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Just say 'hello'
Posted:Aug 12, 2005 1:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 4:23 pm
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Plenty of people read my posts, but few actually leave a reply. I realize my topics aren't the most awe-inspiring, and perhaps some are just floating around looking for sexual stories to read. And i've heard rumors that sometimes non-members can view blogs, but not actually reply to any... but whatever the reasons... if you stop by and look, please... just say hi?

whoa... talk about deja-vu moments now i really can't wait to see who replies. lol.

i'm the 2nd popular blogger in Eastern Washington... maybe if all my viewers leave a message, i'll bounce up to #1? If not, that's ok too I'll have fun reading replies all the same, and that's enough for me.

*hugs* to everyone....

and if you actually want something to respond to, other than just 'hello'... tell me, what do you enjoy reading about?
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Sleep-wear
Posted:Aug 11, 2005 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 1:52 pm
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What do you wear to bed? Does it make a difference if somebody is with you or not?

I'm a 'secret indoor nudist'... i don't even bother with clothes half the time. (I still wonder how much, if anything, the mailman saw when i accidentally opened the door to find him standing there.... Or how much my neighbors saw when my cat pushed the curtains wide open on unsuspecting me). This includes when sleeping. I discovered years ago that it's warmer in winter and cooler in summer to have no clothes when i sleep. Especially in winter time, if i have a fuzzy blanket and put that over me... it feels good against my skin

i do LOVE pajamas... especially pretty lacy things. I have numerous floor-length and partially see-thru gowns. some short and flirty, some lounge-wear type... even a flannel nightie or two. or used to... i got rid of most of them, because it seems silly to have a drawer full of clothes i never wear. Of course, now my mom is living here... i need to go pajama shopping again. My preference, though, is floor-length partially see thru gowns. they make me feel elegant and sexy.

guys can answer this too... what do you wear to bed? also: what do you prefer your partner to wear??

alright... bedtime for this night-owl....
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A special thanks...
Posted:Aug 10, 2005 2:21 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 1:49 pm
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...to a certain friend who told me to go out and have fun, and not cancel my plans in favor of more sleep.

I'm a member of a medieval society, that studies to re-create and re-enact the Middle Ages. Society for Creative Anachronisms. The local group has many ongoing (weekly/monthly) activities, such as 'arts night' 'dance practice' and 'culinary guild meeting'. I've been a member of the culinary guild for over a year, but have participated in nothing more than the email list. So tonight i went to my first meeting... it was so much fun!! getting to visit with old friends i've not seen in almost a year, and meeting new friends. (most of my year is spent sleeping in the day, class in evenings, working all night... including weekend nights. rather clashes with the schedules of everybody i know). i'm so happy i didn't miss it!!! of course, i may have to stop for a nap during my drive home, but that's ok.

The theme tonight (well: 8/9) was "Period Cheese Recipes". I made a Brie Tart from the Rennaissance period. By the exclamations made, everybody loved it. It's simple to make, but Brie is expensive. If anybody is interested in the recipe:

Brie Tart:

8 inch uncooked pie pastry
1 lb. young brie cheese
6 egg yolks, beaten
1/ 8 tspn. saffron
3/ 4 tspn. light brown sugar
3/ 8 tspn. powdered ginger
salt

Bake pie pastry at 425*F for 10 minutes; let cool (i think it's ok to skip this step).
Remove rind from brie, then combine brie with remaining ingredients in blender. Add salt to taste. Pour liquid into pastry shell, and bake at 350*F for 30-40 minutes, until set and brown on top.
(Sass, Lorna J. "To The King's Taste" p. 49)

I think, however, I will submit the request to not have "cheese" as a theme again lol. The variety of food was wonderful, but it was 'overkill'.

(update: i *think* i fixed the typo i was so nicely notified of... then humorously notified of. i still don't see it, but??? hope it's fixed)
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Demonic Kitten
Posted:Aug 2, 2005 3:17 am
Last Updated:May 30, 2014 6:15 pm
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Just for the heck of it... i'm sharing a pic of my demonic kitten. She's the one who influence the decision of my nickname. Funny, demonic, intelligent... crazy. Plays fetch great entertainment, when i'm not chasing her or yelling at her for doing things she KNOWS is wrong.
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Pendulum
Posted:Aug 1, 2005 8:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2015 5:04 pm
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The clock strikes,
Pendulum swings...
I've been here before.
Downward spiral,
out of control
...Chaos!!
Fragmented half of my soul,
Murky struggling.
Try, TRY!--the other side
Remember the songs:
Sweet scent of spring,
Dance of life, of love.
As upwards the pendulum swings
The clock strikes again!

As so long ago, a Sage said:
"This, too, shall pass."

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i wrote this poem on Saturday. Went to the Jazz club... very relaxing!! i've had this poem in mind for some weeks; had a feeling for it, a beginning and an end. i'm still not certain i like it... but this might be as good as it gets! i have been so focused with my nose in the Accounting books, i've missed but done nothing with writing, be it poetry or otherwise, in many years. I tend to be an all-or-nothing person. all love, no love. all work, or all play. all poetry, or...... how well do YOU do at keeping balance in your life? and if any of you know WHO the sage was who said 'this, too, shall pass'... let me know i believe i have it written somewhere in one of my billions (ok, thousands) of books... but i'm not too worried about finding him right now. i believe it was a King of the Ottoman Empire, who wanted to have a reminder to keep him focused on his rule. So a wise man hung a sword above his head by a golden thread, or silken hair... and on the sword was written "This, too, shall pass." so the king remembers all good things, as with all bad, will pass. and not to get too settled into his power, as it too will someday disappear.
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Would you travel?
Posted:Jul 27, 2005 2:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2013 1:36 pm
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A guy living on the other side of the state wants to meet me (totally unrelated to this site). So, since there are other friends i want to meet in the area, and one of my best friends moved there a few months ago, i said "sure, i'll drive over". But other friends have told me i should have stayed and made him come to ME. Which got me wondering, who should be the one to travel?

Should the man travel to meet the woman? It's safer for the woman that way, she's on her 'home turf.' it's also more 'chivalric' perhaps, and more romantic.

Or should the woman travel to meet the man? perhaps it's easier for her to get away, or she's independent and adventurous.

or, perhaps, meeting somewhere in the middle is an option?

Would it make a difference if the person you're travelling to meet offers to pay your expenses, or part of them? Or maybe it has more to do with which person has more 'free time'.

If you meet up with somebody from online that lives a distance away, how do you decide who travels? And what precautions do you take?

when/if i travel, i always leave my itinerary and contact info with family members, including contact info. for the people i'm planning to meet (the more detail the better). then i make sure to have contacts in the area i'm travelling to that are willing and able to help me if things go wrong. This is probably a 'bare minimum' list, so additional suggestions are good
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Weekend Plans
Posted:Jul 23, 2005 6:23 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2014 6:13 pm
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I started responding to LoyaltyandHonor's blog, but being tired i started rambling. So in order to spare his readers, i transferred it all over here. Does anybody else have fun weekend plans?

my weekend is ok so far. lonely, but that's normal. lol. Julyamsh is this weekend (Pow-wow), and I'm hoping to attend. i went last year. the grand entrance is amazing, as the tribal elders and 'royalty' and others come riding in on horseback. sadly i'll be attending by myself. everybody i've tried inviting are working. i'm hoping one particular merchant is there again this year. they had native american clothing patterns last year. i'm part nez perce... and ran into some indians about a month ago who came up to me and asked what tribe i'm from. some ppl say i look indian, some say german. lol. those seem to be my most noticeable features. and my 'french nose'. (sorry... rambling. past my bedtime). anyways... the woman (cherokee, her husb. nez perce) told me i should get myself a buckskin dress, and wear it proudly, as she feels i'd be very beautiful in it. honestly, i've always wanted one so i just might do that. but i would probably cheat and buy synthetic suede... lol. my step-dad's a hunter, but i'm not about to tan a hide myself (or pay somebody else to do so).

hmm... there is a free sunset concert at a local winery on sunday nights. i don't drink, but it's so very beautiful up there. it's on top of a hill and overlooks the surrounding area. Arborcrest winery. Unless i can conjure up company this time, I'll just go up with a book and relax for a few hours. it's very peaceful, even with 100 or so other people.

Otherwise, my weekend is spent just working and cleaning. My mom moved in with me last Sunday, and we spent Friday evening rearranging furniture, and hanging mirrors and pictures that i couldn't ever get by myself. Does anybody else love rearranging furniture? At least twice a year i just have to move everything. But the new setup is great, considering how much furniture and little space i have to work with.
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Can men and women be 'just friends?"
Posted:Jul 15, 2005 9:57 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 11:45 pm
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OK! Trying to think of what to write for my first post... So here's a question: CAN men and women be JUST friends?

When I first joined this site about a month ago, I had just given up friendship with a male friend to save his relationship with his g/f. if she was a bad g/f, i probably wouldn't have cared so much? But she's wonderful and i love her. The main problem with he and i being friends are two-fold: one, he's the first "good" relationship she's had (her ex was/is a TOTAL 'jerk' to put it mildly), and so due to low-self-esteem, she felt any other woman would cause her to lose him. two: he's my ex bf/lover (and never told her due to an earlier promise he'd made me). So in this situation, i can understand there being tensions to the friendship. i had to end it, though, bcuz he was talking in his sleep about a hope of us being 'together' again, and began chatting to me about it too. his g/f heard/read everything, was extremely angry/hurt/etc, and bcuz i DO love both of them, i removed myself from the picture. That caused a severe depression, as he was my BEST friend. and then i started thinking of ALL the male friends i have and have had... from high school till now, every male friend either wanted to go out with me, sleep with me, was in love with me, or any combination thereof. including married friends! but i get along better with men. so what to do? when i want to be able to be JUST friends. i want to be able to be friends without having to be constantly on-guard.

Possibly part of the problem is that i'm a touchy-feely person. Very VERY tactile, as my ex told me. "you can't keep your hands to yourself! nomatter how hard you try". male or female, i hug my friends. married or single. i've even hugged a few strangers on occassion, when they really really needed it.
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