I have read several blogs from you ladies acknowledging the disparity between male members on here and female members. And, it appears, there are a vast majority of male members who have no compassion, empathy or respect for you women and your feelings. Does that automatically put those of us who are not in that majority at a disadvantage? I understand that with a little conversation it becomes more clear what kind of person we are, but getting to the point of having that conversation seems to be difficult. Whats a 'nice guy' to do??