How to handle me
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Posted:Sep 29, 2018 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2024 2:11 pm
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Well, I've learned a bit from other people's profiles, and the ones I appreciate most, even when they appear to exclude me, are those that state explicitly what that person(s) do and don't want in partners and outline the process by which a meet/invite can be had. Often there is an explicit request for civil respect, courtesy, and decency. I like it, love it, and respect it.
One thing I have noticed about myself is that when I make the decision to engage sexually, there is little or no internal drama, and I haven't been overwhelmed by lust. The actual touching has created those feelings for me. I didn't have tortuous waves of guilt. I knew what I wanted to avoid: STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and abusive relations.
I have no problem engaging in safe sex and accept the responsibility for good hygiene and sexual health under a doctor's care (the same doc who would prescribe Viagra or Cialis for me). I would also try to learn best practices from the people I played with. A simple rule is to make sure the ground rules are known and shared: Your house, your rules.
So, when you contact me, say what you mean. Don't linger on niceties, but politely pave a straight road to what you want to say. I will not make inferences to fill in what you could have written. My schedule can be made quite flexible in order to make a first and subsequent meets. I'll inconvenience myself as much as I want.
Although my wife knows I am exploring, I cannot host for a number of family reasons. Inanimate family reasons and a who lives at home. So, if you can't host, we can work around hotel/motel rooms. I am willing to bear that cost on occasion. Treat for dinner, too. If you're the outdoor type, we can go camping...in a tent...and I can cook.
Distance. Ideally, the closer the better, and it can enhance my flexibility and be more easily inserted into a pattern of normalcy, which I would love to establish. That does not mean that I wouldn't travel either for an initial meet or for an event. My schedule can be made flexible...and I like to travel. Even then, I think my range has to be measured in hundreds instead of thousands of miles.
Sexual orientation. Yes, I'm bisexual. No, gents, you are not in automatic danger if you stand near me or look me in the eye. I spent most of my life not touching other men intimately, and being bisexual, I can happily focus my attention on your wife or partner or whatever woman we are both interested in. Your house, your rules. However, if your profile says bi or bi-curious, I might be testing, verbally first.
If I like your profile, I might just write you a message to compliment you. I'm beginning to write messages that express my interest.
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Who am I?
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Posted:Sep 1, 2018 9:22 am
Last Updated:Sep 1, 2018 8:04 pm
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The man who learned to get unexcited. lol. No, not a positive advertisement, and not a condition that I asked for. And yet, in recent years, I am genuinely surprised when I find myself rock hard. I can get excited while looking at some of the profiles on this site, which I believe is the point. It works.
Some of those surprising erections came when looking at porn featuring bisexual threesomes (and more) and Brazilian T-Girls, some of them quite beautiful. Okay, that supports my declaration of being bisexual. Officially, I'd have to say that I lost my virginity to my best bud at the age of 11, probably later, but that's when the blow jobs started. He could show passion with his mouth, and I could get hard in anticipation, even with my sleeping younger brother in the room.
But I did and do like women, but it seems that I also like threesomes and more, just from the messages that my body has given me...and "they" do say that you should pay attention to your body. And by this time, I very much want to, and that's why I am exploring on this site as a confirmed member.
I am in no rush to do anything. If I like your profile, I will write and tell you so, not expecting you to show an immediate interest, or ever. I am laid back and can accept whatever comes my way from (half-way) interested people. I am interested in enhancing my life, not in replacing it. Finding friends who do not demand your time, but definitely enjoy your time would be ideal.
So, I have bisexual memories of exciting folks and bringing them to a climax, the women, not my buddy, unfortunately. I know where to find the nerve endings. Skin on skin is my favorite, but I am good listener and can be very accommodating the needs and desires of others, as mutually acceptable. No rejection, just some caution and wisdom.
I can write, I can read, and I can talk. I am very oral and good with my hands. What I need is to bring my dick up to speed...to actually discover what the current speed is. The Doc will supply me with the proper pills, but I need a reason to have them.
Okay, physically, I am 5 feet, 8-9 inches. About 190 lb. I work out 3 times a week. I am not rotund. I look pretty good from the back. Full frontal, you can tell there is something out of balance, but go profile...and I have a belly.
I am working on the size of it, but the shape is going to stay slightly protruding, even if smaller. I have hair. Most of that will stay. I am not opposed to making genitals a little smoother. I could take the time to trim, but not keen on shaving (would love to have some help with that, lol). I do not come in swinging a big dick, and so I have no dick pics. On a good hard day, it would be between 5 and 6 inches in length and 5 inches in circumference.
Okay, weary reader, we are nearing the end. I am on this site, because I see people enjoying themselves, the way I would have liked to enjoy long before this. I like the idea of having dinner with a good looking couple that I can admire, laugh with, and please, without getting shot or beat up. I take my time and enjoy the journey. I am comfortable in my own skin. TTYL
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