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truth in advertising......we style  

wickedeasy 74F
11204 posts
10/15/2016 2:09 pm
truth in advertising......we style



One’s true self is usually shown to very few. Most people show the person that they think others will find acceptable or the least unacceptable…..we are, all told, a timid lot. To be exactly who you are at all times… is this an act of courage? Or more an act of stupidity? It can result in unemployment, incarceration, shunning and isolation. And yet, they say that the truth will set you free.

So, a little truth in advertising:

I’m a liberal pragmatic anarchist. I vote largely democratic because they tend to be more liberal than the others. but that doesn’t mean I like the choices that are out there. Politicians are a particular breed and while necessary, not trustworthy…..

I am a submissive. I deeply enjoy pain and BDSM delivered by a Master who claims me as His. Understand that I have also have run agencies with huge budgets so I’m not a gidgetty dodohead. This is a sexual preference….don’t understand? Doesn’t matter. I don’t understand wife swapping or polyamory.

I have dabbled in the black arts and still have ties to the Wiccan community.

I have been arrested for my politics but consider protest key to change. I was going to say go ahead and shoot me but that’s just too real now.

I have been fired for not going along. I’ve been hired for the exact same reason. Life is rich.

I married but never bothered getting divorced.

I raised a who is now I man that fills me with pride.

I am a women’s libber, have been for eons. Gee, you ask, how can you be a sub? Oh well, life is a mass of contradictions.

I was gang r**ed at the age of 15, again at 20 and I turned into a right stinker for a while. I used men like toys for a long time. Not proud of it, but hey, payback is a bitch and so was i.

I was raised catholic, studied Buddhism and if I’m anything at all at this point, I’m a meditating fool with no clear idea of what happens when we die except that I dearly hope there is something out there.

More than anything else, I think of myself as a strong, loving woman.

Got any truth you want to tell? Or question that’s burning to be asked? Go for it. I’m a really good listener.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
10/15/2016 2:26 pm

just googled to fin out what would happen if Trump quite before the election

the RNC could vote in an alternative..........or have the delegates do so.

but it would be difficult and absentee ballots would all read trump so would be counted for the new person? or tossed

and ballots already printed? which I assume is all.......what a mess.

anyway............just a thought

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
10/15/2016 4:22 pm

And you are the best short story writer I've ever seen.

Not really a *short story*... but the beginning of a great short story.
Or the middle of one. Sometimes the end of one.

Well, they're usually very short, but ... perfect!


wickedeasy replies on 10/16/2016 9:43 am:
that's kind of you to say.

thanks, it actually made me blush

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/15/2016 8:18 pm

I'm a Marxist and I not only don't hide it, I'm proud of it. I've dabbled in Buddhism too, and I have been a meditating fool AND a medicating fool. No apologies. I have reasons for who I am. One of the things I am is very fond of you.

Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


wickedeasy replies on 10/16/2016 9:45 am:
aww, well, I love you too kzoo. your friendship and your keen mind are two of the reasons I decided to keep blogging here. smiles.

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
10/15/2016 8:33 pm

There was not a lot up there that surprised me (except the [banned topic] at 15 and 20. I am so sorry about that.)

And you are most definitely not a gidgetty dodohead


wickedeasy replies on 10/16/2016 9:46 am:
grins.

nope, i'm not. nor are you.......been knowing you for a long time so you already knew most of this stuff anyway.

HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
10/16/2016 3:05 am

Respect

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wickedeasy replies on 10/16/2016 9:47 am:
what...no questions? no big self disclosure?

sighs

Man4Lady 71M
261 posts
10/16/2016 5:10 am


Just when you think you've found yourself, it's my experience that a new experience around the corner waiting to put everything into confusion.
We are all changing constantly, when I get the money then it might be a big Mac rather than a burrito



Trust in your feelings.


wickedeasy replies on 10/16/2016 9:47 am:
lol

okay............

tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
10/16/2016 11:36 pm

Sometimes it's better if some people keep themselves to themselves but on the other hand...

I think it should be required to expose your real self for anyone in politics though. After all, people tend to be true to their nature. People should definitely know the nature of their elected leaders. Though in some cases, sadly, that doesn't seem to matter. It would be a mess if Trump resigned or as his competitors said suspended their campaigns.

I wish there had been less pain in your past... but I don't know that I would want to change you.

A truth to share... Tickles isn't really my name.

Vive La Difference


wickedeasy replies on 10/22/2016 12:11 pm:
gasps...........

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
10/31/2016 7:30 am

One of the things I have both realized and (mostly) embrace as I get older is my mass of contradictions.

I laugh and smile all the time AND am a deeply serious, intense person.

I'm about as independent as they come but lordy do I wish often for someone to take over and relieve me of that burden - but only in some specific yet undefined way that is easily gotten wrong (because, of course, how could it not when I haven't even really defined it myself) and when it's wrong, I get all sorts of prickly!

Often I'm accomplishing a ridiculous amount and other times I don't move off the couch for days.

I really like myself most of the time but often wonder why other people like me so much.

The list goes on....

One of my very favorite things about the way you write - whether stories or telling us who you are - is that you engage both my brain and my heart. I know I've said it before, you are gifted. xoxo

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
11/25/2016 6:34 pm

This seems like a good place to hide this admission: tonight, I feel like a mere shell of the woman I used to be.

Elevate me...


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