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You're such a good friend...  

alexwayne57 64M  
6 posts
7/30/2018 11:42 pm
You're such a good friend...

You're such a good friend. You're such a good listener. These two phrases, and others, spell doom for the development of any type of relationship. Other than platonic. Have you heard these phrases...spoken to you by someone you hoped to become romantically or sexually involved with? Unfortunately I have heard them many, many times. I am the good friend. I listen to everyone's problems, troubles, issues, frustrations, and sometimes joys. I hear all about the guy someone has a crush on or wants to hookup with and all the problems,etc. I listen and give advice if it seems appropriate. And then I'm left behind. The good friend who seems to always be there, yet is never good enough to be a fwb or a lover. The "really nice guy" who doesn't get the girl. Self pity...maybe. But I have to wonder what does it take for someone to see the whole picture. All I might have to offer. All those things in addition to being the good listener who is such a good friend.

alexwayne57 64M  
82 posts
7/30/2018 11:43 pm

 Obligatory first comment.


ilv2sc2 55F

8/22/2018 9:33 pm

 Hi Alex
I have the same very issue guys who i am interested in and have romantic feelings for just want to keep me for a friend rather than be fwb...i hate the phrase it's me not you....b.s. the heck it aint...i hangout with guys and i have a handful of guy friends...i am the great listener and i give great advice. but i too am left behind...how do the good friends find someone...i mean that's a large portion of why i have been single for 15 years...we deserve a relationship and we are deserving of love. not to be taken for granted under the clause of friendship. i also hate the phrase you'll find love in the least expected place....yeah that really happens snort...please spare us the relationship jargon adages...Alex i feel your pain....listen to Brian Whites Someone Elses Star...its my non relationship song...


jrinco 66M  
116 posts
8/26/2018 8:57 am

 I know just what you mean..........it has happened to me quite a few times. Very frustrating.....and aggrevating. I don't understand......but there is a lot I don't understand.....LOL
Thanks for posting!


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