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Posted:Jan 7, 2010 6:57 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 5:45 pm
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Ok so I keep seeing and hearing the debate over BBW, plus sized, fat, obiese, etc classifications of people, especially women.
Is it just me, or is anyone else really tired of people labeling others without understanding what is going on with that person?? if you have EVER read my blogs b4 you know I call it like I see it, and have no issue telling anyone what I think.
I freely admit, that I am tall (hellooooooo I am 6 ft) and I am "BBW" or "plus-sized" for a woman. But to be perfectly honest, anyone who knows me, understands that I will never be like my little sister and be a size 10 or 8. That is just NOT in my makeup. I might get down a size, maybe two, but that is really the best I am going to do. I have no problems with being a plus sized 34 year old woman.
What I have the issue with is all the negative comments I have to hear from other people. I mean really, is it just me or can people NOT read my profile and see where it says this is who I am??? What else am i supposed to do to weed out those that are interested from those that are assholes???
Anyone have any ideas??
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Great Time
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Posted:Jun 17, 2012 7:59 pm
Last Updated:Jul 22, 2012 5:25 pm
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this weekend when a great guy came over and hung out with me for a bit. Laid back and relaxed, talked, watched a movie, had a beer, and spent some time together.
Gotta say it was pretty nice. Was hoping for a beach day today, but no go. Thinking I need to get a lounge chair to sit outside on the weekends soaking up some sun and reading a book. Would love to be able to grab my beach bag and go to the beach for a few hours next weekend, but no way to get there and no one to go with.
Right about now I need to get my own wheels so that I can go hit the beach regularly. A really nice bike would be great too. Take off for a nice ride on the weekends.
Hoping this is the start of a great summer for me. Beach time, cooking, reading, relaxing......now if only there was somewhere I could go walking close to the house.
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Sorry I was MIA. I want...........
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Posted:Jun 13, 2012 8:25 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2012 6:03 am
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sooooooooo needless to say I have been MIA again lately.
Life decided to look at me, use that evil little laugh it has, and start fucking with me again.
Was supposed to be more relaxing and less stress living here in Florida, and that has been anything but the case.
Just got back from a trip up north to WI for nephews graduation and to see the fam for the first time in 7 1/2 months. That part was good, the rest of the trip though, SUCKED big time!
So needless to say, due to the stress, lack of transportation, availability to have company over, I have been saintly lately. Yeah I am totally hating on that one. Thinking right about now, I just need to have that great guy that calls/texts me to be ready for a small trip and he will pick me up Friday night and have me back early enough on Sunday. Then he takes me away, fucks me so well that I feel it for the next week; he pampers me; and just makes me feel special. Thinking about it makes me grin and bite my lower lip. Randomly i get these messages on my phone reminding me of what a great time we had. I crawl into bed and I swear I can smell him on my pillows and in my bed. Turns out he made sure he "accidentally" got some cologne on my clothes I wear to relax in, and even on my granny nightgown that I wear.
Yeah, that is what I need right about now. If I can't have all that, dinner, a walk on the beach, a few hugs, some great kisses, and the knowledge that he thinks I am gorgeous and wants me as much as I want him.
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Besties...we all have them
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Posted:Apr 7, 2012 6:37 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2012 7:08 pm
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After reading this great post from Wordsmith2004 (love the story hun, ty for sharing), I decided to post and ask you the same question.
My best friends are two men that I am grateful to have in my life. My Cane and My Rooster. That is what I call them, hell my family even calls them Cane & Rooster.
Rooster has known me for 11 years and was there for me when I needed him most. He is always there to cheer me on, support me, and even though we don't talk much, I always know he is there for me anytime I need him. I email him regularly when I need to "talk" to him. Even though he doesn't reply (he knows I don't need that), I know he is reading them and loves me still.
The second, Cane (aka Candy Cane to my niece when she was younger) is the man that i will never forget. He helped heal me when no one else could. He was also the man that was there when I had a horrible accident (he was there, sleeping in the bed as it wasn't his turn to drive yet) and should have died. He was the one that called my family, down played what happened, and still took care of me and made sure i was always ok. Five years later, he is still there taking care of me even though we haven't seen each other in almost 4 years.
They are the two best friends I could ever ask for when it comes to my guys.
Who's your best friend?
How long have you been friends?
Do you still keep in touch?
What is the best thing about their friendship?
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My List
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Posted:Mar 24, 2012 6:58 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2012 11:41 am
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I can't be the only woman here that has a list of "requirements" for a man/woman that you are possibly going to hook up with. Some are short and sweet, others are more drawn out, and then there are some that want a walking Barbie/Ken doll that isn't going to be upset when all they want is a quick fuck so they can get their rocks off.
I spell it out I think pretty well on my blog as to who I am, what I am looking for, and what I want. I am not looking for anyone or anything real extreme.
Looking to meet people in the area (that means someone I can see more then once possibly) and not interested in someone traveling through for vacation. Yes I am a bbw, however that doesn't make me desperate or willing to fuck just anyone.
I honestly am attracted to a man that is tall, has a great smile, can make me laugh, loves and family, loves to travel, willing to make a fool of himself, likes to have fun, and likes a woman that is the same.
Tattoos are a MAJOR turn on for me. Piercings are fabulous. Soft kisses, soft touches, stroking touches, pulling me into your arms and devouring my lips......all things that make me moan.
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Beach
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Posted:Mar 24, 2012 8:39 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2012 3:52 pm
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All I want is a nice weekend lazing at the beach, someone to spend time with there, someone special rubbing lotion into me so I don't burn, holding hands walking through the water, laying down on my blanket reading a book, leaning over to give him a kiss.....can't help but hope that this great dream does come true.
Was hoping that special someone was the man I met at the beginning of the month. Turned out, not going to be him as he doesn't seem to be able to respond to me and let me know what the hell happened.
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Pictures
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Posted:Mar 17, 2012 9:11 am
Last Updated:Jul 4, 2013 9:24 am
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So I know that there are standard members that can't view my pictures. So I have decided to help and post some of them here for you to look at as well. Feel free to leave comments
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"I Miss You"
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Posted:Mar 14, 2012 7:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 15, 2012 4:10 am
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This song just seemed to fit me the last 24 hours and counting. It is exactly what I am feeling. One meet, and now that he is gone, all I can say is "I miss you"
(lyrics by Klymaxx...totally 80's hit but still its me right now)
I hope he reads this and knows that this is meant to try and express my feelings right now. I can only hold onto the hope that he does in fact call or text me, and tells me he is sorry to have hurt me, and can't wait to try and make it better.
VERSE ONE
Thought I heard your voice yesterday
Then I turned around to say that I loved you
then I realized
that it was just my mind
playing tricks on me....
It seems colder lately at night
and I try to sleep with the lights on
Everytime the phone rings
I pray to God it's you
I just can't believe (just can't believe)
That we're through...
CHORUS
I miss you (I miss you...)
Theres no other way to say it
And I, And I can't deny it.
I miss you (I miss you...)
It's so easy to see
I miss you and me........
VERSE TWO
Is it done and over this time?
Can we ever change our minds?
But it's our first love...
all the feelings that we used to share...
I refuse to believe that you don't care.
CHORUS
I miss you (I miss you...)
Theres no other way to say it
And I,And I can't deny it.
I miss you (I miss you...)
It's so easy to see
I miss you and me........
BRIDGE
I've got to gather my senses together (Gather)
I've been through worse kinds of weather
If it's over now (over now)
be strong (be strong)
I can't believe that you're gone...
I've got to carry on.
CHORUS
I miss you (I miss you...)
It's driving me crazy
I don't want to live without you.
I miss you (I miss you...)
It's so easy to see
I miss you and me............
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suddenly.....
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Posted:Jan 21, 2012 3:24 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 3:52 pm
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.....everyone wants to get in touch with me. Makes me wonder what changed. I went from if I was lucky, 1 email a week, to I am getting multiple emails a day at times.
Didn't change anything on my profile really. Didn't add any pictures or anything special. Maybe I am finally in an area of the country where there are real men who don't mind a woman with some meat on her bones (no matter what any haters say, I am truly not that fat, I am honest).
Maybe there is hope for me yet. Makes me wonder what could possibly happen in the future. Maybe my birthday this year won't be a total bomb. Hell maybe if I am really lucky, there will be someone to call when I do go back "home" to visit my family.
Thinking this might have to be documented and let all you "followers" (read stalkers j/k) know what happens. Have a few months to go until the birthday gets here. Let's see what happens.
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New Years
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Posted:Dec 26, 2011 12:39 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2011 11:14 am
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Ok so new years is in a week, I am new to Jax area, and have no plans and no idea as to where to go or what to do.
Would love to have someone to spend the time with. Anyone have any ideas for a single lady as to a place to go to have some fun on new Years Eve and not be a freak for being alone??
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All I want for Christmas.......
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Posted:Dec 15, 2011 9:05 pm
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2011 12:36 pm
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hehehehehe
Yeah don't you wish I would tell you what I wanted for Christmas. That would be too easy. So tell me, what do you think I want for Christmas???
Hmmmmmmmmmmm....wanna guess and see if you get it right???
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Gotta Love some people
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Posted:Dec 11, 2011 11:00 am
Last Updated:May 25, 2024 3:52 pm
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This is the email I received:
From:
NAME*****
here to fuck someone...
38 year old Man, Miami, Florida, United States
Date: 12/10/2011 6:09 pm EST
Subject: you are ugly
Body of the email: you are fat
And yet his profile is so horribly written that its comical:
Introduction
I love all type of weman, I need to fuck one as soon as possible, why is it so hard to find one. can you please help me someone please are you out there,I love sex is beautifull but after a while it needs a change that's how I feel right now. I repete, I love weman all shapes all color all race please give me a chance to meet you it may be the best experience you and I will ever have in this life time.
My Ideal Person: everyone is Ideal as long you and I have an agrement a consentual sexual friendship.
Wow, gotta say i love some people here. Cause that email was going to upset me, let alone get me all upset. Seriously all I could do was laugh, then laugh even harder when I read his profile
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Playmate Needed
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Posted:Nov 24, 2011 7:16 am
Last Updated:Dec 8, 2011 9:31 pm
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Ok, so after being in FL for about 5 weeks, I have to come to realize I need a playmate that I can get together with regularly. One downside is I can't host as I have a roommate. Second issue is that I don't have a car here in FL as it broke down before I moved.
If you are interested, here are a few requirements to be my playmate:
1. No more then 10 years younger
2. Prefer not more then 10 years older
3. Prefer not married, unless your wife knows you are playing
4. Like BBW
5. Can host
6. At this time, willing to pick up and drop off
7. Willing to spend time with me outside of the bedroom
8. Not ashamed to be seen in public with me
9. Please be LOCAL
If you would like to be considered, please leave a comment. Know that safe sex is required, and just because we set up a meet, that doesn't mean we are going to have sex.
Please have recent pictures available, I do. Please have a face picture available to share, I do. Finally, don't lie to me or
stand me up. I tend to not give a second chance.
Finally, let's be honest. I don't have to have a man in my life as I can take care of things myself, however it is great to have a man around to help 
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