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Posted:Jul 17, 2014 10:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2016 4:50 pm
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She met him in the car park at the hotel. It was in the early hours of the morning, and he'd stayed up so as to welcome her. He'd taken care to shower and make himself sweet smelling, and was looking forward to meeting her. She got out of her car, smiled and said "I'm guessing you're the only one mad enough to be out at this hour of the night". She kissed him on the cheek and they walked back to the hotel.

As it was still night, nobody was in the reception area, so they walked to the room he'd booked. It was small, but neat and tidy and had a private bathroom.

As they shut the door behind them, they looked slightly nervously at each other. She asked him if he liked what he saw. He replied that she looked good enough to eat. She said "I was hoping you might say that, as you'll be doing some of that very soon. Now, I'm going to the bathroom to get changed. When I come out, I want you to have stripped naked and be kneeling on the floor." With that, she took her overnight bag and went into the bathroom, locking the door.

He was a bit confused, but did what he was asked. He stripped down to his pants and knelt on the floor. When she came out of the bathroom a few minutes later, he couldn't believe his eyes. She was wearing a basque and looked stunning. She had stockings and suspenders, and a pair of plain white cotton panties. "Get up" she said. He stood up. "You've kept your pants on - take them off now". He did as he was told, his rapidly hardening cock springing free from his pants. "Not bad" she said, running a hand over his cock, playing with it a bit. "But more of that later, IF you're a good boy and do as I ask".

With that she sat on the edge of the bed and lay backwards, her legs still over the side of the bed. "Kneel between my legs" she commanded. He did as he was told. "Now, rub your face against my panties and make me wet" she said. His cock reacted to this and got even harder. He placed his face a few inches from her panties, loving the faint aroma of her perfume. He moved closer, first rubbing his nose, then his lips, then his whole face against her panties. It wasn't long before a small damp spot appeared on the panties as she became aroused.

He carried this on for several minutes and the damp spot grew larger. "OK Stop" she said. With that, she stood up, removed her panties, then lay back on the bed again in front of him. "Now do the same again, very gently at first". He bent forward again, eagerly starting to tongue her most intimate parts. She sighed, and parted her legs more to give him better access. He ran his tongue up and down the length of her pussy, just poking it a little way into her. As his tongue worked slightly deeper every time, until he was extending his tongue completely into her gorgeous pussy. She started squirming on the bed underneath him, then suddenly grasped the back of his head, pressing his face into her wetness, as she came for the first time. He loved her taste.

"Now, you lie on the bed" she said. He did as he was told. From her bag she took out several lengths of rope. "I need to make sure you stay in position, because you have a lot more of that to do" she said. She took his wrists and started wrapping a piece of rope around them. Once they were securely tied together, she led a piece of rope from them to the top of the bed, tying it securely. She then repeated the move with his ankles, tying these separately to the bottom corners of the bed.

"You need to understand that you're here to please me. If you do well, I might return the favour." With that, she stood on the bed above him, before lowering herself so that she was kneeling astride his head. She sat on his chest looking down at him, her pussy inches from his face. "I need you to lick me thoroughly. You must make me come repeatedly. I expect this will take at least half an hour, but we'll see how we get on." With that, she lowered her pussy so it covered his mouth and ordered him to stick his tongue out and start. He eagerly lapped away at her pussy, and it wasn't long before she was writhing over his face again as he pleasured her most intimate parts.

He wasn't sure how long she kept him in that position for, but it must have been 20 or 30 minutes. She came repeatedly, covering his face with her lovely juices which he eagerly lapped up. After some time, she stood up and turned round. "Now lick my bottom" she commanded. She lowered herself again and placed her bottom over his face, ordering him to use his tongue on her. He did this eagerly, as she flopped forward into a 69 position, with her face next to his cock. She slowly started pumping his shaft with her hands, being careful to go slowly and not to come too quickly. She then placed her mouth over his erection, gently sucking and lapping. She knew he wouldn't take long to explode, and after a few minutes of this, she realised he was about to come, so she sucked harder, using her hand to jerk him at the same time. He shuddered, then exploded in a fountain inside her mouth, sticking his tongue as far into her private parts as he could. It seemed as if it would never end, but after a minute or so, they both gently subsided. She rolled off him, grinned and said "That was good for starters, what shall we do now"?
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Older man, younger woman?
Posted:Jun 25, 2014 12:47 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2016 4:53 pm
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In response to a comment from last month's blog, I'm not someone interested in contacting a lady half my age (25) or really anyone more than about 8 years younger.

With a partner of a similar vintage, you're going to have a lot more in common, than someone who grew up at the same time your did!
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The Age gap?
Posted:May 25, 2014 10:43 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2016 4:54 pm
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I'm always surprised by the number of women on here looking for a young stud.

Yes, the sex may be mind-blowing, and he can probably last for hours and come repeatedly throughout the night, but once that's done you'll probably find that he has the emotional maturity of, well, someone in his 20's.

When you want a cuddle afterwards, he's not interested. He's shot his bolt, and is suddenly thinking "Why am I in bed with someone the same age as my mother?"

There's a lot more to it then just finding the unstoppable sex machine!

As someone who's a big hairy rugby-player type build, I also found this cartoon very funny.
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Boomerang Babes, again
Posted:Apr 23, 2014 1:01 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:12 pm
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I cannot believe it, the lady that suddenly came to life back in December has just been in touch yet again. I want to see you, talk to you like old times, be with you, find out how you're getting on etc.

It tugs at the heartstrings every time, and I know it's just a wind up. What to do?
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Onwards...
Posted:Mar 25, 2014 6:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:12 pm
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Well, after something of a hiatus, we're all done with stuff surrounding my Father who died last month. He died without a penny to his name, so has spared us the bothersome task of arguing over an inheritance!

Still living with my wife, God only knows if I'll ever get out of this.

So, back to finding friends on here where I can enjoy someone's company and whatever else might come our way.

Will try and think of something a little more interesting to post next month
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What a month!
Posted:Feb 27, 2014 1:09 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2016 4:45 pm
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Well in one week, I have:

1) Agreed to separate from my wife
2) Been told by my eldest that I'm going to be a Granddad
3) Rushed to hospital to see my father who has had internal bleeding and a massive stroke from which he won't recover. Just a matter of time.

Perhaps normal service will be resumed next month.

EDIT:

The day after I wrote this, my dear old Dad passed away peacefully.
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Love before Sex??
Posted:Jan 28, 2014 3:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2014 12:59 am
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You may remember being told by your elders and betters that you should “save yourself” for the right person i.e. don’t jump into bed with the first person that shows willing. As a testosterone-fuelled , I’m afraid I ignored all such advice when a shapely nurse decided she was up for it some 33 years ago!

Anyway, in a few meetings with various ladies from this wonderful website, there has been a marked propensity to engage in early bouts of horizontal jogging while the relationship is still new. This is as much my fault as anyone else’s, probably more so. BUT, having thought about this at some length recently, it has finally dawned on me that there may be something to this “saving yourself” lark.

You won’t know if you like someone, or whether there’s any flicker of the relationship lasting until you’re quite a few weeks in, assuming you see each other a fair amount. So what do you do if you’ve already done the loving bit, but find that your new bedfellow irritates the hell out of you, and you’d rather live a life of celibacy than endure much more of them? I’m guessing you’ll find a reason to end it in some way. Either by breaking off contact, or through a series of exchanges getting progressively more fraught, until one of you decides enough is enough.

The last lady I met off here, last summer, I knew I went for it too early. We became intimate before we should have done, largely because I pushed things before I really knew her that well. That one faltered through a serious misunderstanding via the medium of text messages and emails. See earlier blog posting for my thoughts on that.

Anyway, I was chatting with the of a good friend of mine. This is about 22 and has been going out with a girl for about 18 months. Their relationship is fantastic: they do so much together. They both enjoy outdoor stuff like hill walking, rock climbing, camping in remote spots, they get on so well. I asked him quietly if he thought he’d found his future wife. He said “Oh yes, we decided on that ages ago”. I said that they both seemed to make each other very happy, and he replied that they had both decided, early on in the relationship, that they would do nothing more than cuddle and kiss until married, so that they could really get to know each other and enjoy their friendship before diving into the sack.

I was astounded at his frankness and his maturity, and told him I was envious of their pact. Well folks, I’m here to say that this is how I want to try meeting someone. It seems that you don’t have to put too much work into finding someone that will entertain you for a quick roll in the hay, but putting the effort into establishing a lasting friendship before you end up in bed, is, I think, the key to a lasting relationship.

I think there should be a change in emphasis: sleep together because you like each other and you’ve established a strong bond. Don’t sleep together to see if you like each other.

Yes, it’s only taken me 51 years to realise this, and I don’t expect many people to agree with me, but I’m convinced that if you’re serious about finding someone you’d like to settle down with, this is the way forward.

So why am I still on a site like this? erm - let me think about that one!
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Boomerang Babes......
Posted:Dec 21, 2013 8:43 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:12 pm
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Odd topic this month - never thought I should be so lucky as to be in this situation, but a lady I was with for two years, until she ended our relationship in March 2013 keeps getting in touch.

I admit, I did rather fall for her, and she for me. We had a wonderful relationship, and I have never met a partner with whom I had such an enjoyable and mutually satisfactory sex life.

I thought it was all over after getting my marching orders, but last September, I suddenly start getting text messages: "Missing you", "how are you", "What are you doing" etc. It turns out she has a new man, and they have both gone to Portugal with two other couples for some late summer sun, sand, sangria and the other thing. The thing is, she's utterly miserable and not enjoying her new man, and I'm getting texts to say how she enjoyed life with me so much more.

This being the case, I start sending mildly encouraging texts in response, thinking: Let's see what develops. It starts getting quite lovey dovey fairly quickly. When she gets back from holiday, she and her new man part company, and I get an email apologising for contacting me and saying she just felt sorry for herself and needed someone to talk to. Great. This upsets me, but contact ceases thereafter.

Or so I thought!

Come November, I'm working overseas. The texts start again "I know I said I would leave you alone, but I must talk to you. Can you go on Skype?" "Yes of course" - turns out she's very upset after a night out with some girlfriends, where one of them (who is a disaster when it comes to men) is telling everyone about her new man.

So I'm the shoulder to cry on. It gets very lovey dovey again. Can't wait to see you again etc. When I get back to the UK, another four faults and a refusal. Another assurance that I won't be contacted again.

Until the next time I guess!!
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Occasional F*** buddy or companion of the heart?
Posted:Nov 9, 2013 11:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2016 5:00 pm
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Time for more ramblings.

So - what should a married man be looking for, assuming that for whatever reason he's on here looking for some female company?

An occasional f*** buddy with whom a series of irregular rolls-in-the-hay may be shared?

OR

Someone with whom you become emotionally attached, with all the complications this inevitably brings for both of you.

Let's look at the first: A clandestine meeting at some romantic Travelodge, Holiday Inn, Premier Inn or equally upmarket establishment. A hotel room with all the romance of a dentist's waiting room, the distant yet insistent thrum of the adjacent motorway, the mould growing along the seals of the bath and wash basin, the makings of a very substandard cup of tea with "instant dairy creamer", the clearly audible conversations, grunts, snores, farts and moans from next door (hang on, if you can hear them....)

Well no, it is possible to meet in a hotel with a little more appeal, and I would certainly recommend spending a few quid more and finding something appealing.

If you're staying overnight, of course you can relax and enjoy each other's company and not feel rushed. Much nicer than feeling you need to be in the action non-stop for 90 minutes, because you both then need to leave.

So what of the experience? it scratched an itch, it was fun, you went your separate ways. But hang on, wouldn't you like to spend more time with each other? would the time have been better spent getting to know each other?

This is where I probably fall down in my search for a lady via this website. I cannot just enjoy a spell of horizontal jogging, then vanish into the night completely satisfied, until the next time.

It has to be more than that. It has to be about getting to know another human being. Finding out what makes them tick, what they enjoy and what they aren't too keen on (not just in the sack!).

I read a profile from a young lady on here that, sadly for me, was young enough to be my , who wrote something along these lines: The human brain is the biggest turn-on we have, the most attractive thing we're equipped with. I'd never considered that, but as soon as I read it, it made perfect sense.

For me, I can never just enjoy a wham bam thank you ma'am experience. I imagine it must be a desperately lonely existence trying to find companionship in the arms of a , regardless of sex, which is why I imagine so many of them advertise a "Girl Friend Experience" i.e. their customer will, for 1 or 2 hours, be made to feel that they are loved and valued, not just tolerated for the sake of a handful of banknotes.

I will probably continue to get involved on all levels, emotionally, intellectually, and will always want to feel that any companion and I are enjoying each other's company, whether we're in bed, washing dishes, watching TV, listening to music or whatever.
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But, you're married! what are you doing here?
Posted:Oct 11, 2013 4:26 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 11:12 pm
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Today's offering is about the M word. You're married. I don't do married men. I'm only interested in single or unattached men.

Very wise, words well spoken, more trouble than it's worth etc.

So what are us married men doing on here? Well, everyone needs warmth and human contact.

Let's say you're in a marriage which isn't a complete disaster, but in which there is no physicality between you and your partner. You may have , they're fast growing up, you aren't in any desperate need to divorce, you're getting on OK, but you may as well be living with a friend of the same gender for all the physical contact you have.

This may have come about for any number of different reasons: perhaps you've fallen out of love, perhaps you were never in love in the first place, perhaps illness or something else has temporarily stopped a physical relationship and it never really started again.

So what do you do? The prospect of staying celibate with your partner until one of you finally kicks the bucket has very little appeal. You can seek solace in the arms of a "professional" lady, which might be OK, but ain't going to provide any long term satisfaction.

So, perhaps you end up on a site like this, hoping that one day you might meet someone compatible with whom, should the relationship develop, you might consider spending the rest of your life with.

You want it to start reasonably slowly, take your time, get to know each other a bit. I must admit I'm not very good at this and tend to dive straight in declaring undying love on day 2!! But, I'm determined to try and keep at it, take longer, get to know someone.

My most recent encounter was so sweet, and I thought, really thought, that this could be the lady I would settle down with, and have a lovely long-term relationship with. Through a series of emails which went from bad to worse, and some misunderstandings on both sides, it wasn't to be. See my first blog posting for ruminations on the efficacy of relying solely on emails as communication! Anyway, it came to an end and, perhaps this was for the best, because if things could be so badly misinterpreted so early on, maybe the long-term omens were not good. I still miss her, but I've accepted it wasn't to be.

I know this is primarily a site in which to make "adult" contacts, with all the connotations that word has in this context, but I know that we're all human, we all have the need to be loved, and we all need someone who will cuddle us and tell us we're loved, wanted and needed.

Anyway, should I be looking solely for someone happy to have the occasional meet-up for fun, or should I be looking for someone as per my last encounter with an eye to the long term.

Hmmm - difficult decision.
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Good with your tongue?
Posted:Sep 16, 2013 6:28 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2013 6:34 am
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Hmmm, today's post is about going down on a lady.

I haven't had masses of relationships over the years, but if there's one thing that unites all the ladies I have been involved with, it's their love of cunnilingus.

More than one lady I have known has said that they cannot come through normal intercourse, only with manual or oral stimulation. This is perfect for me, because the activity I love above all others, is going down on a lovely lady.

There is something fantastically erotic about opening a lady's very intimate parts with my tongue, and exploring the hidden depths. I love the sharp intake of breath that a lady takes when I may have brushed her clit with my tongue. I love the lady holding on to my head and ensuring my face remains buried in her pussy. Then there's the sense of the lady reaching her orgasm as you become aware of her breath quickening and her hips beginning to move as she thrusts more of herself into my face. I will usually have my arms under her thighs, and I'll keep my grip firm as she starts to come, so I can deliver the full force of my tongue and lips into her very depths.

Some ladies like to kneel above me and straddle my face with their pussy, lowering it onto my mouth for expert oral attention. Again, this is tremendously erotic as I am pinned to the bed and have little choice but to pleasure the lady as she demands. Deliciously sexy.

The great thing about this is, of course, that it's something we can enjoy many times in one session.

It suits me just fine!
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