Talking me off the roof
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Posted:Apr 24, 2013 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2013 1:35 am
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With the last blog, I feel I need to RE ASSURE. While theres a lot of things that are jumbled in 1 LARGE PILE, "doing something drastic" never came to mind.
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Nothing like this..lol
I was told a good metaphor along the lines of "pulling over to the shoulder and catch your breath". Its hard to pull over when the MAN Way is to keep going- no Stops!
Also it was good to see, especially on THIS site, that there are those who can relate to my current situation and can offer advice I would have never even considered.
Special thanks to the person who mailed me saying Im TOO YOUNG to give myself a Nervous Breakdown!
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A blur
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Posted:Apr 22, 2013 10:37 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2013 10:18 am
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This picture is how I feel most of the time.
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How did I go from 7-6pm job to being laid off to now going to night class for a degree,
working part time
and doing volunteer work?
*And still try to find interesting topics for the blogg!*
There are days I feel like life is speeding by and Im stuck in the shoulder lane with an overheated radiator. Days where my mind reels at everything thats been happening the last few months. That layoff REALLY set me back in life where it felt like my momentum was totally erased.
Took so much Bayer aspirins that the doctor made me give him my bottle and had me SWITCH to ibuprofen!
I've gotten over the anger part of the layoff... mostly  I just have to look at it as " go where the current takes me" viewpoint. Eventually I'll hit land. It not like I want to remain adrift forever. I'll continue to do the "one day at a time" thing so its not as overwhelming. Guess this means ill have to wait alittle longer for that Buick Enclave!
And now ill stop with the metaphors and you can just enjoy the picture!
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Sad but true
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Posted:Mar 29, 2013 3:45 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2013 4:09 pm
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Sad but true. Have a swell friday!
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Fashion opinion
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Posted:Mar 22, 2013 8:41 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2013 1:37 pm
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My own personal interpretation. Because no matter how many pants I see in public, it will NEVER be appealing to me..I like SPACE lol
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Saturday nights
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Posted:Mar 19, 2013 9:00 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2015 4:30 am
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I think this is why ladies like to go dancing on the weekends.
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Missed Camera opportunity?
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Posted:Feb 27, 2013 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2013 8:57 am
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I like Photography. I sometimes post pictures on here just to do a little bragging! I remember my old 110 camera, and even those throwaways I use to have years ago taking random pictures.
When I came to this site, I met a few ladies who wanted photos taken. All good to me. The only problem is. My camera wouldn't work, so we would use her camera.
I remember one lady in particular. She literally bought a camera for the evening, because I took it out of the packaging and loaded up the batteries for her. NICE bent over ass photos.. atleast 4-5 of them. 1-2 Penetration pics. But when it came to getting MY copy of them, I didn't get them!
I think later it happened with ANOTHER lady. Had her camera, took a few as requested of her/us.. then AGAIN, no copies!
I was starting to see a pattern.
FAST FORWARD to 2012.
I finally upgraded to a DSLR camera.(that's the big cameras) (Technically I have 1.5 cameras if you count my Iphone.).. and now either no one is 100% interested in meeting in person. Or they just aren't into photos being taken. I'm starting to think I missed the boat in finally getting some mementos taken. Face can be hidden if your not sure about putting it out there. But as hard as it is to find women who are comfortable in their own skin, and are not afraid of lingerie or sexy undies.
I just want something I can go look at and smile at... or get a hard on over and reminiscence!
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Help! Im drowning in kitty pics!
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Posted:Feb 12, 2013 10:27 am
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2015 4:31 am
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I GET it!
Took me a while to understand. Women get hundreds of DICK (I don't use the term COCK) thrown at them in email, in chat rooms, and here in bloggville. They get sick of seeing a DICK before they even see the face of the man who is attempting to show interest. They would rather see the face to see if there could be some sort of attraction that LEADS to them wanting to see the dick in person.
THAT PART I GOT LONG AGO.
What confuses me is some of these women who verbally SWAT at all the DICK photos sent to them...you go to their profile: there is a pussy photo!
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Some hairy ones, some bald ones, some crooked ones, some symmetrical ones, some pretty ones, some.. that should not be in a photo. Pics so close to the vagina, you can see the 6 o clock shadow down there.
One woman's profile I was looking at, had about 30 VAG pics. I never knew they could be so photogenic. Personally, I like face photos as the main pic. Tells me if I'll have the chemistry to WANT to talk and get in depth. So I DO get the complaints women have about all the dick photos. I have a dick as my main a long time ago- got mixed messages: Not many women complained, but then there was an increase in male interests/emails as well. So i took it down!
But to be a man also I am very ok with the Tits and the ASS photo as the main photo. To me, those 2 photos show 3 dimensions! I can look at different angles and be told a new story.You can dress them up in a nice bra and undies, you can make black n white pics, make them into postcards....(Yes I HAVE been doing in depth thinking on this)
VAG pics just lay there like a 1 demensional image. Like an old Chevy with a for sale sign in the windshield.
Guess best we can do is to SWAT the dick photos out of your email, and for me to nicely ask do you have another photo you can send. Because I can only do so much looking at a pussy photo...
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A guy with a backbone, vs the guy that has no spine
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Posted:Feb 8, 2013 4:40 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2013 10:17 am
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I have seen two types of guys on here:
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The guy with a backbone. HE has standards. limits. Expectations.
He will converse with a woman and show flashes of maturity, and tell you things may not be a good fit. Doesn't have Nut dripping off some girls face in HIS pictures. Dare I say shows a sense of humor?!
Some guys know just because this is a sex site, doesn't mean you cant display a PERSONALITY on here. Who knows- maybe women might be drawn to it more then a 14inch dick.. SHRUGGS.
Then there's the spineless guy. Basically a Snake that can type. He says he's looking for a female 18-80. (i.e will fuck anyone that he can get his dick in) Will say shit like "no fat chicks", but will talk to a big girl in hopes of getting his dick sucked. Has NO standards whatsoever, and back peddles like he's on the tightrope at the circus.
Im even interested in guys, but those types piss me off because it makes it harder to stand out to the ladies who are tired of the slithering punks on here..Im not sure how the ladies deal with them. Well, besides not responding to the majority of emails..lol Keep weeding through the emails ladies; eventually you'll find that email that will make you respond to,and not just perv the profile!
Or Im just speaking about my letters that rarely get responded to. Either way!
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Kunfuzion
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Posted:Feb 5, 2013 1:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2013 4:32 am
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Women can be confusing. NO. This is NOT NEW. But the levels of it, especially on here are endless.
In my cold state of Wisconsin; I find most of my attention on here comes from outside of Wis. (And Canada..lol )Guess that means I should add Toronto as a place worth visiting!
Women say they hate "pushy" "desperate" men. Im not sure what we should do to fix that...? Should we send the first email... along with our profile words, a face pic, dick pic, and alt. email? Or do we send one and forget about it? Maybe send a wink/email to one of her friends (I learned that women don't like that-even though they dont have any interest in you themselves.. SHRUGGS)
A lady had a picture of a nice set of legs in stockings as her main profile pic. She was not too far away, and I did like what i saw so far, I sent a hello-i-wanna-get-to-know-ya letter. Basically, said no to seeing a face photo, and i would have to wait to see her in person. I have a face pic on my profile, so she choose to respond, but still refused to send a face pic. I said, thats kinda fucked up. Especially if my attraction NEVER progresses beyond her legs. (Its winter time, i doubt those legs will make an appearance in a dress in this weather..)
I guess the best that us guys can do is just continue.... to walk to the nearest wall and bang our head against it a few times to help release tension and until she stops confusing us.
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Ladies and the RED X's
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Posted:Jan 27, 2013 4:38 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2013 3:36 am
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Ladies this entry is for you!
Ladies who log in get an email, then BEFORE you read the SPELLCHECKED,
DECENT SENTENCE STRUCTURED,
WITTY,
NON CAVE-MAN message that sets before you, do you go look at the profile? Cmon-fess up! I know your PERVing.
Do you read his fantasizes? His Astrological sign?
Do you scroll down to look at a guys RED X compatibility chart?
Is it a deal-breaker?
Do you heed its words?
Do you just like to see the red and the green interact?
I know some of us guys dont bother to read that far down (if at all). I mean HEY.. your close, and looking for dick- its a match made in heaven right!?
I once got emailed by a lady where almost ALL the catagories were marked with an RED X. It was like Pizza hut delivery man crossing a mine-field covered in chicken wire. Basically it was her giving me her opinion on a blog post.. which was fine. But when I asked her did she look at that chart down there.. she said No, I dont look at that thing- its rarely correct!
So, as a precaution, I always scroll down to that area just to see how much of an uphill battle I may be in for!
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Late night searchings
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Posted:Jan 24, 2013 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2014 12:45 pm
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Im not sure if its JUST a male thing, but I know when its late, I tend to go through the same profiles:
Ones I wanna mail, but are 2-3-4 states away..
ones that I emailed n never got a response..
ones I don't want to email
and then there are the profiles that have no picture......
THOSE are the ones that GNAW at my kuriousity. They can have full profiles, (none of that "prefer not to answer" stuff). Its like seeing a quarter on the ground, after the initial contact, you circle back and investigate.
As your messaging this pic less profile, your making all these images in your head.. (shes gonna look like megan fox, or cyndy crawford, or maybe that girl from the mall with the big tits)
Am I setting myself up for disappointment? Probably. But late at night, your curiosity (and probably your dick) are at such a high level that you don't even care.
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Old fashioned vs Using
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Posted:Dec 25, 2012 5:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2013 7:29 pm
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I read a blog where a woman met a guy from here who she basically didn't know. then gave an obvious brush off in person. She was pissed when he had her pay for own drinks..
She questioned the "Old fashioned" ways. I questioned why didnt she talk to the guy long enough to know if there may or may not be a connection.
I dont label myself. BUT I do share some of the regal values of the old days..
Hold a door for a woman..
actually conversing
take her out for her birthday
buy dinner for first meeting
let her cum first
BUT.. I know when Im being used.
I took a girl out 2-3 times (meaning I paid). She told me on the 2nd date (AFTER she ate) there was no chemistry. OK. I paid and that was that. But then she called me wanting to know would i take her out a 3rd time and asked could she bring a female friend?!?
I remember laughing in her ear as I hung up the phone.
Old fashioned is fine with me, but I draw the line when women try to abuse the privilege and ruin it for the women who dont do such things. PLUS us men are tired of wasting money on "fruitless ventures". Do we have to fuck in order for me to spend money? Not at all. But expect the bill to be split in half if your just looking for free meals/drinks from people you dont respect.
Your lucky I dont add to your bill the Gas I burned..lol
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No expectations....really?
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Posted:Nov 15, 2012 8:24 am
Last Updated:Dec 25, 2012 10:34 pm
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"No Expectations"
I see this alot on female's profiles. It shows that she has a level of optimism. Open-mindedness. It lets men know shes not high maintenance. GREAT traits to have.
BUT..
I dont think its realistic. I dont have that on my profile because I have expectations. Standards that keep me from messing with those Im not really into. In the old days, I would fuck someone's brains out just to fuck, and not really care if I was into them or not. And that made me kinda sad because I'd have to start over with another female....
I EXPECT:
The female that Im talking to be an ACTUAL female (not a cross dresser)
I EXPECT the photos of you to be actually YOU (not your friends)
I EXPECT you to be truthful in telling me what you like, and dont like
I EXPECT you to be yourself, and not some internet Facade of you.
I think it should be worded differently because unless your fucking EVERY guy that says hello to you- you DO have expectations; which is a good thing!
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