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The question remains, is it possible
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The question remains, is it possible The Question Remains… Now that we know what we want, what we can handle and how we envision it, is it possible and does someone exist who is capable and wants what we want to give? 10 years of learning, talking, searching, and trying to perfect out dream of having a long term relationship with a third person, the perfect guy and we still wonder if it’s psssible. We have had lots of fun, have no regrets, can live without it, love it, and have learned more about ourselves and people than we could ever imagine and we have a very solid vision of how it could be and it seems normal to us. We both admit and realize everything happened at the right time; some experiences could have hurt us if they happened in the beginning of our relationship so we view it all as stepping stones. Granted, it seems that we get closer and closer to finding that perfect situation because the guys we are finding are so much closer to what we imagined and most that spend time with us, we can see them fitting into that role. As our ability to filter out the bad, the ones we do end up spending time with, we are able to see how they could fit into our relationship but there are still those little things that aren’t quite there, we try and figure out how to avoid the common pitfalls, what to say or not say, and some last longer that others, some leave us as they are afraid they do like it too much, and then others change after a while and become someone completely different. We have seen it all, some are still our friends yet we don’t play anymore as they can’t handle it, some got too jealous, most aren’t worth talking about, some fell in love and respectfully realized they would never get what they wanted, a sole relationship with my wife (usually) or on an occasion, me for themselves. We truly aren’t using them, and in most cases we end up caring for them, it’s hard to not have feelings for someone that you almost live with for 3 or 6 months and have a friendship unlike any other you know. It’s a friendship where we share everything and we are willing to share it providing it’s fun, drama free, not a burden, and everyone is capable of talking, listening and growing together. As in any relationship, you need to talk, you need to listen and I mean really listen to your partner and you need to work together to make things work. No, both my wife and I can honestly say it will never be quite even, we wont let it, but it’s close. If the guy was like me, yep, it would work for a while, years for all I know. No, we don’t know how long, we don’t have all the answers but we do no we want to love and share something with one guy and that we can do. No, we don’t bring this up when we meet people, but we will talk openly about our fantasies. Believe it or not, it all has to do with communication, honesty, intelligence, respect, and security. I know it may sound weird to some, but to us it seems real and possible, but no matter what, it’s a blast working at it together as we do truly love each other.  |
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5/26/2006 1:21 pm |
Well I 100% agree with your comment about communication. Communication is vital to all forms of relationships be it emotionally involved or not. So my question to you is when you meet these other guys do they know your expectations of what you both ar elooking for in a relationship? And when they get a clear understanding of what you are looking for then what is their reaction? Also are you looking for a guy that will be a boyfriend to the both of you? I don't think the idea sounds to crazy at all. I know these are probably questions I should be asking directly in email but I just thougt I would see. So I hope to hear from you guys soon. E
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