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Books... Gotta Love 'Em
Posted:Dec 21, 2008 7:14 pm
Last Updated:Dec 21, 2008 11:02 pm
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Anybody that knows me, and half that don't, know I'm a bookworm.

Well... Last year, somebody (not on this site) decided to give himself a goal of reading 100 books in 2008. About a dozen other crazy people thought it was such a great idea, they signed up. (Yep: I'm one of them)

I just finished compiling my list: So far, I've read 107 books (not counting a couple skimmed books but not read word for word). And I currently have 3 in progress which I hope to finish this week.

What's the last book you read?
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What would you do on a Snow Day??
Posted:Dec 18, 2008 8:12 am
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2008 6:24 pm
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Half of Spokane city is closed, it sounds like. All the emergency calls are people stuck in the snow.. or with engine fires from being stuck and revving their engines.

I was all set to attempt the drive across town to work, but when I walked out of my apartment, my apartment manager turned off his snow-blower and told me "You aren't getting out with mess. Trust me. Call work and stay home". So I did. (My boss is going in, but said she'll be calling everyone else and telling them if they can't, don't worry about it).

Now I've got a full day ahead of me...

How would you spend a Snow Day?
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Sissy Boy
Posted:Dec 14, 2008 11:19 pm
Last Updated:Dec 17, 2008 8:59 am
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Well... I've done it now.

I have myself a sissy boy. At least, I'm seeing how it goes. Two days ago he came over, bringing an assortment of clothing for my perusal. I picked out an outfit... he changed into women's clothing. Then I told him to wash dishes.

My kitchen is spotless now. And him doing the dishes left me free to do a bit of cleaning elsewhere, and to sit and watch TV guilt-free.

I'm not into humiliating him though. I can't ridicule him for being a sissy boy. I'm too accepting of the idea of a man wearing women's clothing. I mean... if my boyfriend or similar interest were to suddenly start wearing girls clothing, i'd have a problem with it. And for sure, I hit the floor laughing once at work when a male customer drove through in a dress (I did wait until he pulled out of the drive thru, I stayed professional until then, but I lost it after that). But it doesn't do a thing for me, positively or negatively.

I can make him stand in the corner. And making him kneel with his nose in the corner... it wasn't so bad (he offered up a list of suggestions for humiliating him). And having him kneel at my feet while I watched TV was fine.

I think what I'm having the most trouble with, is that he's willing... and I can use the help cleaning. And as one "hubby" pointed out "You're being nice again for no reason!" ... I did let him be my sissy boy to be nice to him, even though I get nothing other than a clean house out of it.
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All I want for Christmas....
Posted:Dec 12, 2008 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2008 4:12 pm
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I've been singing "I'm dreaming of a tropical christmas" this past week... and today I heard the greatest song on the radio. I've decided it's my new favorite

All I Want For Christmas Is A Real Good Tan
(By Kenny Chesney)

Ooh, don't you think it's a pretty good plan
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan

All I want for Christmas is a real good tan
Take me to the islands; put my feet in the sand
Rockin' to and fro with the rhythm of the ocean
Singin' Silent Night with the palm trees blowin'
Ooh, don't you think it's a pretty good plan
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan

Well if you're thinking 'bout getting me a present this year
Let me put a buck in your cute little ear
How about two tickets to a tropical shore
Where we don't have to wear these winter clothes anymore
Instead of turkey we'll have mahai mahai grill
And pina coladas in the blender chill

And all I want for Christmas is a real good tan
Take me to the islands; put my feet in the sand
Rockin' to and fro with the rhythm of the ocean
Singin' Silent Night with the palm trees blowin'
Ooh, don't you think it's a pretty good plan
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan

While everybody's prayin' for a Christmas of white
Come to think about it, that'd be alright
As long as there's sand and not snow on the ground
And everyday our skin gets a little more brown
And we'll string some lights on a coconut tree
I'll rub some oil on you; you can rub some on me

All I want for Christmas is a real good tan
I can see us baby on the beach hand in hand
Rockin' to and fro with the rhythm of the ocean
Baby won't you say you and me, we'll be goin'
Ooh, I can almost feel my toes in the sand
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan

Don't worry baby, we'll celebrate plenty
I'll buy you some shades and a brand new bikini
We won't have to worry about the holiday rush
It'll be you and me fallin' deeper in love

Ooh, don't you think it's a pretty good plan
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan
All I want for Christmas is a real good tan


What do you want for Christmas?
I want a million dollar winning lottery ticket. lol.
And christmas sex... that would be great too
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What did you do today?
Posted:Dec 5, 2008 7:50 am
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2008 8:40 pm
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I found this on another site. It's silly, but reading the answers sure made me laugh

*****

What did you do today?

Pick the month you were born:

January-------I kicked
February------I loved
March--------I karate chopped
April----------I licked
May----------I jumped on
June----------I smelled
July-----------I did the Macarena With
August--------I had lunch with
September----I danced with
October-------I sang to
November-----I yelled at
December-----I ran over

Pick the day (number) you were born on:

1-------a birdbath
2-------a monster
3-------a phone
4-------a fork
5-------a snowman
6-------a gangster
7-------my mobile phone
8-------my dog
9-------my best friend s' boyfriend
10-------my neighbor
11-------my science teacher
12-------a banana
13-------a fireman
14-------a stuffed animal
15-------a goat
16-------a pickle
17-------your mom
18-------a spoon
19------ - a smurf
20-------a baseball bat
21-------a ninja
22-------Chuck Norris
23-------a noodle
24-------a squirrel
25-------a football player
26-------my sister
27-------my brother
28-------an ipod
29-------a surfer
30-------a llama
31-------A homeless guy

Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:

White---------because I'm cool like that
Black---------because that's how I roll.
Pink-----------because I'm crazy.
Red-----------because the voices told me to.
Blue-----------because I'm sexy and I do what I want
Green---------because I think I need some serious help.
Purple---------because I'm AWESOME!
Gray----------because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Yellow--------because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars
Orange--------because my family thinks I'm stupid anyway.
Brown---------because I can..
Other----------because I'm a Ninja!
None----------because I can't control myself!

.....Now type out the sentence you made
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Toronto Trip
Posted:Nov 9, 2008 6:48 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2008 8:40 pm
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Alright... somebody (playtime4u if I remember correctly) reminded me to share what all I did in Toronto.

Really... not much. Since I stayed in my friend's brother and sister in law's house, I didn't want to appear rude by just running all the time, especially as the brother was insisting on driving us. It was a house-full of people: bro/sil, their 3 , my friend, his mom and dad visiting from Amsterdam, and myself. Plus they rented their basement to a family (Mom, Dad, 2 daughters) and sometimes they were on the main floor visiting too.

My first night there, I went to a NaNoWriMo Kick-Off Party. We ended up getting there 3 hours late, and I was actually starting to get PO'd, when we finally got there. It was a lot of fun meeting people My 2nd day, everyone thought I needed rest to recover from jet-lag, so I wasn't able to get out of the house until well after dark, and then we went downtown and walked a while.

Most of what we did involved walking around ... by the pier, by the lake, downtown, around the neighborhood. Talking and visiting. I had wanted to go to the Museum but didn't quite make it. And I wanted to go up the CN tower, but just couldn't justify the expense... but it's already been discussed, the next time I go up there, I'm doing the tower. Actually most of my visit was spent worrying about money, knowing I wouldn't be allowed to spend any of my own (what little I had), and feeling guilty over other people spending money on me all the time.

It wasn't an eventful trip, at least in regards to "doing" stuff. But then I went to meet people... and that was definately accomplished And quite wonderfully. Next time I'll make sure to research "what to see and do" before travelling anywhere.

Oh: and I almost adopted a wild kitty that I named "Faith". Trust me to find and make friends with strange cats in a strange city.
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Home Sweet Home
Posted:Nov 8, 2008 7:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2008 6:31 pm
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I'm home... made it back safe and sound. I almost backed out of my trip at the last moment. When I woke up the day of my trip, my entire being just wanted to crawl back into bed and stay there a week. I wanted nothing more than to burrow beneath the blankets, cry, be depressed, and otherwise avoid the world. But it wouldn't be fair, cancelling like that for no reason, when he paid for the ticket. And I was excited up until I got the "freaked out Mom" call 2 days before.

I'm so glad I didn't back out. I had a great time! Toronto isn't anywhere near as bad as I imagined it would be (I'm not into big cities. My "home town" is 35,000 people). We went to Niagara Falls... THAT was awesome!! I'm now recommending everyone go there if they have a chance.

His family was great, they're the happiest people I've ever met in my life. His parents like me. (Actually, at one point his dad put his hand on my forhead, and said "We are your parents now! Call me "abu" and her (gesturing towards his wife) ami".

While in Toronto, I got to attend a traditional indian (India) wedding. I ate indian food all week, and learned how to cook a better chicken karhai. I also learned a few words of urdu and dutch. Okay: urdu... they tried teaching me dutch, but I couldn't quite catch the words. My ears need more practice.

As for the guy.... everything went great. As for the virginity thing I was worrying so much about... I'm guessing there won't be any problems if we go that far. There's definately a spark.
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Off on a Grand Adventure
Posted:Oct 27, 2008 6:07 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2008 6:30 pm
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Or least a mini adventure. October has just raced by... I'm now trying to cram a month or two worth of errands and projects into the last week... and then ....

I'm going to Toronto!!!

So, my plans to get to NY for Christmas probably won't pan out. But I'm getting to visit a friend in Toronto. We both wanted to meet eachother (sooner rather than later)... but he's not able to visit me at the moment. So he bought me a ticket so I can visit him. And I'll meet his parents who are visiting from Amsterdam. And his brother and his family. I'm nervous, excited, happy... and YAAAAAAAY!!! I get a vacation (Though I am trying to cram a 40 hour work week into 3 or 4 days to do it. I don't get a paid vacation until January)

But, between now and when I leave... I'm trying to weed all the junk out of my apartment. Get rid of all the excess stuff I've not used in years. Plus read about a dozen books, finish at least 2 (maybe 3) quilt projects, not to mention wash dishes (i pulled my sink apart and fixed it yesterday so I could do dishes today)... and laundry. Can't pack until laundry's done. And I still need to find my passport.

There are only a few dozen more things I'm wanting to get done before I leave. And the more I think, the more I come up with.

Does anybody know what fun things there are to do or see in Toronto??

This may be a life-changing event. Or... it may just be a vacation. Wish me luck

(Also: NaNoWriMo starts again November 1st)
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Are you voting?
Posted:Oct 20, 2008 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2008 7:35 pm
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Nevermind who you're voting for or why: but ARE you voting?

I received the most interesting email today... a certain online adult toy store that I've been receiving emails from had a link in the middle of their last email encouraging people to vote.

So: I clicked the link. It opened to another page and the photo had definate BDSM overtones. At least: it was a seemingly naked woman, tied up in black tape, with a strip across her mouth. Clicking on another link opened to the main page, which really was a legitimate register to vote site. (There was another picture/advertisement with the same woman in a Hannibal Lector style muzzle-thing).

It just really amuses me, that the sex sites are even encouraging people to get out and vote.
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A Question: Virgin Sex
Posted:Oct 15, 2008 12:35 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2008 7:35 pm
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Alright... I am too embarressed to ask an ex-lover this question, so I'm asking it here... (though he might still talk me into asking):

If you're an experienced sexual person, how do you go about being with a virgin? Experienced female with virgin male, since I know personally what it's like from the female side.

I'll be meeting a long distance friend at the end of this month... he's religious and still a virgin. I was hopeful of him when we first met online, we have many things in common (though many differences), but more: many shared dreams. I'm about convinced that I need to just sit myself down and get my mind and heart adjusted to being single the rest of my life. But: in the off-chance after meeting this guy and we *DO* click and *DO* decide to persue a relationship... it would be a permanent relationship, and no sex until we're married. But if we were married: I'd be in the situation of being experienced... and he's a virgin.

How much "training" does a virgin guy need? I am sure it differs for the individual. I'm terrified that I'll wind up married to a guy that feels sex twice a year is enough... and I'd be happy with once a night and twice on Sunday. Well: a few times a week, at least. And what if he's not adventurous? There's not necessarily any way for him to know unless he's tried it, is there? We did discuss this a little bit, in a generic blushing (on my part) sort of way.. he says "Don't worry about it".

Okay: I did end up asking my ex-lover... who said, regarding "...and what about my blindfold and whip? and bed ties?" ... His reply: "When he wakes up some morning blindfolded and tied to the bed, you can ask him if he likes it". made me laugh and it is a great way to find out. Much easier than "How on earth do I bring this up?"

Yes: I worry about silly things.

Goodnight, everyone!
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What's important to you?
Posted:Oct 3, 2008 8:15 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2008 9:48 pm
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I just had an argument with an online friend, over what men want in a relationship. What's important. He said sex in the top 2 priorities in a relationship/marriage to most men of the world, regardless of country or religion.

I was instantly PO'd... I believe sex is important in a relationship, but without all the other stuff: friendship, laughter, shared sense of adventure, love, intelligent conversation... all the "other stuff"... then sex just isn't worth a relationship. I mean: sex by itself is just sex, and won't make a relationship worth having.

Thankfully a few male friends were willing to share their opinions Made me feel much better.

And my friend shared a story about ... well, the gist of it being you most want what it is you don't have. He's married to a woman he's emotionally invested in.. she's intelligent, religious, has a very kind and loving heart, and he's happy in most ways--but not sexually. Thus, that's the #1 thing in his mind all the time. So... I can understand a little more and did get over being angry with him.

But now I want to do a friendly little poll.... thanks for bearing with me
Sex is the #1 priority in all my relationships
Sex is fun and all, but come on... it's just sex
Sex is not important in a lasting relationship
Sex ...? What's that?
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Robin Hood Moment
Posted:Sep 30, 2008 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2008 7:38 pm
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Remember the scene in the Robin Hood movies when he splits somebody else's arrow? (I'm assuming all Robin Hood movies have that scene... I can only remember the Disney version at the moment)

I had my very own "Robin Hood" moment today, when I was out at the archery range. I shot one arrow... and a moment later, my 2nd arrow hit the first, shattering it. Kinda cool in the "See how good I am?!" sense, though really it was just a fluke. Not cool at all in that I've now lost yet another arrow. It really did shatter. I also lost 2 in the weeds behind the target, so I broke down and bought 6 more arrows today.

15 years of archery and I used the same 12 arrows. 3 months at a normal range, and I've lost or broke half of them.

And after talking with the owner of the range today, I'm going to go ahead and sign up for their league sooner, rather than later. I thought I should get better before I join... but apparently part of joining are lessons for continuous improvement.
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Burns the Fire
Posted:Sep 30, 2008 10:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2012 11:13 pm
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A friend was just telling me that... the picture one chooses to represent him/herself... or the ones he/she saves to look at... shows a lot about the person's personality. I am curious what this one says about me? I first saw this a couple weeks ago... and fell in love with it.

He said: it shows how I want to dress and what I want to ride (the ). Perhaps, a bit.. I have been feeling crazy lately for wanting to go horseback riding. My dad owns horses but they are a special breed that has a special gait and special equipment and riders have to train special, too, to ride them properly. So i'm not sure I'd be welcome riding his horses, being totally ignorant of anything except "Get in the saddle and (hopefully) go".

This picture to me... is amazing. Fire, adventure, desire. Faith and Love. Barely restrained passion ready to consume. These are the feelings this picture inspires in me. And it makes my heart burn. And then... my body burn.

So here I am... burning in my heart, my soul, my body... said friend offered to blow on my heart. I reminded him that blowing on fire makes it hotter. His response? Depends on how hard you blow... though he does want to see the fire rise hotter in my heart.

Ya! A day of yearning and burning and no way of using up the energy.

What does this picture say to you? What pictures do you most find yourself drawn to?
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