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Can a man and women be frieinds?  

mareus100 45M
135 posts
12/16/2019 6:46 pm

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Can a man and women be frieinds?


Can man in woman be friends? This wasn't my post this was somebody else's but my answer to this yes they can. I met a woman on here we started off as cyber lovers you know the cam thing then we got to know each other decided to try a long distance relationship needless to say that didn't work feelings were hurt nasty things were said threats were made even after all this I still founded that I wanted her in my life so I battled to save our friendship. Although in the beginning after a fall with a far from Friends but I persevered and pursuit that friendship after all in my eyes and in my heart I felt it was worth saving. thankful that she scene passed all my hurtful things that I said knowing I said them because I was heartbroken and didn't mean any of the hurtful things I said. We are very still very much friends so man and woman can be friends if that friendship strong and valued by both there is no reason why they can't be friends. Marius

dogslife2live01 71M

12/28/2019 3:42 am

"The definition of "pursue":
to find or employ measures to obtain or accomplish : seek pursue a goal."

Simply put, I think men do not pursue (initiate or seek if those words serve your purposes better) friendships with women, who are not already known to them, in whom they are not sexually attracted.

"...having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong"
-And that is your opinion. We all have them, and can express them as we please. Correct? You know the thing about opinions, right? They are neither right or wrong, as they are not facts. Obviously, we disagree in our OPINIONS on this matter. This is completely fine with me. I'm not trying to change your perspective on this topic. However, you seem incapable of understanding that you will not change mine. What prohibits you from accepting that *fact*?"

it is clear we share the same opinion... to hold on to our truths rather to what is written... bonne chance

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/21/2019 7:33 am

". This is clearly the case because nowhere did I say that, "...a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her." Again, I'm specific in my choice of words, so that's what you filtered."

may i quote your opening statement from your first response
" I don't think men and women can be *just* friends. I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to."

but then again i am sure i misunderstood you once more...
having a discussion with you is just like telling trump he is wrong

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/18/2019 5:01 pm

    Quoting  :

that you are and the only thing i left out was just a repetitive statement
but i even disagree that a man has to have anysexual desires for a woman to have a friendship with her.
even assuming that the friendship was started with sexual intent and then matured to a genuine friendship
then again you would be contacting your opening statement "I don't think men and women can be *just* friends"
and contradicting yourself when you state that "This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling."
unless the closing statement was meant to infer a FWB relationship
but you do understand our discussion has outgrown possible enlightenment.

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


dogslife2live01 71M

12/17/2019 12:54 pm

I don't think men and women can be *just* friends.
I firmly believe that men do not persue friendships with women they aren't sexually attracted to
This does not mean the friendship cannot be genuine or fulfilling.

reads like men are friends only with women they want sex with...but if they don't get sex then they can have a genuine friendship...

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
12/17/2019 4:22 am

What's contradicting about saying a man will only pursue a friendship with a woman he's attracted to (true) as well as saying it could be a genuine and fulfilling friendship? (also true) It's absolutely possible to have an opposite sex friendship, given that the woman has made clear that the sex part isn't going to happen and the man is man enough to be ok with that.

That being said, there are very VERY few men that can see any value to a platonic relationship. Once the possibility of sleeping with her is gone, there's no need for a friendship.


sdkyle36 39M

12/17/2019 3:01 am

one pretty much always wants to fuck the otehr


dogslife2live01 71M

12/17/2019 3:00 am

    Quoting  :

you seem to be contradicting yourself

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


IVFalternative 53M
630 posts
12/17/2019 1:25 am

Yes, there are women whose company I enjoy who I don't want sex with for one reason or another. Also women who I've had sex with before but don't want to do it again and still like talking to them. So, friends!

Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
12/16/2019 8:23 pm

Of course they can be friends. I have serval male friends to be honest I get along with guys better then women

LadyTeddieBear


lonerock2 64M

12/16/2019 8:16 pm

Absolutely. I have way more women friends than I do men.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
12/16/2019 7:34 pm

My girl friend is my best friend, I can share any thing with her..It can happen!!

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


Opportunities06 63M

12/16/2019 7:20 pm

Personally, I don’t really believe they can. Just my opinion.


mareus100 45M
106 posts
12/16/2019 6:50 pm

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