Wow, how I have grown...
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Posted:May 1, 2009 7:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2009 7:14 am
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It amazes me how far I have cum in the last few months. How many things have gone from theoretical to reality. How many things have been put into perspective for me.
These days I have a very close fwb. She really is one of the best lovers and best friends I have every had. We have had some pretty amazing adventures together.
A while ago I found a blog that a lady had written about her and her hubby and how they feel about her activities outside of their marital bed. I wish I could remember the screen name of the lady who wrote it because I really think it perfectly sums up what it is that Im looking for also. I cut and paste it into a word file I liked it so much.
Here it is. Its perfect and its says it all more eloquently than I possibly could.
-->"I consider myself a lucky woman. I have an awesome husband, and I have never had a better relationship.
And both my husband and I enjoy me having a "sex friend" (or two..hehehe)
I think people in general may have a different idea of what this means than I do, so I hope to clarify our position....
I definitely do enjoy sex. And totally the best sex I ever have is always with my husband. But I do admit a certain erotic sensuality in playing with someone else occasionally.
I do have a LOT of fun when I am with a sex friend. I get very turned on and very much enjoy the sex. But it is afterwards, when I am thinking about how turned on hubby will be that I start getting really worked up.
So when I get it on with my husband after enjoying a sex friend we have such intense sex, that nothing can compare to it.
Really it is all about the intense eroticism I get to enjoy with my husband that makes me enjoy time spent with a "sex friend".
If my husband stopped liking it, I would have no problem at all being happy fucking Just him for the rest of my life.
To me a sex friend is someone whose company I enjoy. I like to visit, have a couple of drinks over some interesting conversation, have totally enjoyable erotic sex, and then go home to my hubby.
Being with a sex friend is in some strange way, mostly foreplay for both my husband and I. It is an extra eroticism that both my husband and I enjoy.
Basically a sex friend is a friendship based upon mutually enjoyable company and erotic sensuality with "no strings attached".
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