Coronavirus sex...
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Posted:Apr 1, 2020 3:42 pm
Last Updated:Apr 1, 2020 3:43 pm
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Are you perverts and kinksters ready for coronavirus sex yet?
If not... then mask !
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So you are starting to come first?
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Posted:Jun 16, 2018 7:45 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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That was an honest question from a friend (months ago)... it had nothing to do with sex but I made it sexual... my reply was:
"I don't CUM 1st. But I'm starting to put myself first yes."
That started a long conversation filled with honesty, vulnerability, intelligence, mindfulness, compassion, humour, innuendo, flirting, bold statements and sharing a few dirty secrets.
All that occurred with someone I know from meeting online... from sharing with each other and connecting on a human level and not just the flat/surface sexual connection that it seems folks only want to give their energy towards. If we all would simply try to do a little different and be a little better then the connections that we can make with those around us be it in a workplace, your family unit, your friendships, your lovers or whomever you specifically choose to cultivate a meaningful relationship with (it doesn't matter the context of the relationship but rather the effort and amount of your true self you choose to put into that connection -- in my opinion) then those connections will be strong and prosperous and thrive and grow and change and die and that's all okay. It's meant to happen that way because you were there and you gave your best.
Give more of yourself freely and see what happens 
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Poly Dating - My Beginnings...
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Posted:Mar 12, 2018 9:16 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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Well... this last Saturday night was my first overnight date as a poly person (my partner was at home while I was out of town on my date) Going into last night, I had certain expectations about 1) how my partner might feel given that she has opened up about her difficulty with me having sex with other people as well as 2) how I would be with my partner while I was on my date as well as afterwards.
•I didn't fcuk it all up! I did make assumptions myself and let my own anxieties about my partners feelings get in my way. I stumbled but did not fall. This may be how I navigate my poly for a little bit... getting my bearings... finding foot holds and hand holds... my biggest supporter of me, besides myself of course, is my partner. She wants me to be happy. She sees how exploring my poly makes me happy. She knows that I love her with everything in my being yet she also knows that I can share myself ethically and responsibly. She knows that my intimacy, be it emotional or physical is not taking anything away from her and I... it adds to me and then there is more of me to give.
My partner is absolutely AMAZING... hands down! My new girlfriend (yes, I think of her as my girlfriend because we are putting all the real work of having a relationship together, into each other) is a very special person to me.
I am a polyamorous man, proud to be who I am and looking forward to each new experience.
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My thoughts on Domming...
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Posted:Sep 24, 2017 10:28 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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Last night I was having a wonderful conversation with a friend. We spoke about a few things but Domming was one of them and I'd like to share my understanding 
M/S and D/S Dynamics to me are about connection. This KINK connection can be sexual or not but to me it IS EROTIC. It is a bonding of two minds and bodies to one another. Pardon me as I use gender roles here specific to my mindset but they can be reversed
The S (submissive/slave) volunteers CONSENT. She gives her body and mind. She trusts him to let her body just FEEL.
The M/D (Master/Dom) volunteers CARE. He releases her mind from distraction so she may fully enjoy the pleasure and/or pain that he decided to take from her or give/deny her.
To me this is unbelievably erotic
I have dipped my toes so to speak into the Role of being a Daddy/Dom with a previous relationship. This unimaginably complex and intelligent woman chose me to give herself to. She showed me the KINK door and how to unlock that part of my mind. I will forever be in gratitude to her for that I do not yet know if I can fully embrace the practical application of a dynamic such as this because I feel I still need to grow and evolve before I can offer that to a submissive. I do however know for a fact that my mind naturally connects to this idea.
To me the Dynamic is hinged upon consent and trust and connection however the mindset has to be there to anchor that. I think the characters YODA & JAMES BOND are inspirational Doms By this I mean their minds are steel. Their logic is inescapable. Resilience is their strength. Focus of thought and will. Gadgets & guns & women and the Force and lightsabers are all very cool but they are MASTERS of their own minds and to me that is what applies to being a true Dom.
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This is what I seek in/from a partner...
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Posted:Feb 27, 2017 6:10 am
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2018 7:12 am
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I came across the following words written by someone I do not know yet their words rang true for me. I want a woman who feels this way about me...
I am hungry
Hungry for that first long lick
That sets my core a trembling
Hungry for the strength of your hands
As you hold me in place for your pleasure
Hungry for the heat of your mouth
Centered on my core
Hungry for you to take your time
Devouring me slowly
Hungry for you to drive up the intensity
With each stab of your tongue
Hungry for you to expose that hidden button
Now so swollen and sensitive
Hungry for you to play, to tease
With lips and tongue,
With teeth and mustache
Hungry for you to ready me
Inserting fingers, pumping deliciously
Hungry for you
To continue to suckle
Driving me from climax to climax
Hungry for you to play with me
Until
I am beyond this world
Until
I am sobbing your name
Until
I am twisting my head back and forth
Until
My body is writhing on the bed
Until
I am begging and pleading and sobbing
And then,
Only then
Will you
Finally
Enter me..
Hard
Fill me..
Completely
Fuck me..
As only you can….
Hard and fast
Slow and sweet
You
Fucking me
And fucking me
And fucking me……
And…
Damn…
I am hungry
I am so hungry
I am so hungry for you…..
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Surrender...
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Posted:Feb 25, 2017 8:51 pm
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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Surrender means different things to different people based upon your perspective...but our perception also plays into it as well. Every human needs to surrender...not just Subs!
Surrender is something each and every person needs to do in their life...daily surrender if their lives are to be filled with growth and meaning. What do I mean by this you might ask... why would a Domly Dom such as myself (yes... you Domly Doms reading this might ask yourself this) need to surrender...I am a Dominant... I am a Master... surrender is not in my nature.
Oh really? Have you always been conscious and aware of your need to never surrender? Have you never had to see someone else's point of view? Have you never had to admit you were wrong about anything? Have you never had to negotiate anything...you just always got your way?
If so...you seem to live a charmed life and hopefully those rose colored glasses take you beyond middle-aged to when you need bifocals because you're deluding yourself! Surrender is something done every day in small doses... yielding in traffic... letting that nice old lady in front of you in the grocery line with only 2-3 items and you have a basket full of stuff... learning and evolving as a person are acts of surrender -- because without surrender, we cannot let something from our present become our past and move on.
Learn to surrender and you'll learn to navigate the path you choose in this life with greater clarity... piece of mind... and knowledge. If you do one thing in your life, learn to surrender. It will make you a better person... your world will become a better place... and you'll find better things come back to you from the universe.
Just a thought...
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Lakeland Kinky Koffee
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Posted:Oct 16, 2016 7:52 am
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2016 9:20 am
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For any of you FETLIFER'S out there, come and check out the new event!
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Doing what's right for you...
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Posted:Oct 16, 2016 7:50 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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I've always believed in doing what's right for you (yourself) even when others may not agree it's the best thing for them. I've run into this situation twice recently (other people deciding what is right for them) and I totally respect that. At the same time however, I was the person on the other end of things...the one who didn't necessarily get what he wanted. It sucks, but it's okay. Rejection in any of its forms sucks! It can be a big blow to ones ego if you let it. Let's face it though...it might have everything or nothing to do with the person feeling rejected... sometimes it's the person deciding to reject that has the issue, be it fear or something else. It will be okay. Life goes on.
I feels things happen for a reason even when we do not understand the most sometimes the only we we can learn and grow I'd to hurt someone or be hurt by someone so pull up your Erkel pants (yes I'm saying you should pick up your balls) and deal with it!
Ju
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Kinky Koffee September 3rd in Cold Lake
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Posted:Aug 26, 2016 9:19 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2024 7:34 pm
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Hello all you kinky folks... I am organizing a Kinky Koffee in Cold Lake September 3rd... if anyone would like to attend this "Meet N Greet" then please contact me for details
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