Horny, Horny, Horny
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Posted:Nov 3, 2014 1:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2014 7:05 pm
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I'm currently packing my apartment and going back and forth between two cities to haul stuff to the new place. I've already moved some furniture items with the help of family and friends. I hope to have everything moved by Thanksgiving. I left this site for a short time to focus on the logistics of moving, but I am soooooo horny that I can't see straight! LOL!
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More Good Luck
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Posted:Nov 2, 2014 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 9:43 pm
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I've been offered a second job, one that I prefer over the first offer. Neither position starts right away so I'll have little time to move, unpack in the new place and think about what I want to do.
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Good News
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Posted:Oct 21, 2014 8:41 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 9:43 pm
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I'm excited! I've been offered a job in another city. I'll be preparing to relocate between now and the end of next month. Looking forward to being gainfully employed again!
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Fall Is Finally Here
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Posted:Oct 17, 2014 5:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2014 6:01 pm
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Here in California, it's warm most of the year. In the area where I live, there's been unseasonably warm temperatures, but now it's starting to cool off. It feels like fall is finally here. I'm waiting for the riot of color in orange, red, yellow, purple, brown and green to hit the trees. Last week, I asked my sister, who lives in Wisconsin, to send me pics of the burst of colors on the foliage there. It was spectacular to see! Kind of made me homesick for the Midwest.
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Lighten Up
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Posted:Oct 15, 2014 11:09 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2014 8:44 am
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I keep hearing complaints, both online and in real life about how men only want sex (with as many partners as they can find) while women want serious relationships, lifetime partners, monogamy, etc. After hearing and reading so much about what seems to be a disconnect between men and women, I thought about my younger, carefree days (seems so long ago).
I wasn't a wild so to speak, but I lived life with enthusiasm, an open mind and a good dose of common sense. Doing so brought some pretty awesome opportunities my way. I enjoyed my independence, loved my freedom and cherished the solitude I had as a young single woman. I didn't need to fall in love or be in a serious relationship in order to enjoy sex. Sex felt great, I enjoyed the thrill and explored what turned on me and my partners.
Once again, I'm enjoying my solitude, freedom and independence as a single woman, but this time in midlife. I'm no longer quite as carefree as I once was, but I've learned a thing or two since then. I know what works for me, what makes me happy and I don't waste time getting caught up in other people's agendas or games. I've learned to lighten up, just enjoy the wonderful experiences that come my way and to be grateful for the opportunity to live life on my own terms.
I've always had a strong sex drive and it hasn't changed over the years, nor has my attitude regarding sex. I'm in a great place at midlife to just enjoy sex and make it pleasurable for someone else too. I don't need a relationship, drama, games or other nonsense to go along with it. Just a willing partner will do.
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Married Men
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Posted:Oct 8, 2014 5:05 pm
Last Updated:Nov 4, 2014 12:10 am
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I just read another member's blog post about married men whining about sexless marriages. It prompted me to think about the situation and my own recent experience. Having been married just short of 30 years, I know marriage isn't always "happily ever after." It's a huge commitment that takes a lot of work and not everyone is up for it.
All of us know about couples who have open marriages, both play with others. Then, there are swingers who play with other couples and other individuals in threesomes, etc. I also know of couples where one person gives the other verbal permission to have sex outside of the marriage, due to health reasons, lack of interest, different libidos, etc. I'm sure all of us know of at least one or two couples where one person knows the other is cheating and by unspoken agreement, simply looks the other way.
Like the other blogger here, I've read profiles where married guys say they're married and the most common reason given is lack of sex within their marriages. I've been approached by married men ever since I started online dating. All of them have admitted their marital status in their profiles and in the very first emails to me. I'm sure there are some who pretend to be single, but I never knew about it personally until I experienced it not too long ago.
I encountered a guy who stated that he was single on his profile. We talked by phone and exchanged emails for weeks, arranging and cancelling meetings due to circumstances. Finally, we agreed upon a day and time to meet for coffee. The night before we were to meet, I received an email from him confessing to being married, here on a temporary assignment only. He said he didn't intend to deceive me and hoped that I still wanted to meet him.
I wasn't angry, just very disappointed. I decided this wasn't someone I wanted to meet for coffee or engage in a sexual encounter with. For weeks the guy led me to believe he was single and yet said he didn't intend to deceive me. I told him that there was a clear intent to deceive when he posted that he was single on his profile and then misled me for weeks. I got several more requests to meet after telling him that. I did not and the more I think about it, the happier I am that I didn't meet up with him. A few days later, I noticed that he had viewed my profile so I checked out his. You guessed it, he still had his marital status as single!
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Where Are The Local Guys?
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Posted:Oct 6, 2014 7:30 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2014 8:38 pm
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Today, I edited my profile to focus on finding a local FWB, a guy who lives in or near my area. I have a strong libido and it would be nice to find a guy who is interested in an ongoing FWB situation. Just to meet for coffee has been exhausting and time consuming, trying to accommodate the different schedules of guys who live outside of my area. After all, I have a life outside of this site too! LOL!!
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Just Want To Have Fun
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Posted:Oct 3, 2014 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2014 8:39 pm
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I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect or a Soul Mate. I don't want an engagement ring, another trip down the aisle or a Knight in Shining Armor. Been there, done that and now all I want is just to have some fun. I stepped outside of my comfort zone when I ended a nearly 30 year marriage 3 1/2 years ago. Not long after my divorce, I was involved in another serious relationship. I knew it wasn't right for me so I ended it. Shortly thereafter, I realized that doing so was the best thing for me to do. Don't get me wrong, I don't have anything against marriage, a serious relationship or searching for The One. For me, at this point in my life, all I want is just to have fun.
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My Blog
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Posted:Sep 30, 2014 11:34 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2014 8:39 pm
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Is it just me or have others experienced it too? I've noticed that some guys on this site have a double standard when it comes to sex. They say in their profiles that they're looking for a woman who is low in circulation, but say nothing about how many women they've had sex with. Then, there are the guys who try to find out in slick, under handed ways how many men I've met on the site or hooked up with. Others, have called me derogatory names when I've told them I'm unavailable for sex on a particular day or at a certain time. It makes me wonder what name applies to them when they're here looking for the same thing that I am.
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