving
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Posted:Jan 6, 2011 2:10 am
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2012 9:20 pm
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Hey Guy, its official now. Got me a job up in Oklahoma City. So starting monday I will staying up in the city. For a while I will be moving between Lawton and OKC. Since I will not be settled. Most likely will be doing the week in OKC and weekends back home in Lawton.
I would love to christin my first week in OKC with lots of play time. But since I will staying iwith friends until i get settled you will need to provide the location. Hopefully have fun soon.
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About the Expire
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Posted:Nov 10, 2010 10:23 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:19 am
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Sad to say but my year is almost up. Also won't be able to renew for a while... so unless a sudden windfall comes my way, I'm going to distest being a standard member again. *sigh* but I definitely want to renew my gold membership when I can.
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Profile Photos Update
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Posted:Oct 11, 2010 8:07 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:19 am
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So, like most people the only camera I have is on my mobile phone. I had my original phone replace a bit ago, and the replacement phone's I received digital camera while good in some ways. Blows chunks in many others. The pictures I've taken recently have a noticeably red shift to them, and tried programing the camera and it remains.
So those that are curious why the new redness thats why.
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