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Help, My Life is Crazy
Posted:Apr 28, 2015 3:43 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2024 11:37 pm
33104 Views

We are all under some stress and complete lack of it is not good.

But I get the sense that this is a bit of an unusual population and I would like to know a little bit more about how you are managing your lives, over and above posting pictures of yourself on the Web. . After all, it's hard to have a good roll around if there are a lot of things bothering you and the phone is ringing all the time.

So, pick the answer below that best applies.
My life is complicated and sometimes I am overwhelmed
my life is more stressful than most people but I am managing
My life is manageable and I am coping OK
My life is good. I don't have any real problems and I am doing just fine.
every day is full of sunshine, lollipops and rainbows.
Other
0 Comments
Weed as a Performance Enhancer for Sex
Posted:Apr 26, 2015 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2015 5:52 pm
33317 Views

Well what about this, since many of you have tried it you must have noticed it either helped or hurt you in bed.

I have never tried it myself but I thought it affected the genders differently.

So... click the answer below that best fits.
I am male and weed made sex better
I am male. weed made it worse.
I am male and I don't think it had any effect.
I am female. weed relaxed me and made it better
I am female. weed had no effect.
I am female. Weed made it worse.
never tried it/other
0 Comments
the Weed Poll
Posted:Apr 26, 2015 5:05 am
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2015 5:53 pm
33384 Views

Well now that we've redone the great romantic movies we can move on.

This question is about your use, if any, of weed.

The jury is still out about the health effects. But, the jury is not still out that the industry that has grown up in the production, smuggling and distribution of it which is equal to if not greater than the organized crime that developed during prohibition.

there are workplace laws in most of the country that will get you fired if you show up to work and have it in your bloodstream.

So, the question is posed:

Select the statement below that most closely matches your use of this stuff.
I've never tried or used it.
I used to use it but stopped
I've used it in the last 5 years
I've used it in the last 6 months
I've used it in the last month
I use it all the time
I am high right now.
other (specify)
0 Comments , 10 votes
the Dirty Dancing Poll (poll for the guys)
Posted:Apr 25, 2015 2:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 5:13 pm
33611 Views

Let's look at the story from a slightly different point of view.

You are the owner of a resort. It is a nice place, the kind of place that families come back to year after year. Practically a tradition.

But, your job is hard. In addition to the maintenance of a big old building you have to do marketing, keep the guests entertained, hope the weather is good but your biggest problem is managing the staff.

You hire a lot of wholesome middle class for the front of the house, but for the dirty jobs you hire blacks and Puerto Ricans. You give them lodging in a row of cabins.

You work them as hard as they can, but at night they raise hell. They stay up all night drinking beer and dancing and also fucking around with each other. A little of this is fine but if it spills over into our customers it is bad.

The worst of them all is the ass hole dance Instructor, who seems to be in the middle of all the shit that happens out there. He gets into fights, you believe he is screwing around with one of the older customers, and you find out that this clown is moonlighting at a local night club, and alarmingly, screwing around with the teenage of one of our repeat .

He is good, but who cares?

So. ..the question is posed:

What do you do with this guy?
Fire him
Keep him around because some of the like him
other (suggestions?)
0 Comments , 1 vote
The Dirty Dancing Poll (poll for the ladies)
Posted:Apr 25, 2015 11:28 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 12:14 pm
33656 Views

You are a young girl, and spend the summer at a resort in the Catskills. Your straight laced annoying and boring parents and older sister are with you.

You spend the day finger painting or something, but at night stumble into a supernatural world of the camp staff who occupy themselves by getting drunk and dancing.

At the center of this supernatural world is the dance instructor. We have run 150 polls and the message that gets sent over and over is that appearance in a guy doesn't matter so his attraction must be his passion for dancing... his partner is a tall blond. Very nice. He hypnotizes you into joining him... you are helpless...

you seek him out, ask him to teach you... an accident happens to his partner, you take her place...you become physically involved with this guy as he teaches you these seductive dance steps... you sneak out...go to a neighboring place and stand in for her...your sister knows but your uptight parents have no idea all of this is happening.

Eventually all of this is revealed to your uptight parents in the most public way possible.

So... as before, what alternate scenarios are you seeing on this?
I stay away from the staff like I am supposed to. they're the staff.
I start dating the annoying bellhop who is more my speed.
when this godlike figure asks me to dance I say "no"
I think better of the involvement. He is a dance instructor. Not a high achiever.
I do what she did. He is one of the sexiest men ever for pete's sake.
other
0 Comments , 2 votes
the Casablanca Poll (poll for the guys)
Posted:Apr 25, 2015 6:12 am
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 10:53 am
33808 Views

You are a guy. Tough guy. You are from the city, and things being what they were and needing a job and being stuck in a rut you become a "civilian contractor" on the losing side in a war zone.

Glad to make it out of there intact you go to Paris for awhile to hang out with your buddy, a saloon piano player. I suppose you are in a bar one night and a little blond bumps into you. You are not much of a ladies man, I don't think, and she is out of your league but she falls for you and you let her into your heart.

Things are going fine, there are blossoms and romance, and you fall deeply in love. But, something happens, and you need to leave town suddenly. You and your buddy and your little girl friend pack up, and at the train station, you get the news that she is dumping you. She does not tell you that she is married.

Your reaction is fury. You decide to go to the roughest place you can find and start a bit of a life around the type of people you know best, namely cutthroat and low lives. So you open up a bar, and it is not much but you are the emperor of it.

You are tough but fair when you want to be and you develop a little entourage of faithful employees and local officials, and none of them has seen you drink, mess with a female, or smile. To the extent that is "power" you have it, in your little empire.

You are networked into al sorts of activities, not all of them legal. One night one of your slimy customers gives you something very valuable to keep, he disappears suddenly, there are cops, you lay low, since you have developed some skill in not sticking your neck out.

You are running your place one night and in walks the little blond, with her guy, an internationally known rabble rouser. She needs the very valuable thing you have to get out of dodge.

Of course she throws herself on you. Not very ladylike. You know what she is after.

The question is posed: at what point do you do something different than what actually happened:
You don't mess with a blond in a bar in Paris
You don't lose your heart while you are nailing her.
when she dumps you, you laugh. Little do you know you are one of the coolest guys ever and you can get any girl you want.
When she shows up in your bar you have her escorted out.
when she shows up in your bar you shoot her.
when she shows up in your bar you shoot her guy
when she shows up in your bar you give her what she wants and laugh at her for being pathetic.
You do what you did: give her the letters, facilitate her escape with her guy, and leave town to avoid heat from the bad guys.
other
1 comment , 1 vote
the Casablanca Poll (poll for the ladies)
Posted:Apr 24, 2015 4:23 pm
Last Updated:Apr 25, 2015 6:06 am
33704 Views

Okay...

You are a young blond, attractive enough but not intimidating. You get married to an older, powerful man, a political type. For reasons beyond the imagination of a lot of us, he disappears.

You fully expect him to be dead. In your grief, you are drawn to another older guy, an anti-hero. He is cool, you fall in love with him, you start this steamy alcohol-fueled romance... in Paris.

For various reasons, you need to beat it out of town. You and this guy make plans to take the last train out.. but at that moment you find out your guy is alive. You send a note to your lover and run back to your original guy. You know you are breaking his heart... but do it anyway.

Some time passes... and you and your guy find yourself in someplace rough and dangerous.

In order to get the hell out of dodge, you need some letters of transit. Come to find out, this guy you dumped in Paris has the very thing you need. It is basically a life or death situation. You are quite desperate.

So you have to face this other guy and try to persuade him to give you what you need. You know he goes between heartbroken and in a drunken rage.

so the question is posed: at what point do you do something different than what actually happened?
I don't get married young to an older politician.
I keep away from the anti-hero. he is not my type. I can do better.
I don't dump the anti-hero. I get on the train with him in Paris.
I don't try to seduce him to get the golden ticket. I just shoot him.
I put my guy on the plane and stay with the anti-hero.
other (suggest more alternate plots)
0 Comments , 2 votes
The Breakfast at Tiffany ' s poll part 2 (for the guys)
Posted:Apr 24, 2015 10:42 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2015 12:08 pm
33705 Views

Let's look at the same story from the point of view of Paul, who is George Peppard.

You are young and hunky and working to become a writer. You make friends with an older, wealthier woman who is part FWB and part supporter I.e. she moves you into an apartment and gives you money.

You may or may not be conflicted about this. She is reasonably attractive. (She is Patricia Neal who has played opposite all of the classic leading men).

You find out that in a room nearby there is a beautiful, graceful young woman who likes to throw hell raising parties, and you become her "friend" although you clearly dig her.

You gradually find out that she was married at 14 to Jed Clampett, took off from her little town in Tulip Texas to NY and then transformed herself into a timeless icon of beauty and style, getting rid of her drawl and surviving by shoplifting and being a flirt.

You later find out she is running information to a gangster in prison, and is being chased by a Brazilian highbrow.

At some point she is arrested for conspiracy, and you help bail her out. Eventually your latest book is a success, you express your love, and you ride around in the rain looking for her cat.

The question is posed as follows:

At what point do you leave this train wreck, beautiful as she is?
I stick with my old rich girlfriend. works for me and her even though it is sleazy.
I dump her as soon as I find out she was married and abandoned Uncle Jed.
I dump her as soon as I find out she has been to the 21 club with 26 different guys.
I dump her as soon as I find out she is working for a gangster.
I dump her as soon as she is arrested.
I do not dump her. The beauty is worth the chaos.
other (explain)
0 Comments , 1 vote
the Breakfast at Tiffany ' s poll (poll for the ladies)
Posted:Apr 24, 2015 4:36 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2015 3:59 pm
33641 Views

Feel free to rent this dated but interesting movie if the weather is bad where you are this weekend.

But to remind you, this is what happened, from the point of view of the middle aged woman in the story;;

You (Patricia Neal) are having an affair plus supporting financially a hunky young writer (George Peppard) with some potential. You move him into an apartment, which, by accident, is in the same building as beautiful, vivacious Audrey Hepburn, the two inevitably find each other and you are history.

But, you got to be with George Peppard for awhile.

So my question is posed as follows, since most of you are in that stage of life: Would you financially support a young hunky writer if there was something in it for you? Assume for the moment that you have the financial resources to do so.

Select the best response that most accurately describes your opinion.
Forget it.
I might for a young writer, I might not for a young hunky car detailer.
Yes, even though tragically flawed, a little romance keeps you young
other (describe)
0 Comments , 3 votes
the Women/Power/Sex Poll (poll for the guys)
Posted:Apr 23, 2015 10:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 12:51 pm
33730 Views

It seems we have a lot of hard working women, per the last couple of polls.

I now want to know whether this affects your sex life somehow.

So, considering the woman in your life, if any, who you are most involved with (might be very close friend, ex, gf, wife or whatever, pick the answer below that fits the best.
I am not with anyone right now. I support myself and it has no impact on my relationships.
i have lower economic status than my female companion and it affects our sex life negatively.
I have lower economic status than she does and it has no bearing on our relationship at all.
we are about the same economically. game on
I have higher economic status and it affects our relationship negatively
I have higher economic status and I don't think about it too much.
economic status is irrelevant.
other (describe)
0 Comments , 6 votes
Work equals Respect (poll for the ladies)
Posted:Apr 22, 2015 2:45 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 3:41 pm
33989 Views

Okay It looks as though a lot of you are hard workers trying to keep the system going. And, you maybe have a guy in your life who is your main guy.

So pick the best answer below to describe the attitude of the main guy in your life with regard to you working outside the home.
He respects me more because I help with income and do interesting work.
He respects me less because he feels he should be the breadwinner.
He wishes I would retire.
He wishes I would work more.
I do not have a main guy
He does not share his opinion. he is indifferent.
He is a slug and I am supporting him.
I am the only one living here. I need to pay the bills.
0 Comments , 6 votes
the working womens' question (Question for the ladies)
Posted:Apr 21, 2015 1:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2015 2:37 pm
34032 Views

How many hours per week on average do you work outside the home for either a salary or some kind of contract work?
fewer than 10
10-20
20-30
30-40
more than 40
other (specify)
1 comment , 7 votes
The Woman Who Said Exactly What She Was Thinking (poll for everybody)
Posted:Apr 20, 2015 11:06 am
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2015 7:00 pm
8535 Views

This actually happened.

I was at a meet up party one night and within about 30 seconds of walking around I was approached by a woman who, after a short time started telling me how she wanted to have various types of sex with me.

I basically figured she was loaded and it was game on, but after being with her for a bit sensed something a little off.

Evidently she had been in a car wreck as a and had the part of her brain altered that usually restrains a person from saying exactly what was on her mind. Think of it. The workings of the female mind revealed without filtering! And, she was telling me in as clear a language as possible that she was attracted to me, which in and of itself saved a lot of approach anxiety on my part.

I decided to slow it down and we went to an all night place. She was the kindest, warmest person imaginable, free with compliments, and at some point the little cartoon devil and angel appeared on my shoulders....

So I put it to the poll viewers:

If someone approached you and it was clear that they were digging you but it was not quite right somehow, what would you do?
I am male. I'd take it.
I am male. I would leave it.
I am female. this happens to me all the time and I run away.
I am female. I would take it if I liked the person
other/explain
5 Comments , 17 votes

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