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what happened??  

deej2017 78F
0 posts
6/26/2016 8:51 am
what happened??


several mos ago I met and fell for a very nice man ,,we connected so well that we had decided to meet later,,'we made a promise to each other not to play with others,,i kept my end and I think he did too,
but things have a way of changing,,i talked to him 3 weeks ago 2morro the 27th,,then I never heard from him again,,i don't know why or what happened,, but I called ,,texted and begged him to text me back ,,but nothing,,not a word,,after 4 or 5 days ,,I figured he had just picked up and left me,,why I don't understand,, how long was I to keep that promise if he never got in touch with me..
since then I looked at his profile and noticed he had visited VisionPersonals.com but I never heard from him,,why???
even one word wud b better than nothing,,if he hates me now then why not just tell me in some way,,im still deeply hurt for not hearing a word,,,of any kind,,i just wish he wud let me hear from him ,,even if he hates me,,he cud at least tell me in some way,,this has upset me greatly and wonder if I will ever talk to him again
have a nice day

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
6/26/2016 9:00 am

I had that over a shorter period of time,, Having texted or rang me every day we met... then I didn't hear from him.
I texted him and asked him if he was ok and if he'd changed his mind.
He said he hadn't but I didn't hear from him so I asked why.. he said I put him off by asking if he'd changed his mind,,,, I was waaay too pushy!!!
I'm like REALLY!!! ..
I moved on,,, and hopefully will find someone who deserves me
you should too x


Riverrunner12041 63M
39 posts
6/26/2016 9:31 am

He was married, or he lied to you. Either way you are better off now without the rude man.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
6/26/2016 4:43 pm

Happens a lot on this site, sorry to say.


deej2017 78F

6/26/2016 7:19 pm

thank yall for ur input,,much appreciated


notmefirst 50M
68 posts
7/11/2016 9:30 am

Yea probably got all he wanted and moved on to the next conquest


wildwinds50 74M
41 posts
7/13/2016 6:46 pm

In my opinion, he was just looking to have an internet affair and never intended to actually meet you. He got caught up in the affair and took it too far. You are much better off without him. He knew your hot buttons and pushed them. That is one of the problems with sites like this. There are too many players of both sexes. They enjoy the hunt but when it comes down to actually following through they skip out the back door. There are good ones here but you have to sift through all the chaff. You are too good for him.


deej2017 78F

7/18/2016 5:05 pm

thank u wind,,u may b rt on point,, it did hurt me a lot,, but I still wish I cud at least know hes ok,, no one has heard from him,,or so they have said,,
I was very wrapped up in this man ,,maybe too much and I cant tell the honest from the dishonest,, I thot he was very honest but I guess he was just playing me for the fool I am
it wont happen again hopefully,,
thank u


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