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What are some guys afraid of?
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What are some guys afraid of? I don't go for generalizations at all, lol, so please note that I said 'some guys'...we are all different so please don't take offense if you are not one of the guys I speak of here...hugs A recent blog from a fellow blogger...and several of the responses...fit into something I have been thinking about lately.... Sex as a priority in a relationship for ppl on this site... I totally understand the need, the hunger, the joy of sex...I wish I had more of it and really do miss the physical act, the intimacy...the whole thing. I am looking for friendship before the sex....is sex guaranteed? To be honest, no, it's not. Holding up my hand to those ppl who will instantly say I should not be on this site then. Heard it, understand it, it's your opinion, moving on lol I am not looking to get married. I am more than willing to start engaging in fun, hot, flirty sex with a friend when we turn each other on. It seems, recently with chats with some guys, local and not so local, that if sex is not a guaranteed thing and more from the get-go rather than down the line after a few dates thing...they are not interested. And that's ok. To each their own. Everyone is different. I don't like it when some ppl put me down because I am not willing to put out sex, no matter what, from the get-go but that's their issue, not mine. I do think there is room on this site for all sorts of wants and such. I suppose guys who are more interested in guaranteed sex, from the get-go, just are not interested in putting in the time and effort to establish a friendship with a woman. No criticism there intended, just a statement of opinion. I understand there can be a connection from the get-go and if that leads to sex right away, fantastic. Been there, done that. Some ppl won't even do the first meet though if guaranteed sex is not part of the equation. And I wish there were more guys willing to have a few good, fun dates to find out if sex is the path to take. As one of the responders said to that fellow bloggers post...sex is in the top 5 priorities in my life and when meeting someone...based on who they are and how we are together at a meet, that priority could be #1 or it could be #5...or not even on the list. Thanks for listening. Have a great Friday everyone!  Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles |
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very good post!!!
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oh, there are others that think like  you and thanks for putting it out there on our behalf
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My opinion has changed. I have had to make a few long distance journeys to meet women which ended up with having sex on the first and only (weekend) meet. I now feel that sex shouldn't be the #1 priority. 
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3/25/2016 5:38 pm |
you just stick to you guns my dear.. you do what you feel you need to do and if the other person cant take it.. well that just to bad. everyone needs to respect the each others position. and i m sure there are "some" that know waiting is worth there while. face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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Makes perfect sense to me. AB No Bozos
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For me I much rather have a few fun meets first. If sex happens cool and if not its still cool. Friendship always comes first I think.
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You have stated yourself very well. I believe that sex should be an extension of two sharing a very intimate moment, after they have shared, gotten to know each other, have that chemistry that says they want to share themselves with each other.
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