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Well, I don't know if that was such a smart title but what the hell... I am not really sure where to begin or where this blog will take me.
I guess I should start with a little more about myself than I put on my profile. I like to put my thoughts to paper so to speak and at times I a sure I will offend. But I don't really care, opinions are like assholes and everyone has one.
With that said I welcome any and all comments just remember that I have the right to return comment and most likely will.
I have been told that I am passionate, quirky, loving and funny and oh yeah moody. Am I well to find out you will have to get to know me. I am real and if you don't think so well then move on sucka your wasting me time. Alot of the times my blogs will be about my life activities, especially sex but occasionally I may blog about something like I don't know erotica. I am a very sexual person and I am not ashamed of that, if I were why would I be on "The World's Largest Sex..." you get the picture. Oh and also, although I don't know why I am wasting my time because the assholes usually don't read blogs, but if I am not interested that means I AM NOT INTERESTED!!!!
I look forward to meeting some fun people here and hope i won't be disappointed.
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Slowing down
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Posted:Dec 16, 2012 11:00 am
Last Updated:Feb 4, 2013 3:48 pm
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Lately I have been slowing down on this site and not being as active. This has given me the opportunity to focus on a few select people and get to know them better.
That pretty much has been an epic fail with few exceptions. What it has taught me was being a bitch is OKAY. Because the one's who think, say I am being a bitch are just the people I want to stay clear of, they don't like or are not willing to accept the fact that I am forward and upfront. And that I value my and work over them.
I had taken the time to email,IM, and text with some and it has been a waste of time. When it comes time to meet they bail. I don't know how to be much more clear about my situation and what is and isn't acceptable.
I am a single mom, I work full time,whom loves sex, but cannot always host nor be available on a whim.
During this journey I have had to edit my profile too many times to recall, gotten to the point where I don't even bother answering some emails (most of you know I try to answer each and everyone).
My patience is shot, from the shitty holidays and the assholes I have encountered on this site lately. Sadly any "Innocent" looking to have unadulterated fun may be eaten alive or at the least come out of it severely scarred.
I know some asshole is going to comment and tell me I am being a whiner but what I say to that..."Get the fuck over it. Its my blog and I chose to post what I want." Everyone is human and no one shits and farts rainbows everyday.
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The reason guys have such a hard time
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Posted:Nov 9, 2012 8:41 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2012 7:04 am
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Here is a perfect reason why guys have such a hard time on here trying to get women to talk to them...
Hi, you can ignore my last email and not reply back. I did read your full profile and you are hilarious.. Angry bossy bitchy and hot.. Well not hot, but I bet you wish I said you were hot. There must be a 10,000 guys to 1 ratio for you to be writing a profile like that. I would assume you didn't get laid in high school much and are on top of the world in here only due to desperate freaks who will f anything.. I've been on here a day and this site suck. No thanks to you...
That was an email I just received from some jack ass...
I am an angry bossy bitch... I am aware of the ratio dumb ass!
Get laid in high school none of your damn concern.
I am on top of the world due to DESPERATE FREAKS who will fuck anything...
Well there you have it guys! I'm in love! I have found my match!
Geez!!! Why do guys think they have it so hard?
Here is a perfect example!
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Profile Pics
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Posted:Oct 31, 2012 8:32 am
Last Updated:Nov 14, 2012 8:33 pm
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How often should you change your profile pic? I try to update mine as much as I can, especially since I change my hair color more than a goes through shoes. But how often...
I tend to have a memory like a sieve until it comes to ppl who have blown me off in the past. I will remember a face til the day I die, names... forget it!
Lately I have been getting emails from guys who a)seem to suffer from amnesia because they don't remember me, b)are saying sorry for being a dick, c) I have changed in the past few years and they don't recognize me.
Its sometime funny and often irritating when a guy emails me and tries to hit on me not realizing we have chatted, talked, fucked before. Especially when they are still posting a pic from 4 yrs ago!
At times I will play dumb and act like I never talked to them just to see what their game is, but most of the time the Heartless Wench rears her pretty little head and speaks for me. Once a guy emailed me, he had been trying to im me on this site and of course I didn't get the messages because.... I'M NOT ON INSTANT MESSENGER! It was funny, he said he tried to IM me and didn't get a response so he decided to email me and attach a pic so I knew who I was chatting with. My respsonse... I know who you are I decided since I was not worth your time before you are not worth mine now. OH and BTW get an updated pic, I know this one is two yrs old! Funny he didn't email me back... I wonder why? Hahahaha
So back to my question how often should you update your pic, oh course yourdick pic isn't included...
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Views, Hot list, and Flirts
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Posted:Oct 20, 2012 8:53 am
Last Updated:Oct 29, 2012 3:12 pm
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170073 Total views since 8/21/2007
73 Flirted with You in the past 30 days.
53 Hotlisted You in the past 30 days!!
7628 Matching Views in the past 30 days
How many of you pay attention to these three activities?
I don't not who's viewing me at least... I do go and look to see who has hot listed me, not because I think I'm hot but because I know this is one way for standard members to contact.
Why am I writing about it? Well, a friend of mine was following how many of these occurred and was talking with me about it, needless to say they were amazed at the phenomena.Yes they were new to the site and didn't really understand the intricate workings of here but none the less it struck a cord with me and sent me off on my quest.
I have been on and off here for close to 6 yrs. I took a hiatus more than once (adding up to approx two yr break)With that being said I averaged it out I get approx 100 views a day.
The flirts and hot list are more accurate since they get deleted every 30 days... 73 flirts, 53 hot list, not too shabby... But you still have to carry on a conversation with someone and yes the dreaded first meet... Which can be a great thing, I just say dreaded because I have a fear of rejection.
Although I get this many I don't see myself as any better than anyone else on this site.
How do you feel and what do you think about this?
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Stupid things we do when in love
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Posted:Oct 3, 2012 10:13 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2012 6:47 pm
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I did a really stupid thing recently and it caused my already damaged heart to get destroyed once again. Before I begin my rant I would like to share something a dear friend of mine sent to me...
Lustful who's big heart and nurturing nature makes her vulnerable to....those of us who are...not quite right in the head and heart......I include myself in there because I am mentally/emotionally wounded by 24 yrs of bad marriage. just because I've taken a stand behind a shield and continue to bleed out silently doesn't make me right...just different than most.
He wrote this to me after a man (what a joke a boy) I fell in love with destroyed me for the last time.He is not someone I met from this site, to expect a relationship from someone here is just kidding yourself.
So where I want to go with this is still unclear but I will start with referring to another blog I recently posted. I am often curious as to why guys think they can contact me after leaving with no warning or a warning at all...
You met someone you really like, great have a nice life! Don't expect me to wait around for you to break up. Now there seems to be a lot of guys that seem to think I will. I have been nice in the past but that is going to change. I have a tag to live up to and she is coming out in full force, beware!
Why is it that guys think they can pull such bullshit? Is it because of my nurturing nature that men/boys take advantage of me?
Or think they can? I am angry, frustrated, and hurt right now and if just one guy reads this and takes it to heart I hope to prevent someone else from enduring the shit I went through.
I will be the first to admit I lose touch with people from here unintentionally and I understand that, its when you blow someone off because you meet someone "better" that pisses me off!
Here is a bit of a letter I have been working on in my head for the one that broke my heart numerous times...
You came back into my life asking me for forgiveness of your previous actions. I let you back in, only to have you behave the same if not worse. You wanted me back but you were always looking around the corner for someone, something better. You hurt me in more ways then you will ever know or admit. I feel like I am always second best because of how I was treated. I hope you have all the happiness you can handle, I love you and always will but this has got to end.
That's its so far, I am sure there are other things I want to say that are much more evil in nature but they are still brewing in my head and they will come out eventually.
So I guess the point of this blog is... guys when you disappear, bail, blow someone off, whether from this site or anyplace else you met. You are making them feel like they are never good enough, that there is always someone, something better around the corner... Its not a great feeling to be on the receiving end of such a message.
So if you have blown me off because you met someone whom you deem better than me and think you can come back to me until the NEXT BEST THING comes along, forget it. I would waste my time with you just to do the same to you but then again I wasn't worth your time, you are not worth mine!
I am learning from my mistakes and right now its not a positive learning experience but such is life.
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Time to vent!
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Posted:Sep 23, 2012 9:36 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2013 8:27 pm
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I am sure I have bitched about this before and soooo wish VisionPersonals.com would allow me to post handles here but alas they won't. Perhaps I can find a way to creatively include it...
This guy was emailing me wanting to "get to know me." Pretty much behaving like a needy . BTW Tommy is 49... Just more proof to my theory that men at any age act childish!
After numerous emails a day with him stating he is trying to get to know me he gets in a snit because I told him, which you all know I did not HIDE... I have a boy toy, booty call what have you. He sends me what I think was meant to be an insulting email lol... Let me see if this thing will allow me to paste and cut.
Ah ha it does! Here is the first email he sent me a few mins ago...
really i thought with your you needed someone not just a fuck i came here for the rirst time not knowing what to expect but i thougt you were looking for a fuck buddie and a friend but after your email i looked there is no way i would ever cum on that big as body or i would would ever tell anyone i thougt with your you were looking for a friend
And the second...
look i am not for anything but sex you wanted a friend with benifites but your looking for someone to take over when your boytoy aint there thats not me i am better iwas not looking for any thing but sex.
Hmmm take over when my boytoy is not here... friend with benefits (yes notice the correct spelling)... Why the hurt feelings tommy from windsor? You yourself state you are looking for sex... I openly told you as well as its stated on my profile am looking for a friend with benefits situation!
I think its time Tommy grew up! Learned how to properly spell and read! What do you ya'll think?
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Out of the Blue Balls
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Posted:Sep 22, 2012 8:12 am
Last Updated:Sep 24, 2012 5:56 pm
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Why is it that men come back after months even years of not contacting me? Is it I have the amazing pink taco, or do they think I am sitting home waiting to hear from them? Sorry guys I have a boy-toy who if I could lock in my closet I would be off this site and even he learned the hard way I wait for no one!
It blows me away when someone from the past contacts me out of the blue. Sometimes its entertaining to play with them like a cat toying with a mouse,others I get that "old flame sentimentality" about, and some I am down right bitchy! For the most part it depends on how we ended things.
Case in point:
I met a guy who travels for work. He was in Colorado for a day, we went to lunch, had AMAZING sex! Kissed him goodbye and off he went. I didn't have any intention of hearing from him but lo and behold, he text me the other day! He is trying to make it back to Colorado and wants to see me. We met 4yrs ago! He said I have been on his mind and whenever someone mentions my state he thinks about me. Ok, he is the sentimental flame lol!!! No romance just the great sex! 
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You meet someone hit it off, you lose touch. This happens to me at times I think because I am very busy and so is my partner. Also, because I was raised Old School and have wayyyyy too many male friends! (Not sex partners.) They would often forget I am a woman(I know hard to believe, think it was the breast binding and the mustache that did it,(not really) and start talking guy talk about women and the things they do that annoys them or the bullshit they would pull to get rid of someone. So I will NOT call,text, or email a guy in most cases without invitation or provocation. This has worked in and out of my favor, I feel if a guy is interested he will contact me, and I have had guys say the door works both ways... Oh well, if a guy from this scenario contacts me, I am nice until I find out the reason we lost touch.
Then comes...
Scenario 3:
I meet a guy go out for drinks,have sex, he asks if he can see me again. Great sex was good I'm down to see him again.We make plans,
he blows me off. No worries I have back up plans shit head your deleted. This was almost a year ago. He contacts me here on VisionPersonals.com, Hi how are you, how's it going...Blah, Blah,Blah. My reaction..."who the fuck are you?" Of course I ask him politely, "have we chatted before?" His response yes we did went out for drinks,had sex." Bell goes of in my head... You asshole! I remember you! I ask, "What happened, we were supposed to meet again?" He says, "LOL yeah I started seeing someone." He seemed to think it was ok to leave me hanging and I should be ok with it. I so wanted to say, "Don't you think the courteous thing to do would have to been to at least email me and say, 'Hey I met someone...' But I didn't, I'm still deciding my plan of attack! The HEARTLESS WENCH has been emerging the past few weeks he may be the first victim of her wrath. LOL
So when is it ok to act like an ASS and then try to hook up with me?
Where does it state its ok to blow someone off and have the balls to try and fuck them again?
Guys how would you feel if a girl did this to you? Be honest would you do this to a woman? Would you expect her to give you the time of day afterward?
Would you try and contact a woman after not seeing her for a few months, years? Have you? How did it turn out?
What would make you try and hook up with someone after not communicating for a month,year,5 yrs?
Is it the amazing pink taco, my sparkling personality, stupidity, loneliness, or fear of blue balls?
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Cougarism
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Posted:Sep 12, 2012 10:17 am
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2013 8:30 pm
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I know I have written about age differences before but for the life of me can't remember what I wrote nor can I find the blog lol!
So I apologize in advance if this is repetitive...
As some of you know I tend to attract younger men. I do not go to the local high school and troll for 18yr old guys... No matter where I am they seem to be attracted to me.Work, clubs, parties, grocery store, (not kidding), here... I used to think it was the MOMMY fetish but learned its not.
I have been told its because a mature women know what they want, don't play games and well are mature lol.
I really don't know how a 48yr old is supposed to behave or look. I am just me and love sex. Love to have fun. I don't party all the time, work full time and take care of my .
The "cubs" I am with we usually spend time out of the bedroom, go out to dinner, drinks, what have you...
They need to be able to carry a mature conversation and know how to act like an adult.Trust me I know quite a few men older than me that can learn a thing or two from these cubs!
So recently I was talking to a cub who made first contact with me,
bailed on our meet then asked for another chance and then bailed again saying he had second thoughts. That's fine but the remainder of the conversation was insulting to me and made me question my choices...
Why do younger men aka cubs chose older women? Do you have a mommy complex? You do realize I am old enough to be your mother! What is the turn on? Do I look like what you envisioned a 48yr old to look like do I look younger and is that why you are not worried about age? Is it that you don't have the societal hang up about age?
I have to admit what this person said to me really hurt and made me feel wrong for who I am and what I do... I know I shouldn't have felt that way because he is just one out of so many who ask to "date", fuck,whatever me...
So to all you cubs out there... what is it about a cougar that attracts you, turns you on? Do you think the guy that said insulting things to me gives you a bad name? Maybe he was attracted to the thought of being with an older woman and got scared?
What do you think?
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Auditory Voyeursim
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Posted:Sep 7, 2012 8:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2012 9:43 am
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What is Auditory Voyeurism? A new word or phrase to define when someone listens in on a conversation that is sexually stimulating.
This phrase came to life yesterday while I was with a friend driving and talking on the phone. His comment was that was stimulating and he called it Auditory Voyeurism.
He said it was exciting to hear me on the hunt again. Yes he has witnessed my hunting skills in the past and yes he was once my prey lol!
So this brings to light a question... Have you ever been an auditory voyeur? Whether accidentally or intentionally? What was your reaction to the conversation? Offended, turned on, jealous, embarrassed?
In this day and age with cell phones being a necessary staple I believe many of us have been in this situation. I know from the past using public transportation I have had some experience with it. Some amusing, others down right annoying. How do you react? Especially if you know from the gist of the conversation that someone is making plans to meet? This doesn't have to pertain to strangers as in my case it was a close friend... You could be at a party or meet and greet...
What do you think of the term Auditory Voyeurism?
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Cancelling and/or changing plans
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Posted:Sep 5, 2012 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2013 8:33 pm
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Have you ever made plans with someone from VisionPersonals.com and had to cancel or change them? How did it go?Did they get pissed off and tell you off? Were they understanding of your situation?
Have you ever been cancelled on? Someone bail on you?
Today I had to cancel a play date for the 2nd time. I feel absolutely terrible about it! The reason was for medical/female issues and partially due to his preference.Not everyone wants to earn their wings...
So anyway, how do you react when someone cancels or reschedules? Do you get upset and delete them, label them a tease or a flake? Or are you understanding and realize that things do come up?
I try to be understanding, one thing I do not tolerate is being stood up. I took the time to meet you and you didn't have the courtesy to text, call, email to let me know you weren't coming! You just wasted my precious time that I could have been using to meet someone else!
Depending on my mood at the time of the cancellation I will usually be understanding. If you bail on me and then try to see me again I will tell you how I feel and usually it will be in a somewhat intelligent although possibly abrasive way. i have been known to cut people down using words and they were none the wiser.
Some say I am too nice, others say I am too impatient.
So what do you do when someone cancels/reschedules? Are you understanding, or do you immediately write them off?
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How do you handle...
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Posted:Aug 26, 2012 7:46 am
Last Updated:Sep 22, 2012 7:30 am
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How do you handle certain situations...
Are you direct and to the point, do you try to candy coat it to make the person feel better, do you just avoid the situation all together and ignore the person?
I have to admit I am guilty of all of the above but in my search of improvement for self preservation am taking the direct approach from here on in.
Case in point... Met a guy from here, told him I just wanted sex. he is new to the area, hot, and young. He will not be stay for long.
He told me I was wrong. LIE!!!!
He has shown some disturbing behaviors that have caused me to turn my back and walk away...
This is how I feel and what I want to say to him but think it may be a bit too harsh...
When we met I thought you were a nice guy, possibly someone I could have a long FWB situation or Fuck buddy at least. At our first encounter I began to see things that didn't sit too well with me. You are a bit cocky and showed signs of a player.
Don't get me wrong I don't care that you are cocky but don't think you can play me! I was taught by the best!
The first time you made excuses about not contacting me sooner than later, I sensed the Player emerging.I called you out on it and went on the defensive. (rightfully so or so I thought).
I took you back without much recourse because sex with you is amazing. Then we discovered I had a health issue. Others asked of my health you didn't. Not only didn't you, you seemed to ignore me. Something I don't take kindly to...
You asked me for help and I offered it to you.
I asked you a question out of curiosity and you took offense to the question. My guess is you read into why I was asking and not what.Big mistake!
As I get to know you I realize you are nothing but a punk. You have an over inflated ego, don't/won't work a regular job, you act like an impetuous , take advantage of my kind heart and generosity,and seem to think you are the ONLY man that wants to fuck me! I have to say the later is the biggest laugh of them all!
BTW there are no words you can say that would injure me more than your past behaviors.
Am I being too harsh in telling him all this? Chances are it will be done via text since I don't think I will see him person again.
I am also sending to personal replies to those who take the time to email be but I don't feel are a good fit for me and my endeavors.
So folks hit me with your comments... Am I being too harsh or am just doing what I should have done in the past. Letting them know how I feel and not worrying about their feelings...
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Scaling back
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Posted:Aug 16, 2012 7:48 am
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2012 6:28 am
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I have recently had some health issues arise that will be causing me to take a break and or scale back from being on here until I get it taken care of.
Most of you know I am not one to share my DRAMA, so please understand if I don't respond or have an AUTO REPLY its not because I am ignoring or avoiding you. I need to take care of myself and will be back once I am fully recovered.
Knowing me I will pop on now and again to see what is going on in the illustrious world of VisionPersonals.com.Please keep in touch and I will reply as I can.
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The Pro's and Con's of a Booty Call
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Posted:Aug 3, 2012 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2012 7:06 pm
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We all know how nice it is to have that pal you can just text,email,call for a good time...
But what happens that person starts to put demands on you or changes the boundaries...
PROS:
Sex when you want it
No strings attached
Free to do who/what you want without recourse
Great sex if your lucky
CONS:
The said "pal" gets attached
Starts changing the boundaries
Expects you to be ok with these changes
So what do you do?
Tell them this is what the boundaries were when we started and if you want changes then we need to discuss them. And be ready for the fall out.
Do you have more than one booty call? Do you expect booty calls to be exclusive?
What are your thoughts?
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