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NO MEANS NO  

Cuddly_Kitten 54F
15132 posts
8/2/2018 5:19 am
NO MEANS NO


Guys, I know when you are in a hot and steamy situation.... it's hard to hear the word "NO"... or "I don't want to go that far"..... But you should respect the word NO.....

Alcohol can play a huge part in your reaction as well..... But even when the woman has had a few drinks.... if she says No.... you should not pressure her any further...

A few years ago... I let things go too far with a man I was dating... at the last minute I said, "I don't want to do this right now... I'm not ready".... and he blocked the door and said, "Are you really gonna do this to me"....
I was scared ..... and I felt bullied and pressured....

When a woman says NO.... Do you respect that????

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lickeyzsplit 61M
1516 posts
8/2/2018 5:24 am

No means NO ! Quite simple


drizzt10768 55M  
160 posts
8/2/2018 5:28 am

Simplest question you've ever asked. No means no. You back off and compose yourself. If you, for some unknown reason can't, leave. It's not your body therefore not your personal playtoy.


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
8/2/2018 5:28 am

yes!!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
8/2/2018 5:33 am

Hello Kitten!
Yes if a lady says no you have to respect that and not be pushy. Never pressure a lady ever!
Classy Cat
Butch


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:35 am



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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:36 am

    Quoting drizzt10768:
    Simplest question you've ever asked. No means no. You back off and compose yourself. If you, for some unknown reason can't, leave. It's not your body therefore not your personal playtoy.


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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:36 am

Hi Tiger Cat

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:36 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello Kitten!
    Yes if a lady says no you have to respect that and not be pushy. Never pressure a lady ever!
    Classy Cat
    Butch
Hi Classy Cat

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:36 am

    Quoting  :

Hello GreyHawk

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Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/2/2018 5:40 am

Why I stopped contact with a man from this site. Shouldn't have to keep saying no in mail to something he wanted when we would meet for the first time. How do I know I could trust him? I use that as a example that a person isn't a fake because she/he stopped contact.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:43 am

    Quoting Brownie202:
    Why I stopped contact with a man from this site. Shouldn't have to keep saying no in mail to something he wanted when we would meet for the first time. How do I know I could trust him? I use that as a example that a person isn't a fake because she/he stopped contact.
that is a huge warning sign and you did the right thing

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CumchatwMike 48M
255 posts
8/2/2018 5:49 am

Sucks that it happened to you! When a woman says no... it actually means "hell no"... And a respectful man like me will definitely stop and back off... I'll jerk off or do what I need to but never push myself into someone that does not want to be pushed on!! Besides... Fucking someone that wants to be fucked is so much sexier...


Homefry222 57M
66 posts
8/2/2018 5:50 am

No means No.....simple as that. It sucks to hear "we can do that right now" after getting all worked up, but I have to imagine it sucks a LOT more wearing stripes and sitting in a cell. Respect the woman and her feelings!


TB5758 65M/67F
577 posts
8/2/2018 5:50 am

It does to me, basic human respect. Not really that hard to ask really. A real man can control himself at all times. It is the difference between us and animals really, control over ourselves.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:57 am

    Quoting  :

WE gotta be safe...

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:58 am

    Quoting CumchatwMike:
    Sucks that it happened to you! When a woman says no... it actually means "hell no"... And a respectful man like me will definitely stop and back off... I'll jerk off or do what I need to but never push myself into someone that does not want to be pushed on!! Besides... Fucking someone that wants to be fucked is so much sexier...
thank you

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:58 am

    Quoting Homefry222:
    No means No.....simple as that. It sucks to hear "we can do that right now" after getting all worked up, but I have to imagine it sucks a LOT more wearing stripes and sitting in a cell. Respect the woman and her feelings!
Thank you Homey Cat

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Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 5:58 am

    Quoting TB5758:
    It does to me, basic human respect. Not really that hard to ask really. A real man can control himself at all times. It is the difference between us and animals really, control over ourselves.


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tmacshane26 39M
2092 posts
8/2/2018 6:00 am

Yes! No means no I don't do anything that a woman feels uncomfortable with. We will talk first to see what she likes and enjoys before we even think of having fun in the bedroom.

I hate when men are controlling and can't understand when a woman says no they then have to be a controlling male who will do anything to get what he wants.

I don't drink very often so even if I do I'm not a violent person. I will always respect a woman's decision.


Cuddly_Kitten 54F
6354 posts
8/2/2018 6:02 am

    Quoting tmacshane26:
    Yes! No means no I don't do anything that a woman feels uncomfortable with. We will talk first to see what she likes and enjoys before we even think of having fun in the bedroom.

    I hate when men are controlling and can't understand when a woman says no they then have to be a controlling male who will do anything to get what he wants.

    I don't drink very often so even if I do I'm not a violent person. I will always respect a woman's decision.


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qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
8/2/2018 6:04 am

Yes I always respect the word. No it is not easy but it is all part of being responsible and adult


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
8/2/2018 6:27 am

no does mean no, so stop everything when you hear it and respect the person's wishes


BIANCHI61956 68M
183 posts
8/2/2018 7:37 am

if the situation arises that a male is led down a garden path to a gold mine then is told no...............no it is and reevaluate the situation and analyze it....do not use the brain that is in the end of your dick....use the one upstairs and really think about things.........ask yourself if you want to go through the frustration again...............back away..........it might be a red flag that is an indicator of future frustration...........control issues............like playing with tnt


A1Xpleaser 65M
417 posts
8/2/2018 9:03 am

Whole heartily agree!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
8/2/2018 9:20 am

NO should ALWAYS mean NO, but some guys dont hear it that way, and some women dont say it in a way that will stop men who really only want to hear what they want to hear! I have always felt NO was STOP NOW, but I am me, and I am not always representative of the average man. If a man doesnt stop when told NO, then a nee to the groin is totally justified! And if that doesnt worcc, then a frying pan to the head, or as much as is required !


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