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Making the experience worthwhile.
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Posted:Dec 13, 2008 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Sep 11, 2021 3:40 pm
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One thing I've noticed over the last 7 years: This site is worse every time I come back. They seriously need to start a set of "Just for Friends" chat rooms. When I started, you could enter ANY room, say "Hello," and get greeted in return. Tell you what, create a new profile and don't tell ANYONE who you are. Then enter the rooms and try it. Make a male and a female profile. The female will get responses (because of all the men being ignored) while the male will not.
Then you can sit and watch the room regulars tell someone how "this is the best room on the service." *cough, cough*bullshit!*cough, cough*
Here's a clue for the "regulars": It's only the best room because you already know the other regulars. If they don't know you, they won't give you the time of day. It is EXTREMELY annoying to someone like myself who has been here longer than some of the "regs." I know several of those who've been here since the start who can tell you the same thing.
You people have gotten into your Cliques and totally lost the purpose of this site. In doing so, you are destroying it for those who just started. If I ran this site, (wonder how much they want for it??) I'd ban the lot of you from chat for a month. And You know who You are. Start a group and go there, or start being more friendly in "your" room.
To all those just starting: Don't give up. Make yourselves be heard. But don't be stupid or obnoxious. "Any ladies looking to fuck?!" is rightfully throwing you right in the "Iggy." That means you will never be heard from again. Your posts don't even show. Another tip for you, there are still 2 rooms in chat where you will be greeted if you just say "Hello" on entering. I leave it for you to find them and comment here which they are.
Best of luck Newcomers.
Grow up Regs.
I will bet you I've spent more time on the site and in the chats than 95% of those here even with my absences.
Shade and Sweetwater,
Treat
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The more things change...
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Posted:Jul 8, 2006 4:09 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2016 12:16 am
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Greetings and Salutations!
I don't know if I'll ever update this again, but what's life without a mystery?
I just decided to post my feelings on what I'm seeing here. I have been on VisionPersonals.com for several years now. I have met many people. Some wonderful. Some not. And MANY deceivers.
Not so different from the real world, is it? There are those who feign friendship to get close. It is so much easier to cause pain when you know someone. I have the misfortune to be one of those people who are honest. I am who I say I am. Yes I can play and act, but anyone who has been around me knows when I am.
I am reading more again lately of people who are hurt and whatnot by this site. TOO MUCH DRAMA! Hello? This is a Chat Site. It is a Virtual World. Do you people not understand what that means? It is a fantasy. As with any Good fantasy, there are most definitely elements of reality here. But to make this your Life???????
Give me a break.
When the Room becomes more real than reality, it's time to go folks. Get off the computer. Get out in the Real World. How can you possibly get so locked into this????
Don't get me wrong. I've been caught in this. I have friends around the world on this site or because of it. But it has never been Reality to me. The friendships are. The site isn't. But this site has caused some of the greatest pain in my life.
NEVER EVER bring a personal relationship to a chat room. Period.
I brought someone I cared for completely to this site. To meet my friends. To be able to find out about me. To find out about the world. To just plain have fun. What happened?
"Friends" destroyed it. "Friends" told lies. "Friends" did everything they could, up to and including fabricated posts from myself, to break it up.
I take breaks from here often. Especially when I see the Drama. I, personally, can't understand the need for drama in one's life. There is enough trouble actually out there. Why the Hells would you make more up??? And why do so many then buy into it?
Yup. The more things change............
Shade and Sweetwater y'all.
Treat
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